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    Image of unclevanya unclevanya
    11/04/09

    In reply to Dominic Carter Did Not Have a Good Vacation
    I thought schadenfreude went out the minute it became the title of a Broadway showtune. #dominiccarter
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    Image of TheBusinessGuy TheBusinessGuy
    11/04/09

    In reply to Dominic Carter Did Not Have a Good Vacation
    HamNo, what does his being declarative have to do with this? (Seriously, thanks for laying off the fat jokes. I do agree with those who feel this is becoming too sad for snark, especially if the man is contemplating suicide.) #dominiccarter
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    Image of AmberVetus AmberVetus
    11/04/09

    In reply to Dominic Carter Did Not Have a Good Vacation
    Carter wrote a memoir in '07 ("No Momma's Boy"). In it, he talks about being abused by his mother, who was mentally ill, as a child. That doesn't excuse him if he did abuse his wife, of course, but it's depressing how these things are cyclical. You'd think someone who was abused would not want to inflict that someone else, but that doesn't seem to be how the psychology works. Being abused seems to increase the chance that you'll be violent later in life.
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    Image of FormerEnglishMajor FormerEnglishMajor
    11/04/09

    In reply to Dominic Carter Did Not Have a Good Vacation
    I dunno. This sounds a bit too flippant when you have a family coming apart at the seams because of a violent father, and the abused mom and kids don't need to be brought into this. #dominiccarter
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    Image of Clarissima Clarissima
    10/21/09

    In reply to Get Married, Do Chores, Get Laid Rarely
    A witty, neat husband who breezes through chores is mad hot. Guys like that–have it way more than once per week. #sex
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    Image of CrabbyGolightly CrabbyGolightly
    11/02/09

    @Clarissima: Wow. Do you have any more of these? A guy who makes you laugh, cleans, brings home the jack AND performs well in bed? I'd think he'd be too tired. (Or maybe we just all have to share that same guy.)

    We've come a long way, baby. Now women are able to have just as many unrealistic expectations as the boys. Progress! Sigh.

    Sign me, 'Waiting for the great leap forward.' #sex
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    Image of Clarissima Clarissima
    11/05/09

    @CrabbyGolightly: Get it on with a neat freak, problem solved. He won't make you laugh while he cleans, he'll just look great doing it. It's like that cost-analysis triangle, where you can have two of the three (fast, good, cheap). #sex
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    Image of CrabbyGolightly CrabbyGolightly
    11/05/09

    @Clarissima: That's where I went wrong! My husband is a total slob! Consequently there are fewer laughs than there should be. Damn him. #sex
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    Image of BookishLookish BookishLookish
    10/21/09

    In reply to Get Married, Do Chores, Get Laid Rarely
    "The maid will get that." --BL

    Works on the house, works on the husband. Try it, girls. #sex
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    Image of BettyCrocker BettyCrocker
    10/21/09

    In reply to Get Married, Do Chores, Get Laid Rarely
    I've discovered several things during the course of My Gay Romance:
    1) Manly gay men are identical to their straight brethren in their capacity to turn your carefully decorated, orderly, and clean home into a replica of WWII Dresden.
    2) Changing the sheets twice a week leads to more sexxxytimes. I don't know why this is. Tide may contain aphrodisiacs. Perhaps it's turf-marking behavior. All I know is, it's worth the extra laundry.
    3) Manly gay men will do any household chore you ask, with a minimum of bitching. But you always have to ask. Never will they see a full garbage can or clean dishes in the dishwasher and find themselves in the neon glow of genius required to remedy either situation.
    4) If you let your manly gay man spend a Saturday drinking beer, watching a ball game, and farting into the sofa, he will be much more inclined to initiate sexxxytimes. You, on the other hand, will be proportionately disinclined. #sex
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    Image of bytememehard bytememehard
    10/21/09

    @BettyCrocker: In my experience, I find everything you say to be true, as well, when applied to manly straight men who just happen to like it up the ass. #sex
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    Image of BettyCrocker BettyCrocker
    10/21/09

    @bytememehard: Does anyone not like it up the ass? #sex
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    Image of Rumpelstilskin Rumpelstilskin
    10/21/09

    @BettyCrocker: Do chores while you whistle and they become fun. Or blow jobs. #sex
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    Image of bytememehard bytememehard
    10/21/09

    @BettyCrocker: Me, actually. But funny how many "straight" men do. #sex
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    Image of BettyCrocker BettyCrocker
    10/21/09

    @Rumpelstilskin: Heigh Ho, Hiegh Ho, I fold laundry and blow! #sex
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    Image of BettyCrocker BettyCrocker
    10/21/09

