The labels "gay," "lesbian," "bisexual," and "transgendered" have been used as epithets against us for years. The only way this changes is for people like you and Cynthia Nixon to embrace these terms and make them your own.
I suppose I'm tired of people claiming that bisexuality doesn't exist, which is what Nixon is saying here. That seems much more Santorum-esque than what I've said above.
"I don’t pull out the 'bisexual' word because nobody likes the bisexuals. Everybody likes to dump on the bisexuals."
It is absolutely the case that no one gets to define Nixon's sexuality for her, but it's equally true that I'm entitled to deplore Nixon's choice of words and call her out as someone who isn't comfortable with being bisexual, which she clearly is.
I wish she hadn't said what she said, because she has a public platform that few of us have, and her words are destructive, perhaps inadvertently so, to the cause of LGBT civil rights.
Here's a link to the quote:
Sounds like a real cock.