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Anderson Cooper's Boyfriend: The Shirtless Edition

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dreweverett
11/24/09

In reply to Time Inc's Pre-Thanksgiving Layoffs
At least one print outlet is being "resurrected." From TPM - "Staff of the Southern Voice, a gay weekly in Atlanta and one of the handful of publications shut down abruptly by parent company Window Media last week, have received a $12,000 matching grant to start a new publication. "

Anyway, thought some good news would be in order...

[tpmlivewire.talkingpointsmemo.com]

#Tips
#The Gays
#Thingswelike
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pot-pourri
11/06/09

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He's kind of a jerk. He once yelled at my friend for tipping him $1 on a $4 drink special. It's like, fuck you, douchebag. Don't you own this place? #benjaminmaisani
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Don Servillas
11/03/09

In reply to Anderson Cooper's Boyfriend: The Shirtless Edition
I don't understand some gay men. Some are gifted like this one, a CUNY scholar with a 4.0 GPA, yet he got stuck in the chelsea gay stereotype of being a steroid queen and posing almost naked in gay magazines and owning a gay bar! I mean c'mon, if you are gifted with intelligence and talent, why not go out and change the world? I guess the superficial life of gay glitz, glamour and circuit parties is just too enticing for some. #benjaminmaisani
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mostlymartian
11/03/09

@Don Servillas: How many people are really changing the world at their job? There are lots of high flying lucrative careers that have lots of superficiality and don't make the world a better place.

He's his own boss, he's not stuck in cubicle-land, he works with friends, and he's around cute gay guys. He and his partners maintain nice bodies they sometimes use in ways to help promote their small business. Maybe he put fun over ambition, but I'm not seeing how his life path is so horrible. #benjaminmaisani
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Alessar
11/04/09

@mostlymartian: I'm not either. If you're making a good living and enjoying life... that's fantastic. In comparison I took my near 4.0 gpa and got a dead end office job and a spare tire. #benjaminmaisani
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BettyCrocker
11/03/09

In reply to Anderson Cooper's Boyfriend: The Shirtless Edition
Schweaty! #benjaminmaisani
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jok695
11/03/09

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Hear, hear! to MessiahsHandle. As a fan of the Coop, I've been surprised at the choice of mates he's been associated with. Sounds totally snotty, but welcome to the real world. An Ivy Leaguer and so-called world respected journalist traipsing about with cookie cutter wine salesmen (Julio) and bartenders (Ben)? Is there such a shortage of gay men who can match him point for point in terms of refinement and education? Lucky boys these guys who get to marry WAY above their stations, and only because of the way they look. I supposed Andy is truly gay after all. Typical shallow looksist elitist queen.
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manchops
11/03/09

@jok695: AC has actually gone up a few notches in my book for this kinda thing. Hell, he's human. I think I'd be more apt to call him shallow/lookist/elitist if I had to open up the styles of the times and see his wedding photos to some other huge media freak such as the trump/kushner nuptials from a week ago. Slum on silver fox! #benjaminmaisani
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Zira
11/03/09

@jok695: Dating someone you're attracted to doesn't make you shallow. But I wonder how the Coop and Maisani can have a normal relationship when Maisani is tending bar into the wee hours of the night each night including weekends. They must be on totally different schedules. #benjaminmaisani
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mostlymartian
11/03/09

@Oryx Hearts Crake: Maisani has been doing very little of the bartending at his bar for months. He has bartending partners and staff bartenders. He's seen out all the time doing things with AC. #benjaminmaisani
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mostlymartian
11/03/09

@jok695: You actually sound like the elitist one. "Above their stations"? Are we in the 1800s?

Cooper is a well travelled guy who comes across as very down to earth for a wealthy famous Vanderbilt. What's the big deal what if he's attracted to immigrants working common jobs instead of American Ivy League captains of industry?

