Dear Arden, You confuse us! Part of us sees you as a normal albeit flighty young lady who is merely the product of privilege and a desire to be different from the other socialites but the other part, and I mean this not in a mean way, can't stand your airs of bohemian quirkiness nor your claims to not want to be part of the shallow social scene. No one is forcing you! That said, I actually like the headband. Overriding question: Are you really real?