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    Image of LatestBy LatestBy
    11/11/09

    In reply to Guest at Horny Sex Hotel Assumes Rape Included in Price
    Someone's not afraid to be room servicey. #standardhotel
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    Image of Mrs. Beeton Mrs. Beeton
    11/11/09

    In reply to Guest at Horny Sex Hotel Assumes Rape Included in Price
    This could easily be ripped from the headlines, SVU style. Could Stabler discover that the "Benchmark Hotel" is actually a front for a sex trafficking ring, where young Eastern European women are smuggled into the US and pretend to work as the hotel's cleaning ladies, when in reality they are sad abused hookers? I hope so! They could even get a fey NYC character actor to be the condescending bellhop! Basically it's exactly like "Home Alone 2," but better.

    Call me Dick Wolf! #standardhotel
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    Image of once once
    11/11/09

    In reply to Guest at Horny Sex Hotel Assumes Rape Included in Price
    Who cleans the rooms w/ the guest still in it? She started cleaning at 4:30? Not saying she deserved it but the hotel policy seems a little weird. #thehighline
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    Image of chickachicka chickachicka
    11/11/09

    @once: "Not saying she deserved it, but..."

    Jesus Christ.

    Who says that's the hotel policy? You DO realize that guests can always put up a "do not disturb" sign, or turn the cleaning staff away?

    I'm pretty sure the cleaning woman didn't have to force her way into the room to clean if he didn't want her there, but I AM sure that he tried to force himself on her after she said no.

    I'm not trying to attack you here, but come on. #standardhotel
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    Image of Cheruth Cheruth
    11/11/09

    @once: I worked at a hotel in college and a very similar incident happened there. If a gues puts up a do not disturb cleaning ladies will go back later in some hotels. At the very least to see if towels were needed. Other times guests will request service. Sometimes its the only time you can get to a room because there are so many do not disturbs and so many guests checking out late that you can barely do anything before the afternoon.

    Basically its fairly common thing to be cleaning a room at that time. But it may not have even been that. He could have requested turn down service (no pun intended but only because someone already made it.)
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    11/11/09

    @chickachicka: omg calm down. To clear the air, I believe that when a woman says no, it's no. Period. I was simply trying to say it's unusual for staff to clean a room w/ a guest in it and then I realized by saying this it might be construed as, I thought her actions were suspicious, and so I added, "I'm NOT saying..." In this case, not means not...

    I do in fact realize guests can put up a "do not disturb" sign, however, whenever I've forgotten to, the cleaning person always offers to return later and never has suggested cleaning while I'm there. I think the hotel policy might be a little weird - major hotels have a policy about just about everything. A closed bedroom door w/ a stranger? If she acted inside of it, she may have grounds for a lawsuit. #standardhotel
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    11/11/09

    @once: I'm calm, don't you worry about me - I enjoy caps lock for emphasis on occasion. Through clarifying, I was just pointing out that you read into what wasn't a fact of the story (was she in there wrongfully? inconveniencing him? at a weird time?) instead of just reading the story for what it is (he was wrong, no matter the situation).

    As @scouts honor points out, if the guest agrees, it's not uncommon for a cleaning to happen with them in the room.

    Like I said, I'm not trying to attack you, but just think before you type. #thehighline
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    11/11/09

    @chickachicka: "I was just pointing out that you read into what wasn't a fact of the story"

    um, you're reading into my comment by suggesting that I thought other than, "he was wrong, no matter the situation." Read my reply again and digest it this time. #standardhotel
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    11/11/09

    @Cheruth: Do you remember what the hotel's policy was? I'm merely curious. I would imagine that having to clean a room w/ the guest watching would be uncomfortable at the very least, and depending on the guest(s), would make me feel unsafe. This incident raises interesting questions about workplace safety. #standardhotel
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    Image of chickachicka chickachicka
    11/11/09

    @once: I never said you thought anything other than "he was wrong." We'll just have to agree to disagree on the wording of this one then (though I think we're in agreeance about the only important issue: the man holding 100% of accountability). #standardhotel
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    Image of Beau Nerd Beau Nerd
    11/11/09