Lookism? Julio and Ben look like cute and fit guys in their 30s but I doubt either one of them has been fighting off modelling contracts. #benjaminmaisani
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MincnglyWhrdL'mer
11/03/09

In reply to Anderson Cooper's Boyfriend: The Shirtless Edition
this is hysterical. he's actually much better looking in person, and (in my limited experience) surprisingly NICE #benjaminmaisani
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MessiahsHandle
11/03/09

In reply to Anderson Cooper's Boyfriend: The Shirtless Edition
When I heard that the Coop was dating this guy it was as if something inside had died... forgive the melodrama, but I believe in this case it's warranted. You imagine that a smart, successful journalist would chose someone who was worthy of...at the very least, my intellectual fantasy. An equally smart and successful gay, quiet, maybe bookish, or perhaps a designer or artist - not tortured, but focused and independent. Someone who's able to stand on his own whilst Anderson is braving hurricanes on the gulf coast or dodging bullets in Waziristan...but alas Coop you consistently choose the stereotypical gays. Hunky boricuas, twinky latinos, and now a muscly beefcake beau hunk who straddles the line between Sean Cody and Honcho... more often shirtless than shirted..AND owner of a gay bar? Really, Andy? He can't even publicly declare he's gay, but chooses time and time again to shop at the Duplex? It's all so terribly cliché. Well enough is enough, my celebrity crush is officially over...That's "Se acabo" to you, Anderson. Ok Maisani was the valedictorian at CUNY, but I think the naked arm wrestling, the fondling of drag queens, the perpetual shirtlessness has nullified what little respect I may have had for the man. This guy had better be a fucking closeted Proust scholar before I regain any respect for the Coop. But somehow I fear that it's just too late, baby.
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MincnglyWhrdL'mer
11/03/09

@MessiahsHandle: I'm sure coop is devistated to have lost you. really. #benjaminmaisani
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mostlymartian
11/03/09

@MessiahsHandle: Pretty much all the male celebrity gays choose partners substantially less successful than themselves, no? The closest thing to a power couple I can think of is Siegried and Roy, and I don't even know if they're actually a couple.

Dating someone opposite to you in some ways can be good. Two repressed quiet whitebread WASPs would be one really repressed quiet whitebread household. And would a bookish designer be up for things like shark diving and the Real Housewives of Atlanta? #benjaminmaisani
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StonedAndDethroned
11/03/09

@MessiahsHandle: Save it for your therapist, buddy. #benjaminmaisani
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Urbania
11/03/09

@MessiahsHandle: Yeah. That. All those words you typed. Or, you know, the guy might be an extraordinarily loving person, which is exactly what Anderson Cooper is looking for. #benjaminmaisani
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Mariallena
11/03/09

@mostlymartian:
" The closest thing to a power couple I can think of is Siegried and Roy, "

The original American gay power couple were J Edgard Hoover and Clyde Tolson.

They ruled (and completely transformed) law enforcement in this country for 4 decaddes. #benjaminmaisani
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Alessar
11/04/09

@MessiahsHandle: CUNY scholar with 4.0 GPA who owns his own business (albeit a bar/club) is not exactly a himbo. #benjaminmaisani
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Zira
11/02/09

In reply to Anderson Cooper's Boyfriend: The Shirtless Edition
The man dressed in drag in photo no. 5 in the original gallery is Anderson Cooper. (I'm surprised noone else noticed.) #benjaminmaisani
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mostlymartian
11/02/09

@Oryx Hearts Crake: No, it's not Anderson Cooper in no. 5. That would have made quite a story, though. #benjaminmaisani
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xyzpdq
11/02/09

@mostlymartian: i don't know...look at the 'chick's' nose and then at Anderson's nose in this pic #benjaminmaisani
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mostlymartian
11/03/09

@xyzpdq: AC has a thinner face, a more pointed nose tip, and much paler skin.

More importantly the guy in the pic is man named Stephen (who posted about it here: [stephenrader.blogspot.com] ). #benjaminmaisani
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Spirit Fingers
11/02/09

In reply to Anderson Cooper's Boyfriend: The Shirtless Edition
Sorry, I'm not feeling the hawt. He looks a little geeky, slightly cross-eyed, and uh, sweaty. Somehow I'm getting a post gym pitt-waft vibe from him. I'd much prefer a well cut, tailored shirt and pant, than the ubiquitous chippendales beefcake shot. #benjaminmaisani
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Elektra
11/03/09

@Spirit Fingers: "post gym pitt-waft": You say that as if it's a bad thing. #benjaminmaisani
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atlasfugged
11/02/09

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The dude has really big ... ears. #benjaminmaisani
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IpsoFacto
11/02/09

In reply to Anderson Cooper's Boyfriend: The Shirtless Edition
Total roid body. Not that there's anything wrong with that... #benjaminmaisani
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Colander
11/02/09

@IpsoFacto: It's possible to work out for years and reach a point where you're a big guy, without taking steroids. That's why they make protein. #benjaminmaisani
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bluebears
11/02/09

@IpsoFacto: agreed. he would fit right in on one of the mtv challenges. #benjaminmaisani
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TheFuriousFive
11/02/09

@IpsoFacto: If that guy is on steroids, then he's wasting his money. As he, and many other men, can get to that size very naturally.

