It appears that many transgender women, prior to coming to terms with their gender identity, pursue hypermasculine careers, such as the military, as Ms. Ramsey did, in an attempt to "make men" of themselves. When I think about the level of emotional pain that's got to entail, it makes my heart hurt. I'm happy for her.
@MissNormaDesmond: Its called the 'flight into hypermasculinity' and in fact its not just that they joined the military. Often transgender women would volunteer for the jobs with the highest mortality. This was in part an attempt to 'become a real man' and in part parasuicidal (untreated transgender people have about 20-30% suicidality. It falls to 1-4% after treatment.). One transwoman who was a tunnel rat in Viet Nam said she volunteered for that job because she knew that either she would come out of it as a 'real man' or she wouldn't come out at all. (Tunnel rats were soldiers who would go in search and destroy missions in the tunnel complexes the Viet Cong created. They were the 'smallest guys with the biggest cojones'.)
bitch, mary, please. I've been padding my facebook friend's list with trannies, and my straight coworkers are LOVING it - I'm MAKING them love it, or they know I'll BEAT THEM DOWN. tranny is the new black, I'm callin it.
The way I read the fifth- and fourth-to-last paragraphs, with the reference to genital reassignment surgery, she did indeed go for "the whole magilla."
I don't go to festivals as I don't want to be around that many people. This is why I post on the internet. It is like having communal experience, but not really.
@kathotdog: i don't go to festivals because generally the ratio of bands/artists i want to see versus the ones that i'd rather rape my own cat than see is badly, badly out of my favor. it's fucking heartbreaking to look at, like, the all points west line up some years and be like "OH MY GOD so-and-so they almost never tour!" and then be like, "oh god do i want to spend $100 to have to navigate radiohead fans to see this person?"
Actually, everyone had a good time. The captions are just trying too hard to be pre-9/11 Vice or vintage period BSL. Pareene, you can do way better than that (and you often do). And you'd probably have enjoyed it to.
File this one under "sour grapes." Start saving up for next year.
@naboo: of course everyone who paid good money to go to a festival to see bands they like had a good time hanging out with their friends...? what the hell does that have to do with whether or not freak folk and chex towers are lame?
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File this one under "sour grapes." Start saving up for next year.
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