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    12/04/09

    In reply to GLAAD's Okay with ABC's Lambert Ban, Because Not All Gay Kisses Are Created Equal
    I call bullshit that ABC didn't know what Adam was going to do. AP reporter Derrik J. Lang came out with an article about Adam's rehearsals BEFORE the AMAs were broadcast and wrote about the crotch grab. As for the kissing - impromptu kissing between women has become so common as to be cliched, and impromptu hetero kissing is, of course de rigueur. Awards shows live for unscripted moments - as long as they're hetero or between women (which hetero men love).

    Note that Adam's performance came on the heels of the OUT magazine controversy where editor Aaron Hicklin (and many, many others) accused Adam of not being gay enough, which made international news.

    Derrik J. Lang - quoted from his AP article on ADAM'S REHEARSAL PERFORMANCE:

    "When he begins performing "For Your Entertainment," the first single and title track from his album out Monday, Lambert's domination turns outrageous.
    At one point, he thrusts a leather-clad male backup dancer's face toward his crotch, and later flashes a knowing smile as he strokes the same dancer's cheek after plowing through a door that swings both ways.
    This is not your typical award show routine.
    "There are a lot of double standards as far as that goes," the openly gay singer says backstage, a few days before his Sunday performance. "We've seen female pop and rock performers do that for the last 10 years. They've been very provocative, owning their power and sexuality. You just don't see men doing it very often. And I'm hoping to break down that double standard with this number."


    The press were paying attention to Adam's rehearsals - where was ABC? Oh, that's right, telling everyone how provocative Adam's performance would be. Then after the fact some homophobe(s) in power got pissed/scared and weren't going to allow that sort of equality malarky. Adam has allowed all the blame to fall on his shoulders, repeating ad nauseam that he got carried away and doesn't blame ABC, his CD promo tour becoming an exercise in self-flagellation.

    ABC's decision to cancel Adam on the GMAs and then continue the emasculation by canceling Jimmy Kimmel and New Year's Rockin' Eve is homophobic hypocrisy. And now GLAAD has supported them.

    Adam is the current whipping boy of choice from BOTH sides of the argument - he's either too gay or not gay enough. Why don't we just make Adam wear a big red G on his chest and be done with it? How dare he be out and proud of it.

    eta: more nearly, how dare he be out, proud and seeking or expecting equality. Off with his head!
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    12/04/09

    @bodegacat: Totally agree. I think what we see in GLAAD's floating position is a display of competeing agendas. There are plenty of gays who want to mainstream homosexuality by removing any context or action that might be offensive to the straight community. That has always been true. They want to convince straight America that we're just like them, that we all have 9-5 jobs, wear suits and ties, go to church, want to buy a house in the 'burbs, get married and have our 2.5 kids and a dog. They're convinced that's the way to attaining civil rights equality. In the meantime, anything that reminds straights we're not like them is to be shoved back in the closet.
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    12/04/09

    @ngonzogo: very true. That, and homophobes prefer their gays served cold, groveling, ashamed and self-loathing. And many are willing to oblige.

    I think Adam is most threatening because he's been upbeat, positive and proud. It feels like ABC has been beating him into submission and it really ticks me off, not least because it reminds me of things I heard when visiting certain areas of this country as a child - about minorities needing to "know their place." Which reminds me of bigots who say they don't mind gays, they just don't want it "shoved in their faces." In other words - they should "know their place." Like a closet.

    As for GLAAD? Any delusions I had about their integrity are gone.
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    12/04/09

    In reply to GLAAD's Okay with ABC's Lambert Ban, Because Not All Gay Kisses Are Created Equal
    I was actually offended when Adrian Brody kissed Halle Berry in the 2003 Oscars, because he obviously forced himself on her.

    No consent = bad touch. Tell mom! Stop, drop, and roll!
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    Image of Brad Brown Brad Brown
    12/04/09

    In reply to GLAAD's Okay with ABC's Lambert Ban, Because Not All Gay Kisses Are Created Equal
    Here's your chance, gay entrepreneur! Create a "We're about to kiss" t-shirt. Then the heterosexual public can't complain when you engage in public relations. Brilliant...what else do I have?
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    Image of DahlELama DahlELama
    12/04/09

    In reply to GLAAD's Okay with ABC's Lambert Ban, Because Not All Gay Kisses Are Created Equal
    Taylor Lautner is actually hosting SNL next week; this week, it's Blake Lively, because someone's gotta make Taylor Lautner look good.
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    Image of If_I_Had_a_Poodle If_I_Had_a_Poodle
    12/04/09

    In reply to GLAAD's Okay with ABC's Lambert Ban, Because Not All Gay Kisses Are Created Equal
    His skin looks really rough. Dude needs a facial. No, not that kind, the other kind.
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    12/04/09

    In reply to GLAAD's Okay with ABC's Lambert Ban, Because Not All Gay Kisses Are Created Equal
    Lambert's music is so banal, he might have made the right move in courting some media attention. Because his time is just about up.
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    Image of Mike Jahn Mike Jahn
    12/04/09

    In reply to GLAAD's Okay with ABC's Lambert Ban, Because Not All Gay Kisses Are Created Equal
    I'm stealing this:

    one big Transformers-like monster of indiscernible mom-nightmare.

