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intime
05/28/09

In reply to 'Abuse Me,' Plead Scientists
It's all about the old rape fantasy thing - you have to relinquish control to someone else to allow yourself to enjoy sex. These are really seduction fantasies - "Oh, I didn't really want to do that dirty thing - he MADE me do it!" (And then I loved it). Of course rape really isn't about sexual enjoyment - it's about power and no rape victum enjoys being raped - that's for sure.
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Slovenly Muse
05/28/09

@intime: Absolutely. There's really no such thing as a rape fantasy (unless you fantasize about being the rapist, which... euch) because if it's a fantasy, you're creating it in your mind, you have complete control over everything that happens and everything that happens is exactly what you want. Anyone claiming that women "ask" or "want" to be raped, and rape fantasies prove it, is an asshole of the highest order. Rape/submission fantasy and actual rape have nothing to do with each other, and are not comparable in any way.
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The Lone Scout
05/28/09

@Slovenly Muse: Yes, you are correct, of course. I knew a woman who liked to discuss and, to a point, act out fantasies of very rough sex which could, at its extreme, approach physical abuse. And, she refused to adopt a safe word. However, I could plainly see that certain things turned her on and others didn't, which determined for me how I would limit my actions while doing exactly what she requested, so in the end she still exerted control over the situation.
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bytememehard
05/28/09

In reply to 'Abuse Me,' Plead Scientists
To me, a "resource-holding" suitor = dude with massive cock.
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Paul.B.Dodd
05/28/09

In reply to 'Abuse Me,' Plead Scientists
Seriously, I'm a scientist. I do research for a living and I'm extremely offended that you're referring to psychologists and sociologists as scientists unless they're working on hardcore statistical theories. Folks in the biological and physical sciences refer to them as the crazies, just kidding. No, only a little bit. So, PLEASE add the word "SOCIAL" in front of these research professionals. Thanks.
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bytememehard
05/28/09

@Paul.B.Dodd: Aren't we all social scientists?
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BadUncle
05/28/09

@Paul.B.Dodd: Wait - isn't all science just "natural philosophy?"
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Aidan_
05/28/09

@bytememehard: Er...No.

While I agree that most sociologists are not "scientists" in the same way that chemists and biologists are (or even more humanistic professionals like anthropologists), they are certainly more scientific than laymen.
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Smitros
05/28/09

@Aidan_:

You said "lay".
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bytememehard
05/28/09

@Aidan_: Er...get over your all serious self, dryass.
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Aidan_
05/28/09

@bytememehard: I'll have you know my ass is pleasantly moist and lavender-scented, thank you.
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Smitros
05/28/09

@Aidan_:

That's a falsifiable hypothesis with further definition of terms. I will leave the reproduction of results to others.
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The Lone Scout
05/28/09

@Smitros: Indeed--I want to see the pee-value, um, I mean p-value of his hypothesis testing.
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homoviper
05/28/09

In reply to 'Abuse Me,' Plead Scientists
And gays have no sex fantasies, just realities.
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HiredGoons
05/28/09

In reply to 'Abuse Me,' Plead Scientists
You know at least one of them was collecting stool samples.
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once
05/28/09

In reply to 'Abuse Me,' Plead Scientists
Many sexual fantasies involving dominance and surrender occur b/c someone wants to relinquish responsibility & guilt (think Bristol Palin) after all, so much baggage comes w/ sex when all we want to do is simply enjoy it(hence fantasies b/c of the repercussions of free love)It's logical that some socially dominant women fantasize in this way: in real life, they're (usually) responsible & control the urges that lead to trouble (i.e., cheating)
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BookishLookish
05/28/09

@once: Or they are just dirty, dirty whores who like a bit of spanky action.
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Smitros
05/28/09

In reply to 'Abuse Me,' Plead Scientists
"You are so robust to multiple specifications."

"You want stochastic, I'll give you stochastic."
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PandoraSpocks
05/28/09

@Smitros: I'll raise your stochastic model with two co-terminus variables and the ace of hearts. m
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Smitros
05/28/09

@PandoraSpocks:
This is where the anonymity of commenting is a problem.

Are you heteroskedastic?
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PandoraSpocks
05/28/09

@Smitros: I am. I also speak SAS and SPSS, but my German is only rudimentary.
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Smitros
05/28/09

@PandoraSpocks:

A couple of ground rules.

No Stata.

Must be discrete.
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Kid Twist
05/28/09

In reply to 'Abuse Me,' Plead Scientists
How did they know which participants in this study were the "control group?"
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Uncle_Billy_Slumming
05/28/09

@Kid Twist:

Lots of trial and error.
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Rumpelstilskin
05/28/09

In reply to 'Abuse Me,' Plead Scientists
If we finally get gay marriage I, too, want my honeymoon night to look like the above. I can lose the peignoir though.
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Smitros
05/28/09

In reply to 'Abuse Me,' Plead Scientists
"Tell me I have a large sample size."
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Mount_Prion
05/28/09

@Smitros: "It's so huge it hit my outlying points."
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Fry_Bread_Power
05/28/09

@Smitros: "No, you can't make me, you bastard! You can't make me! Bully! You cad! You can't make me do anything!-ALRIGHT, YOU HAVE A LARGE SAMPLE SIZE! Aaaaaand...Thank you for fulfilling my secret desire to be dominated. I hope that it was as satisfying for you as it was for me."
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Smitros
05/28/09

@Fry_Bread_Power:

"As these issues are beyond the scope of this paper, further research is required. Future outcomes, though, may be amenable to policy interventions."
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PandoraSpocks
05/28/09

@Smitros: He may have a large sample size, but he used so few controls that the methodology is flawed and the results highly questionable.
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Smitros
05/28/09

@PandoraSpocks:

I won't even ask about the confidence interval.

Scenarios like this come up on Maury Povich.
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raincoaster
04/28/09

In reply to Pirates: Not So Tough After All
HOW could you do this post without the following link to Fabio's softcore pirate movie????

Which, of course, I have excerpted on my blog.

[raincoaster.com]
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Mama Penguino
04/27/09

In reply to Pirates: Not So Tough After All
I think my 4 yr old could take on these pirates. We stood in line for 45 minutes to meet Captain Hook on a Disney ship and when we got to the front to have her picture taken with Hook, she looked at his enormous phoney pirate head, locked detachable hooks with him, and said, "You're plastic!" and refused to have a picture taken with him. I'd like to finish the story by saying that she stabbed him in his hindquarters and he ran away yelling, "Smee!" but instead we just walked away, dejected, having learned a sad lesson about pirates.
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Smitros
04/27/09

In reply to Pirates: Not So Tough After All
Vikings are the next thing. And they won't ruin the cosplay by actually still existing in real life.
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lobstr
04/27/09

In reply to Pirates: Not So Tough After All
I think their one attempt to one-upping the bar was trying to take on a fucking cruise ship... ... with 1500 people on board!.. I mean.. how is that even logistically possible for four scumbag teenagers on a raft to commandeer that many people at gunpoint??
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OrneryBabe
04/27/09

In reply to Pirates: Not So Tough After All
They need to create a distraction to divert attention from how badly they suck right now. Maybe some reality show where rival pirate teams square off against one another for prizes and booty? You know, Survivor: The Pirate Edition or something?
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blix
04/27/09

@OrneryBabe: Hell's Kitchen: Pirate Ship. Capt. Ramsay doesn't mince words.
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