@xyzpdq: No stereotype -- some are just naturally givers; others, receivers. Seeming butch doesn't make one a top anymore than seeming fey makes one a bottom.
I think the NYC numbers are a bit warped. From what I've, uhm, heard, there is an insane number of bottoms in this city. And all the "vers" guys are really just bottoms in disguise. We need to work on this, people.
What about us followers of the 'middle way'? Sometimes you're looking to bottom but when you open the door and see who's on the threshold you go "uhm, I think I'll be topping today." Or vice-versa.
@propertius: no, that was an art movement. the term is 'versatile'
made more confusing by the fact that 'top' generally means 'versatile', and 'versatile' generally means 'bottom'. and 'bottom' means - well, you don't want to know.
@Kid Twist" Really? I thought commenters here were the types to black out most of their nights and not remember if actual sex or weeping happened, just that they've woken up with strange cuts and bruises and an empty wallet..
@bytememehard: Actually, the gold star means "polymorphously perverse," as any good psychoanalyst will tell ya. Pervert.
@HiredGoons: You're confused, you're probably blacking out as we speak. Just tape a note to the naked chest of the man beside you that reads, "Don't wake me when you leave unless you're buying breakfast. Signed, Alphonse."
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made more confusing by the fact that 'top' generally means 'versatile', and 'versatile' generally means 'bottom'. and 'bottom' means - well, you don't want to know.
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2 tops or 2 bottoms is an issue.
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@bytememehard: Actually, the gold star means "polymorphously perverse," as any good psychoanalyst will tell ya. Pervert.
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