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City_Dater
06/03/09

In reply to Shocking Double Life of a Campus Feminist
So we aren't allowed to have ANY fun if we support such notions as equal pay for equal work/parenting leave for fathers/prosecution of rapists that doesn't involve airing the victim's irrelevant sexual history, etc.?

Jessica, you may or may not be a feminist, but you are surely a fool.
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allyzay
06/03/09

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who fucking cares? also when can i expect 40,000 words on this on jezebel?
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Megan
06/03/09

@allyzay: Hmm, I'm gonna say, a quarter to never? Given that I'm the long essayist and all.
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ellagood
06/02/09

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ohhhh. and i bet the head of the football team was really a homo.
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johnny_carsick
06/02/09

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i'm a trotskyist and yet i like having an ice pick put through my skull in bed. how do i reconcile?
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kithkin
06/02/09

@johnny_carsick: I'm a Rasputinist and I ... nevermind.
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johnny_carsick
06/02/09

@kithkin: you busy later?
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skahammer
06/02/09

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Always wanting to be the one spanked -- just me, me, me, all the time. But does the spankee ever reciprocate? Huh?
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Tardy
06/02/09

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For a second there, I thought the name was Jessica Wakefield/b>, and wondered why Gawker was linking to a LiveJournal page of Sweet Valley High fan fiction....
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Tardy
06/02/09

@Tardy: tags...grrrrrrr...
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MissNormaDesmond
06/02/09

@Tardy: Oh, damn. I know your pain. Where did preview go? I miss it.
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iplaudius
06/02/09

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Good for her. Probably women who are used to being in positions of power and organizational control find themselves in the same position as the male CEOs who seek dominatrices: people in power desire a break from the pressure of their position; it feels good to relinquish control to someone else.
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MissNormaDesmond
06/02/09

@iplaudius: Yup. Enjoying power exchange is all kinds of things. A reason to question your feminism isn't one of them.
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Mama Penguino
06/02/09

In reply to Shocking Double Life of a Campus Feminist
Oh, for crying out loud. Feminism and spanking are not mutually exclusive! Although, now that I think about it, as a former card-carrying member of N.O.W. (ended my membership when they wouldn't support Paula Jones), the women in my college chapter scared the shit out of me. My college BFF and I were the only straight women in the group and we were always met with suspicion because they knew we were probably being spanked, and worse, by men.
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forwardmotion
06/02/09

@Mama Penguino: Don't worry. All those women that scared you in college are now married to men, live in the burbs and blog about their kids' allergies.
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Kosar Söze
06/02/09

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Well, I'm desperate for a blow job and a silent turkey sandwich, but it doesn't take me 2500 words to rationalize it.
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Mama Penguino
06/02/09

@SnarkTwain: In fact, less than 25! Here's hoping your wishes are fulfilled soon!
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Lulupasternak
06/02/09

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Money quote:

"I'm not ashamed anymore, and I don't have to pussyfoot around asking for what I really want: I absolutely have to be submissive and spanked often, if not all the time, in order to enjoy sex. "

She's dominant about submission. America's Next Top Bottom.
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MissNormaDesmond
06/02/09

@Lulupasternak: Okay, but I can heart you.

She really can't have been much of a feminist if she thinks this is that big a deal. I mean, this was a hot controversy in about 1983.
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kithkin
06/02/09

@MissNormaDesmond: Right, who is she talking to, Andrea Dworkin? But oh, oh, I'm hot and I like hot sex! Sex is sexy, especially when it makes you feel so good, and then so bad.
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skahammer
06/03/09

@kithkin: Where the hell were you when I was studying critical theory and hearing all about how the patriarchy had brainwashed even me, who putatively shares its race and gender?
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Wrapitup
06/02/09

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Why don't guys ever broadcast their innermost angst-ridden psychosexual conflicts over the Internet?
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valet_of_the_dolls
06/02/09

@Wrapitup: MM0RPG
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forwardmotion
06/02/09

@Wrapitup: I thought the internet WAS the broadcast of their innermost angst-ridden psychosexual conflicts.
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Asmo
06/02/09

@forwardmotion: 4chan.org

That is all.
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skahammer
06/03/09

@Asmo: 4chan seems pretty relaxed to me -- lazy, even. Are you sure you're using the correct definition of "angst"?
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bigazzkidlisberger
06/02/09

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Spanking's hot and has nothing to do with being a feminist. Feminists are allowed to get off too, and it's a shame an idea that's supposed to advance the lives of women can make some of them ashamed of certain aspects of their sexuality. I'm glad she realized feminism isn't this rigid code that says women can't enjoy when men take control of some situations...especially in the bedroom!
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Kitten_Witawip
06/02/09

@bigazzkid: Maybe by "be spanked" she really meant "be a stay at home mom".
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Lulupasternak
06/02/09

@Kitten_Witawip: She just forgot to add "in a fundie marriage, barefoot, and pregnant with a Down Syndrome baby".
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DoctorEcks
06/02/09

@Lulupasternak:
HEY!...LEAVE SARAH ALOOOONE!!!!
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Almostbanned
06/02/09

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I've known women with verrry similar stories. One in particular who was a big time campus feminist, NOW member and so forth, who literally asked to be beaten up during sex. Like, to the point of crying, bruises and bloody noses. Even choking and razor blades occasionally. Her only rule was no swelling or discoloration on her face. Otherwise she wanted it all. I had to get out of the relationship because it got way too weird.

Thats an extreme situation, but I've met several 'feminists' that wanted some pretty degrading things in the bedroom.
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Calraigh
06/02/09

@Almostbanned: So you're saying you have a type then?
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skahammer
06/02/09

@Almostbanned: Forgive me, but I have a hard time envisioning you making time with any feminists. That's what you're saying, right?
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Almostbanned
06/02/09

@skahammer: Yeah, its actually funny, because as much of a crazy republican as I am, a pretty good amount of girls I've dated have been feminist/bookworm types. Oddly enough, we seem to have chemistry.
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Niko Bellic
06/03/09

@Almostbanned: You have a chemistry with fucked up women who don't know what's good for them, you dope.
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skahammer
06/03/09

@Niko Bellic: In life, though, you work with what you have, don't you?
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Astigmatism
06/02/09

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I totally sympathize. I'm really worried that my friends in Greenpeace will discover that I secretly want to get drilled off the coast of Texas.
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El Matardillo
06/02/09

@Astigmatism: Bless your heart.
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MissNormaDesmond
06/02/09

@Astigmatism: I already hearted you, so I can't do it again, or I so would.
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valet_of_the_dolls
06/02/09

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I'm not clicking on a link to "The Frisky" at work, but if I may extrapolate from the quote, the gist of this is that she realized that she could/couldn't reconcile her feminist principles with her desire to be submissive in a relationship?
That's it?
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