    Hire a lawyer and sue me.
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    Image of Magister Magister
    12/04/09

    In reply to GLAAD's Okay with ABC's Lambert Ban, Because Not All Gay Kisses Are Created Equal
    Yeah... The "they hate gays" thing sort of goes out the window, when you consider that "Kevin" and "Scotty" on Brothers & Sisters often kiss, they're married and are headed into the whole surrogacy thing.

    Not to mention that they're part of Disney, which the Baptists used to boycott for being nice to gay people.
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    Image of JacobMarx JacobMarx
    12/04/09

    @Magister: also home to modern family... and grey's anatomy. both featuring big old gay leads. interesting... and James Franco on General Hosptial! Wow, that's a whole lotta gay!
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    Image of Fuzzy Dunlop Fuzzy Dunlop
    12/04/09

    In reply to GLAAD's Okay with ABC's Lambert Ban, Because Not All Gay Kisses Are Created Equal
    Saying that ABC banned Lambert for "kissing" is just a bit misleading, no? It was the simulated fellatio that caused all the ruckus. If all he had done was kissed the guy, we would not be having this discussion right now.
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    12/04/09

    @Fuzzy Dunlop: Agreed. I'm pretty sure if Adrian Brody had gone ahead with an unscripted MOT (thank you, Gawker blind items!) there would have been a very different discussion afterward. Also, I would have gouged out my eyes with a cocktail toothpick.
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    12/04/09

    @Fuzzy Dunlop: Wrong. They're accepting ABC's decision because he went off script.
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    Image of lionel-mandrake lionel-mandrake
    12/04/09

    @Fuzzy Dunlop: Absolutely correct. If it had been Madonna or Lady Gaga faking a sex act on stage during a live prime time broadcast, it would be a big deal too. Likewise if it were a straight male performer as well. I mean Jesus, look at the kerfuffle that erupted over Janet Jackson's nipple. For once, I really don't think the sexual orientation of the performer had anything to do with the controversy.
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    12/04/09

    @easternsike: And which part of going off-script do you think got them more upset, the kiss or rubbing the guy's face in his crotch? Not all ad-libs are created equal.
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    Image of Lysergic Asset Lysergic Asset
    12/02/09

    In reply to Rihanna: All Girlfriends Owe Their Abusive Boyfriends Nudie Pics
    "If your boyfriend wants a three-way with you and his hot, underage Chilean housekeeper and you deny him, it's bad for his self esteem and will only make him look to another woman if you don't give him what he wants."

    "If your boyfriend asks you to buy Christmas presents for all his other lovers and you say no, then what you're really saying is that you don't want to be his girlfriend anymore."

    "If your boyfriend asks you to take his serrated kitchen knife and 'hide it somewhere for awhile' and you quickly realize it is covered in dried blood and clumps of long hair and you say, 'Hell no, I'm not taking this', that says you're just not supportive enough of him and he should leave you for someone who stands by him."

    "If your boyfriend wants to comment anonymously on a gossip blog about how jacked-up it is for you to be a role model for other young women who might actually listen to you, by all means, let him do it."
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    Image of TheUptightMidwesterner TheUptightMidwesterner
    12/02/09

    In reply to Rihanna: All Girlfriends Owe Their Abusive Boyfriends Nudie Pics
    Devendra Banhart! I was trying to remember his name this weekend!!
    The most I could come up with was
    "That hipster dude that dated Princess Naboo...you know who I am talking about right? His hair looks like a Beefeater's hat...?"
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    Image of Lysergic Asset Lysergic Asset
    12/02/09

    @TheUptightMidwesterner: It's all free-associatively confused in my brain.
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    Image of ms_priestypants ms_priestypants
    12/02/09

    @Lysergic Asset: This happens to me too. Whenever one of them is mentioned I spend a good fifteen minutes OCDing in my head "Django Devendra Django Devendra"
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    Image of Spirit Fingers Spirit Fingers
    12/02/09

    In reply to Rihanna: All Girlfriends Owe Their Abusive Boyfriends Nudie Pics
    So are we to assume that Rihanna is over the whole "getting beat in the face" thing? Because it sounds to me that she's not done sending "sexy girl" pics to Chris "Bust me up" Brown anytime soon. And you know what that means. Reunion!

    (Argh. Why do we even bother caring? She should never really speak in public without supervision.)
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    Image of Lysergic Asset Lysergic Asset
    12/02/09

    @Spirit Fingers: I meant to send my monologue (see top of page) in response to what you said, because it was your comment that prompted me to write it.
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    Image of BowlingForDollars BowlingForDollars
    12/02/09

    In reply to Rihanna: All Girlfriends Owe Their Abusive Boyfriends Nudie Pics
    LiLo and Sam are this era's Liz and Dick. Glad to see they are back on good terms. Those crazy kids.
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    Image of DahlELama DahlELama
    12/02/09

    In reply to Rihanna: All Girlfriends Owe Their Abusive Boyfriends Nudie Pics
    Well, naturally, when I want relationship advice, the first person I turn to is Rihanna...

    You know who I feel bad for, RiRi? People in abusive relationships.
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    Image of AzureTexan AzureTexan
    12/02/09

    In reply to Rihanna: All Girlfriends Owe Their Abusive Boyfriends Nudie Pics
    "50 Cent carries $25,000 on his person at all times "just in case..."

    In an interesting coincidence, I carry 50 cents on my person at all times.
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    Image of secretagentman secretagentman
    12/02/09

    @AzureTexan: Ha!
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