    In reply to Get Married, Do Chores, Get Laid Rarely
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    Image of OldTowneTavern OldTowneTavern
    10/21/09

    In reply to Get Married, Do Chores, Get Laid Rarely
    "All that housework just to get laid once a week!" Once a week is 52 times a year. Why throw away 30 days of well earned sex? #sex
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    Image of If_I_Had_a_Poodle If_I_Had_a_Poodle
    10/21/09

    In reply to Get Married, Do Chores, Get Laid Rarely
    averages as usual mean nothing. 10 times last week, + 2 weeks of no times are different from an average of 3x/week #sex
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    Image of Cagliostro Cagliostro
    10/21/09

    In reply to Get Married, Do Chores, Get Laid Rarely
    "Oh and also scientists proved that Viagra works. So."

    I wouldn't know - the last thing my wife wants to deal with after her 42 hours of housework is a 4-hour boner. #sex
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    Image of Rumpelstilskin Rumpelstilskin
    10/21/09

    In reply to Get Married, Do Chores, Get Laid Rarely
    I want to write something about making bacon as opposed to bringing home the bacon and frying it up in the Christian-Dior-for-Revereware pan she is adoring, but I've run out of energy. #sex
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    Image of Spirit Fingers Spirit Fingers
    10/21/09

    @Rumpelstilskin: I'll just add that in most cases bacon could replace sex entirely. #sex
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    Image of Meiyou Wenti Meiyou Wenti
    10/21/09

    @Spirit Fingers: I don't know, I think George Costanza was on to something when he was on his quest for sex, and food, simultaneously. #sex
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    Image of momof3wildkids momof3wildkids
    10/21/09

    @Spirit Fingers: Only if the bacon was topped with cheese. #sex
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    Image of Spirit Fingers Spirit Fingers
    10/21/09

    @momof3wildkids: and possibly with a burger underneath and a soft bun on top. #sex
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    Image of momof3wildkids momof3wildkids
    10/21/09

    @Spirit Fingers: As long as there are no poppy seeds to get into your teeth. Ruins everything. #sex
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    Image of Conchie Birdie Conchie Birdie
    10/21/09

    @momof3wildkids: And then capped off with some more bacon. Kinda like a grilled cheese only no bread, just bacon. Where's a meat machine when I need one? #sex
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    Image of Spirit Fingers Spirit Fingers
    10/21/09

    In reply to Get Married, Do Chores, Get Laid Rarely
    Er, yeah, cleaning the toilet, and wiping toothpaste off the mirror, faucet, sink, wall (Men, what, you think it's finger paint or something?) and touching various forms of ass-foot crust makes me realllly want to have sex or suffocate you with Lysol. Six of one... #sex
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    Image of blix blix
    10/21/09

    @Spirit Fingers: Hm...come to think of it, I really should be folding laundry. #sex
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    Image of scroll_lock scroll_lock
    10/21/09

    @blix: Show me your hospital corners on those sheets. #sex
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    Image of blix blix
    10/21/09

    @scroll_lock: You can bounce a dime off of those sheets. #sex
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    10/21/09

    @blix: Is that what the kids are calling it now? #sex
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    Image of Airvault Airvault
    10/21/09

    In reply to Get Married, Do Chores, Get Laid Rarely
    Horny chore boy...

    Where's Belonsky? #sex
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    Image of ms_priestypants ms_priestypants
    10/21/09

    @Airvault: and where can I sign up for one? #sex
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    Image of Botswana Meat Commission FC Botswana Meat Commission FC
    10/21/09

    In reply to Get Married, Do Chores, Get Laid Rarely
    Not to sound all Morrissey-esque, but how does 82 to 83 sexy-times per year equate to "married couples get laid rarely."

    If a single guy were to go out and have one-night stands with 82 different women in the course of a year he'd be considered a modern-day Wilt Chamberlain. #sex
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    Image of mexiback mexiback
    10/21/09

    @Botswana Meat Commission FC: The thing here is availability. If you are living with someone 365 days a year, 86 times is like not that much. #sex
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    Image of MyNameIsChris MyNameIsChris
    10/21/09

    @Botswana Meat Commission FC: Well... if you take Wilt at his word you'd have to be working through more like 4oo one night stands a year. Hmm... that doesn't really add up. I suppose either you have to double up a few nights or throw in a couple one afternoon stands as well. #sex
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    Image of Unsolicited Advice Unsolicited Advice
    10/21/09

    @Botswana Meat Commission FC:

    Well, the act of seducing 82 different women to sleep with you during a year is materially different than convincing the woman you married to have sex with you 82+ times over the same period. Convincing your wife is way, way harder. #sex
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