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    Image of not_a_virus.exe.vbs not_a_virus.exe.vbs
    04:33 AM

    In reply to The Facebook Privacy Settings You've Lost Forever
    Why would you not want to FB people you know?
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    Image of lobstr lobstr
    12/16/09

    In reply to The Facebook Privacy Settings You've Lost Forever
    Goddammit.. the last thing I needed is for my kindergarten teacher to see I'm the head of the Conrad Bain fan club, southwest chapter.
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    Image of Alfisted Alfisted
    12/16/09

    In reply to The Facebook Privacy Settings You've Lost Forever
    Tell me again why I want FB?
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    Image of macpatrik macpatrik
    12/16/09

    @Alfisted: Dude? Are you for serious? You remember all those drunk, embarrassing pictures you took last night? Well of course you don't. But now half of your family does, and that weird kid that sat next to you freshman year does, and so does that cute girl that was interested in you(not so much anymore), and so does your boss, o and your neighbor. Why wouldn't you want one?
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    Image of Hiroine Protagonist Hiroine Protagonist
    12/16/09

    In reply to The Facebook Privacy Settings You've Lost Forever
    I'm gonna meet christmas all over your ass in a minute.
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    Image of cpjones cpjones
    12/16/09

    In reply to The Facebook Privacy Settings You've Lost Forever
    Hmmm, I deleted my myspace account a couple of months ago. Maybe I should go back? I wonder if this is an attempt by Facebook to reignite the competition, since they basically have none now that myspace all but bowed down to FB. I'm not sure I can go back to the stupid backgrounds, loud videos and music that immediately start when you access a profile, and the constant adbot friend requests though.
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    Image of [DFX] Deimos [DFX] Deimos
    12/16/09

    @cpjones: Thanks for reminding me to delete my MySpace account....
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    Image of heywhat heywhat
    12/16/09

    In reply to Alisher Usmanov: The Scary Russian Oligarch Seducing Silicon Valley
    He must be pretty bad ass to be crowned "the hard man of Russia". The competition is stiff.
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    Image of badasscat badasscat
    12/16/09

    In reply to The Facebook Privacy Settings You've Lost Forever
    Are you telling me that the entire world now knows that I'm a fan of Jennifer Aniston?
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    Image of sanyucat sanyucat
    12/16/09

    In reply to The Facebook Privacy Settings You've Lost Forever
    Can you block new and old customers to buy the corresponding product? Stay tuned!!!
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    Image of Heneage Heneage
    12/16/09

    In reply to The Facebook Privacy Settings You've Lost Forever
    I just deactivated my FB account. Maybe if enough others do it too Markey Z and the crew will get the idea.

    This is due primarily to the photo tagging issue. It's bad enough that I can't prohibit other people from tagging me in their photos. Now I have no choice about whether them tagging me against my will shows up on my wall as well...
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    Image of DahlELama DahlELama
    12/16/09

    @Heneage: Fake FB accounts FTW!
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    Image of Heneage Heneage
    12/16/09

    @DahlELama: Avatars, unite!
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    Image of tigolbitties tigolbitties
    12/16/09

    @Heneage: i agree with @DahlElama - fake fb!!! also, how else will i see pics of your delicious treats?!?!
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    Image of Mo MoDo Mo MoDo
    12/16/09

    @DahlELama: I love Facebook so much I have three accounts.

    My lesbian cousin who is a school teacher keeps two accounts: a public one and a pseudonymous one for her wife and rugby friends.
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    Image of D2theMatthews D2theMatthews
    12/16/09

    In reply to Blocked on Facebook: Gawker Facebook Privacy Guide
    /Grave faced, out of proportion 'First They Came...' allusion.
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    Image of major disaster major disaster
    12/16/09

    In reply to The Facebook Privacy Settings You've Lost Forever
    Just curious - what's the big deal about #3? At worst it seems like it would be an annoyance. But how is it a privacy issue? Can't you just refuse requests from people you don't want to be "friends" with? (In case it's not obvious, I don't use Facebook.)