Just because most lack the discipline to work on and take care of their body, doesn't mean that those who do, are mindlessly shooting up.

Drop the excuses, pick up a piece of iron. You just may be surprised at the results. #benjaminmaisani
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iplaudius
11/03/09

@TheFuriousFive: Seriously. That is not a “roid body,” not at all. People who do not work out say that whenever they see anyone who has gone through the trouble.

It has happened to me, and I find it insulting.

If this guy were on steroids, his body would look totally different. I would expect more exaggerated proportions, more vascularity, and leaner, more angular forms generally.

Personally, I think he looks good: he has a very strong, naturally developed build: not a kouros, but rather a young Hercules. #benjaminmaisani
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Eustace Silly
11/03/09

@iplaudius: You know what's the worst? When your boyfriend/partner of 5 years asks if you're on steriods. (And then of course proceeds to tell you he doesn't care.) #benjaminmaisani
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iplaudius
11/03/09

@Eustace Silly: Yikes. I don’t know what’s worse, his thinking that you were on steroids or his being OK with your keeping that information from him. I would’ve been like, “No, AND DO YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH MY BODY SUDDENLY?” #benjaminmaisani
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Baroness
11/02/09

In reply to Anderson Cooper's Boyfriend: The Shirtless Edition

Ah, he's all right. I can't believe you haven't covered the story that one of the men he's kissing is the actor who plays Mr. Shue on "Glee". It looks mightily like him. Dude was tap-dancing on Broadway before the show, just saying. Dlisted: #benjaminmaisani
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Matt Cherette
11/02/09

@Baroness: This GIF pretty much proves that it isn't the same person (unfortunately).

You'll probably have to click on the image to get the animation to work. #benjaminmaisani
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Baroness
11/02/09

@mattchew03: How so? He's making an exaggerated expression with the tongue out there, distorting his features. And in full profile..what exactly about the GIF?

The one thing that makes me think it isn't him is the mole on Schue's cheek.

It probably isn't him, but it's fun to speculate, no?
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Matt Cherette
11/02/09

@Baroness: For me, the main (and critical) difference is the ear, and specifically attached earlobe vs. detached earlobe. #benjaminmaisani
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marin79
11/02/09

@Baroness: Mole & ear both look off... Michael K @ [www.dlisted.com] (hilariously) studied it & didn't think it was Schu (He cares since Maisani is getting in the way of him getting his Boo [Cooper]!) MK is fucking hilarious if you don't read him already!

And of course, much fun to speculate!!!
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Baroness
11/02/09

@marin79: He had fancy Hollywood ear surgery because he knew this shocking picture would emerge someday! ¡Escandalo!
Pass it on.. #benjaminmaisani
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iplaudius
11/02/09

@Baroness: ¡Dios mios! #benjaminmaisani
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lobstr
11/02/09

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You're only vindicating Rush Limbaugh's claim about this being a Rainbow-filled Homo-centric Left-leaning Llama-Breeding Blog-a-tron #benjaminmaisani
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Airvault
11/02/09

@lobstr: "... I think of us that way sometimes and I live here!" #benjaminmaisani
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deardearfriend
11/02/09

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I can't get over how much he looks like "Nick" from "Family Ties."
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dieresis
11/02/09

@deardearfriend: Aside from voluptuous breasts, I don’t see the resemblance. #benjaminmaisani
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bluebears
11/02/09

@dieresis: its around the eyes #benjaminmaisani
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mostlymartian
11/02/09

In reply to Anderson Cooper's Boyfriend: The Shirtless Edition
Brian, your link here sends readers off to some website called trends.coolerchoice. I thought you might want to know. You guys get paid by the number of visitors to your articles, right? I'm guessing peddling beefcake pics of AC's boyfriend is supposed to be a big payday for you not for trendscoolerchoice. #benjaminmaisani
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Brian Moylan
11/02/09

@mostlymartian: I don't know how that happened. And I'm not doing this to make more money, I'm doing it to share the joy of a shirtless Benjamin Maisani, because, really, just lust look at him! #benjaminmaisani
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