Addiction to substances such as drugs and alcohol are readily accepted. The behavioral addictions are a little bit harder for some to understand. For drugs and alcohol, you can entirely abstain from. With a behavior like gambling or shoplifting, abstention is ideal.
What's harder though are behavioral addictions that have to be integrated into life as a healthy element. You can't give up certain processes like eating, sex, or shopping. You have to eat, make love, or buy essentials eventually. Trying to find the balance between cycles of binging and purging, complete celibacy and nymphomania, or whatever is a bit more complex. I believe that a combination of twelve-step programs and therapy, it's easier finding the right balance would be clarified. #sexytime
@plasticene: With regard to medication and sex addiction, I've often heard that unsurprisingly anti-depressants work. This is not some anti-Viagra. Often times the side effects of such common ones like Prozac, Paxil, Wellbutrin, Zoloft, and others are decreased libidos. A therapist who specializes in sex addiction could probably recommend a psychiatrist regarding treatment options.
@The Curse of Millhaven: I wouldn't wish addiction to anything on anyone, but point well taken.
Claiming that addiction is somehow mere "feebleness of the mind" and not a disease of both the mind and the body is staggeringly stupid. Peyser may be feigning ignorance because she's a two-bit agit-hackerette, but seriously: UGH! #sexytime
@snugbug: If you're suggesting that Steve Phillips is a real addict, and not simply a jerk who got caught with his pants down, then I'm amazed. And at the same time, strangely intrigued! #sexytime
@plasticene: I honestly haven't even followed the Steve Phillips debacle closely enough to have an opinion on it either way. I was just objecting to Peyser's generic barfola statement that "addiction is not a true disease." That seems to be her nut graph in the column, no? #sexytime
Peyser! Peyser! Like a geyser
Of bitter misanthropic bile!
When Gawkerees outright despise ya,
Best to disappear awhile.
You like to lecture, even hector
New Yorkers with your evil screeds
And though no one would want to sex ya
We understand - you still have needs.
Hence the picture of your pussy
Patriotic cloth askew
He looks like he is not too fussy
Yet he wants to flee from you!
As advertising or as bait
Your pussy pic does serve you ill
You radiate just so much hate
No one will eat you...
But when you die alone?
Your pussy will. #sexytime
That figurine is like the gymnastics "Last Supper". Why is Mary Lou Retton in Judas's role and turning away from the Lord? Because she is sinful little hussy who sexed up her floor program!
It is such a pain when your kid grows up to become this big world famous hotshot. Suddenly everybody's a starfucker. And to top it off, Jesus just won't quit cock-blocking me. The wingman has become quite the playa. But watch out, Jay-Jay. Cuz I's the SupaPimp, biyatch!
@God: No kidding about Jesus. Jesus this, Jesus that. And always with the football. Where the hell is the Holy Spirit these days? Shouldn't the Virgin Mary have something to say on this topic?
@son of spam: The Holy Spirit is a rad dude. He has the best drugs because he travels to all sorts of cool locations and gets into the hippest parties. The only problem is that he kept pooping all over My living room cos he's a bird. So I got fed up and put him in a cage in My basement.
And no, Mary has nothing to say on this. She's not one of those opinionated, hairy, loudmouth feminists that the Satan worshippers love so much. She's a nice lady with some class.
@God: I heard Mary wears Mormon underwear when she goes to bed with Joseph so she can keep on being a virgin so as not to disappoint the Catholics. What's it made out of, Lord?
@BookishLookish: I like Mary to mix it up: Mormon undies, thongs, granny panties, adult diapers, even going commando. Whatever pleases her. It's not like I control her all the time or whatever the crazy feminists will have you believe. Heh.
Oh and Mary doesn't go to bed with Joseph. The last time she did that was ages ago and then I showed up at her place and killed her pet lamb and boiled it.
Just a general rule of thumb: Never accept a drink from someone who has religious figurines in their home. Um, yeah. There's just too much Jesus and Pubis in that one there. Or did my mind just make that leap?
Also, I so thought that said, "Jesus is my couch. I was very confused for a second.
@valet_of_the_dolls: Some homemade combination of lemonade and sulfuric mouth drool, warm and sunbaked. I hear the senses tend to get a little sluggish with age, so I can't totally blame the hostess, but let's just say it was like drinking cat urine. Urg....and now I've got a flashback. Blergehah!
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What's harder though are behavioral addictions that have to be integrated into life as a healthy element. You can't give up certain processes like eating, sex, or shopping. You have to eat, make love, or buy essentials eventually. Trying to find the balance between cycles of binging and purging, complete celibacy and nymphomania, or whatever is a bit more complex. I believe that a combination of twelve-step programs and therapy, it's easier finding the right balance would be clarified. #sexytime
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Claiming that addiction is somehow mere "feebleness of the mind" and not a disease of both the mind and the body is staggeringly stupid. Peyser may be feigning ignorance because she's a two-bit agit-hackerette, but seriously: UGH! #sexytime
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Of bitter misanthropic bile!
When Gawkerees outright despise ya,
Best to disappear awhile.
You like to lecture, even hector
New Yorkers with your evil screeds
And though no one would want to sex ya
We understand - you still have needs.
Hence the picture of your pussy
Patriotic cloth askew
He looks like he is not too fussy
Yet he wants to flee from you!
As advertising or as bait
Your pussy pic does serve you ill
You radiate just so much hate
No one will eat you...
But when you die alone?
Your pussy will. #sexytime
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C'est réciproque #sexytime
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Maybe she sought help, and help didn't return her calls? #sexytime
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And he took them up in his arms, *put his hands upon them*, and blessed them. Mark 10:16, emphasis, BL
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And no, Mary has nothing to say on this. She's not one of those opinionated, hairy, loudmouth feminists that the Satan worshippers love so much. She's a nice lady with some class.
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Oh and Mary doesn't go to bed with Joseph. The last time she did that was ages ago and then I showed up at her place and killed her pet lamb and boiled it.
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Also, I so thought that said, "Jesus is my couch. I was very confused for a second.
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Cobra Wine is a helluva drink.
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