    ETA: I guess I could see how it might be a stalker issue - if someone is trying to harass you, you wouldn't even want to have the incidental contact required to refuse the request, but other than that, is there something else?
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    Image of Dave J. Dave J.
    12/16/09

    @major disaster: For me it's not so much a privacy thing as a social-awkwardness thing. There's always "that person" at work who wants to friend you, and it can be tough to say "no," i.e. potential work-related consequences, etc.
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    Image of major disaster major disaster
    12/16/09

    @Dave J.: True enough. I guess that's one part of the reason I still refuse to join (with me it would be family - my mother has an account, and it's so much easier to just say I don't belong in the first place).
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    Image of sanyucat sanyucat
    12/16/09

    @Dave J.: When that happens, just leave it -- don't ignore, don't refuse, just leave it. If the person ever tries to friend you again, they will see that you haven't responded to their original request, and they'll just think you haven't looked at your friend requests in a long time. Or that you hate them.
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    Image of badasscat badasscat
    12/16/09

    @sanyucat: That's what I do. I think I have 8 friend requests just sitting there now, and some of them have been there for years.

    FB used to really harp on you about this, but they've toned down the notification so much that I think you don't even see it anymore unless you actually go to your friends page.
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    Image of sanyucat sanyucat
    12/16/09

    @badasscat: Weird, they have never once notified me. And I have all kinds of freaks sitting in there, especially the random older gentlemen who persistently friend me out of what I can only assume is a misguided belief that friending strangers on Facebook may result in a sexual encounter.
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    Image of lostarchitect lostarchitect
    12/16/09

    In reply to The Facebook Privacy Settings You've Lost Forever
    Just quit. Leave facebook, and join me in the darkness.
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    Image of Little Green Frog (Wise Latina) Little Green Frog (Wise Latina)
    12/16/09

    In reply to The Facebook Privacy Settings You've Lost Forever
    All these are real and valid concern. As another person that has had stalker problems, they do concern me. I used to have everything pretty tight, but I don't have a way to do so now.
    I mean, I understand the fan stuff, I guess to get around it you could just not become a fan of anything, but the friends list being available and strangers friending you? There is no workaround for that and susceptible to misuse.

    I wonder if it will take a criminal case for FB to undo some of these "improvements".
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    Image of BadUncle BadUncle
    12/16/09

    In reply to The Facebook Privacy Settings You've Lost Forever
    I stopped tagging friends in the few photos I put up on Facebook.
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    Image of NerD: Blattella NerD: Blattella
    12/16/09

    @BadUncle: I'm going to stop doing that as well.
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    Image of dolemite1975 dolemite1975
    12/16/09

    @BadUncle:One of my best friends tagged me on there. I didn't even know what that meant (I'm NOT on FB), so he sent me the pretty embarrassing pic of me from, like, the 7th grade. I got super pissed off and told him to never do that again. There's a reason I am not on there. Some people don't want to be "tagged" EVER. Good of you to not do that anymore.

    And this is why I will not really allow people to take pictures of me, again.

    Post and tag responsibly, people!
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    Image of ronniedobbs ronniedobbs
    12/16/09

    @dolemite1975: I can't tell you how many times I've heard people say they saw a pic of me on Facebook that I didn't even know had been posted because I don't have an account. I'm not on Facebook for a reason, and don't know why pictures of me are available to countless "friends" before I ever got a chance to see (and veto) them.
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    Image of Claire Buoyant Claire Buoyant
    12/16/09

    In reply to The Facebook Privacy Settings You've Lost Forever
    I don't know about the others, but I believe Facebook Purity can take care of No. 2. All Hail Greasemonkey.
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    Image of putch putch
    12/16/09

    @Claire Buoyant: im pretty sure that just hides it from appearing in your browser but still completely visible to everyone else.
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    Image of LeftCoastLady LeftCoastLady
    12/16/09

    @putch: Yup. That add-on is only for the user's browser.
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