I think it had less to do with the woman not being clean and more to do with the fact that he's a big homo and is, therefore, repulsed by vagina. That's just how it works. #cyndilauper
@mattchew03: Yeah, absolutely, however, I don't get the repulsion part and do find it kind of offensive. You have no idea how often I heard the same story about some poor guy's fumbling high school experience with a "disgusting" vagina. I don't get it, I'm a straight female and I do not find other women's vaginas disgusting, not exactly enticing, but not repulsive either. Most lesbians I know who have slept with men at some point in their lives never comment on finding the penis revolting. It always felt misogynistic to me... especially the "eewww gross" parts of the story. Also, I know that not all gay men feel this way-- some are kinda into it.
@pony_express: Maybe the penis isn't revolting because it is similar to a long, smooth, large finger -- and nobody finds fingers gross, as a rule; whereas the vage is a wet, stinky, hairy, deep, nasty hole that bleeds a lot. #cyndilauper
@pony_express: I don't usually like to link elsewhere on here, but this just may be the greatest thing you'll ever read on the subject: [wordsmoker.com]#cyndilauper
@Understater: No, I say it as a gay man who has seen the Vagina Monologues 3 times (including once with the late, fabulous Nell Carter), who still finds girl gash nasty. /ew/
@pony_express: I don't think it's uncommon for women to find the penis unattractive from an aesthetic standpoint---like Elaine said on Seinfeld, it's utilitarian, it gets you around, it's like a Jeep. For others, it's just a matter of being familiar with it. There is a theory that The Frog Prince was told to girls as kind of a fable about getting over the idea that male genitalia is repulsive. Once the princess fell in love with the frog and responded to him physically, he wasn't icky anymore. #cyndilauper
@bytememehard: and let's face it, an asshole is also occasionally bloody, sometimes hairy, and not always so fresh. But see?? That is what makes the world so great, so many parts to please so many discriminating palates, all of which have beauty, if only in the eye of the beholder.
@pony_express: a word to the "ew! vagina" geighs: us vagina having hags had your back in high school. how bout a little respect for us and our lady parts, thank you. #cyndilauper
@cocodevaux: Oh, we've totally got your back. It's the front where you're kind of...on your own. And really, only the bottom part of that. Because we really, really love hooters. I mean, in the interests of complete honesty, here. #cyndilauper
@pony_express: I'm not sure I agree. I have many, many lesbian friends and I've heard several of them talk about how they think "dangly bits" are gross.
It doesn't bother me and I don't take it personally. It's just something they don't like.
I think it's fair for some gay men to think pussy is gross. I don't think all of them feel that way. I suspect there is a whole range between being curious about it, being indifferent to it and flat out not liking it.
And I suspect that there are a lot of lesbians who fall into the same spectrum.
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It doesn't bother me and I don't take it personally. It's just something they don't like.
I think it's fair for some gay men to think pussy is gross. I don't think all of them feel that way. I suspect there is a whole range between being curious about it, being indifferent to it and flat out not liking it.
And I suspect that there are a lot of lesbians who fall into the same spectrum.
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