    In reply to Guest at Horny Sex Hotel Assumes Rape Included in Price
    Has this idiot ever been inside a hotel? Turndown is part of the maid's responsibilities. #thehighline
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    Image of scroll_lock scroll_lock
    11/11/09

    @Beau Nerd: heh #thehighline
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    Image of homoviper homoviper
    11/11/09

    In reply to Guest at Horny Sex Hotel Assumes Rape Included in Price
    But they opposed the leather bear street fair? Not rapey enough, I guess. #thehighline
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    11/11/09

    In reply to Guest at Horny Sex Hotel Assumes Rape Included in Price
    Are you suggesting the hotel was asking for it?
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    Image of gonzosmom gonzosmom
    11/11/09

    @Z und Vielpunkt's chick:
    Yes - just look at those seductive drapes on the windows. #thehighline
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    11/11/09

    @gonzosmom: too sexy to resist. and it matches the carpet. #thehighline
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    Image of RollsRoyceRevenge RollsRoyceRevenge
    11/11/09

    @gonzosmom: It wasn't rape-rape.

    It was drape-rape. #thehighline
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    11/11/09

    In reply to Guest at Horny Sex Hotel Assumes Rape Included in Price
    I trust the errant guest will employ the Costanza Defense regarding sex with the cleaning woman being frowned upon. He's gotta plead ignorance on this one. #thehighline
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    Image of resipsaloquacious resipsaloquacious
    11/11/09

    In reply to Guest at Horny Sex Hotel Assumes Rape Included in Price
    $10 says that man is about to pick his nose.

    And another $10 he eats it. #thehighline
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    11/10/09

    In reply to Catholic Dude Jealous of Sexy Study
    I can't wait to see Jonah Goldberg or some other National Review or Weekly Standard douche chime in on this. #sexytime
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    BookishLookish promoted this comment bowel_and_the_obstructors was starred bowel_and_the_obstructors was unstarred
    Image of BookishLookish BookishLookish
    11/10/09

    @bowel_and_the_obstructors: He's a pro at sitting around and masturbating, what can he say? #sexytime
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    Image of Nuckin Futz for you Nuckin Futz for you
    11/10/09

    In reply to Catholic Dude Jealous of Sexy Study
    Do studies really do that?

    No, the scarcity of college men who have a clue in hell what they are doing down there encourages that. Once they get over the porno way of thinking smacking a chick in face with their members is foreplay and get some schooling on how to get things warmed up down there I'm sure the girls would happily drop their solo sessions. #sexytime
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    Image of heartbreakturnip heartbreakturnip
    11/10/09

    @Nuckin Futz for you: Good post, but you have violated the moratorium on the word "members." Please make a note of it. #sexytime
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    Image of ShanghaiLil ShanghaiLil
    11/10/09

    In reply to Catholic Dude Jealous of Sexy Study
    Because without encouragement, college students wouldn't play with themselves. At all. They'd just go to classes and learn to be industrial engineers or nuclear scientists or something. #sexytime
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    Image of Magister Magister
    11/10/09

    In reply to Catholic Dude Jealous of Sexy Study
    Just twenty or so years ago, a prosecutor a handful of exits north of Duke reached across county lines to go after Adam & Eve, a sex aid distributer near Chapel Hill. And now, two short decades later, their products are part of a widely-publicized, legitimate scientific study in the "City of Medicine".

    Times they are a-changing. #sexytime
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    Image of God God
    11/10/09

    In reply to Catholic Dude Jealous of Sexy Study
    The only things worse than young men sitting around and masturbating is women of any age sitting around and masturbating. Thank Me for small mercies, kids: masturbation can only be accomplished as long as the sinner is "sitting around". Standing, lying down, lounging and squatting are not at all conducive for a good masturbate. Every time Satan hears the sinister hum of a vibrator, a demon gets his horns. Oh also please keep in mind that a woman's satisfied moans can sometimes cause famine in Ethiopia. Dangerous thing, the female vulva. That's why Satan made it. Be afraid, my children, be very afraid.

    If you can read this, you've not been masturbating. #sexytime
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    Image of BookishLookish BookishLookish
    11/10/09

    @God: But Lord, what about when a woman rubs one out and it's so amazing that she yells Your holy name, as in, "Oh. My. God!" Or is that only a mitzvah if the husband does it for her? #sexytime
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    Image of God God
    11/10/09

    @BookishLookish: Oh. My. Me. This is all sorts of wrong, dear daughter. Never whisk the batter if you don't intend to put a bun in the old oven. Because I care, I give you a simple rule of thumb: if it's fun, you're enabling famine in Ethiopia. #sexytime
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    Image of Cogito Ergo Bibo Cogito Ergo Bibo
    11/10/09

    @God: So does this mean that every time I masterbate, a kitten doesn't die?

    The internet. It always lies. #sexytime
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    Image of BookishLookish BookishLookish
    11/10/09

    In reply to Catholic Dude Jealous of Sexy Study
    "I'm concerned about promiscuity also," Vetter said. "And to be honest, I don't have the solution. ... My concern is these students are in this developmental phase, and I don't think it's a good developmental practice to just tell somebody to just sit around and masturbate. I don't think that promotes relationships."

    No, Father Vetter, in fact, it does promote relationships, because getting yourself off leads to showing someone else how to get you off, which in turn leads to wanting to keep that annoying male around for at least one good reason. But you would not know about this since you never got a woman off and as such cannot give relationship advice, thanks, 'bye! #sexytime
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    Image of thatgirlinnewyork thatgirlinnewyork
    11/10/09

    @BookishLookish: if i may build on that second graph: showing someone how to get you off can lead to successful (and voluminous) procreation. if membership's down for club vatican, you'd think vetter would be giving it a thumbs-up (or, at least, hold the almighty rabbit aloft). #sexytime
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    Image of kneetoe kneetoe
    11/10/09

    @BookishLookish: Hey who you callin' annoying?!? Oh right, males. Got it. #sexytime
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    Image of BookishLookish BookishLookish
    11/10/09

    @kneetoe: Present company excluded, darling. #sexytime
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    Image of ShanghaiLil ShanghaiLil
    11/10/09

    @BookishLookish: Darling, just the sound of your voice...er...the sight of your typing gets me off. Big time. In fact, I just had an orgasm right now. #sexytime
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    11/10/09

    @ShanghaiLil: Oh, Shang. This love is too strong. #sexytime
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    Image of heartbreakturnip heartbreakturnip
    11/10/09

    @BookishLookish: Totally agree, but...

    No one's going to get anywhere publicly arguing the merits of orgasms and relationship building with a Roman Catholic priest. I say this as a Catholic who loves and admires many of the priests and nuns I've known. It's just not worth the argument. The Church has a particular teaching on masturbation, and that's the party line.

    That said, it's not true that a priest or a nun necessarily knows nothing about sex. They are required to be chaste, not virgins. #sexytime
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    11/10/09

    @BookishLookish: Aaaaand that was another one. I need a cigarette. #sexytime
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    Image of Richard Petty Bourgeoisie Richard Petty Bourgeoisie
    11/10/09

    In reply to Catholic Dude Jealous of Sexy Study
    What do studies on female students' attitudes towards sex toys and recordings of my voice have in common? #sexytime
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    Image of BettyCrocker BettyCrocker
    11/10/09

    @Richard Petty Bourgeoisie: Lots of yowling pussies? #sexytime
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    Image of Richard Petty Bourgeoisie Richard Petty Bourgeoisie
    11/10/09

    @BettyCrocker: Ding, ding, ding, ding!!! #sexytime
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    Image of BettyCrocker BettyCrocker
    11/10/09

    @Richard Petty Bourgeoisie: I am SOOO glad you didn't take that the wrong way. #sexytime
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    Image of thatgirlinnewyork thatgirlinnewyork
    11/10/09

    @BettyCrocker: there's really no way to take that the wrong way, is there? #sexytime
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