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Yeah, "we've" had those experiences too. They're called "swing parties at the Peoria Hot Tub Club."
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but why do we have to choose?
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i'm sure those closely affected by these despicable acts remember the murderers' names quite well, but the rest of us? not so much.
for instance, i can tell you the names of the columbine shitheads off the top of my head, but the assmunch who shot up an omaha department store a couple years ago? nope.
the fuckface at virginia tech? no, not him either.
in death, as in life: "who's that guy?" "i dunno, just some shitty loser."
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i remember the names of the columbine guys because i'm from littleton and still live in colorado. i have connections to both victims and killers.
ask a random person in, say, LA, and they probably don't remember the names.
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when columbine happened, it dominated news coverage for days. we heard the bad guys' names over and over.
now, this is just another headline in the rotation, and will likely be gone altogether by the end of next week.
08/05/09
08/05/09
Don't piss her off or she will be mad and vindictive for years. She actually thinks she's normal. Very dominant. Her way and only her way with no flexibility toward everyone in the household. A power and control thing.
And his brother:
When he bullied or harassed someone, it was the other person who "deserved it".
And himself:
I dress good, am clean-shaven, bathe, touch of cologne - yet 30 million women rejected me - over an 18 or 25-year period. That is how I see it.
Another vindictive, angry, resentful, bully who blames everyone else kills 3 people out of pure selfishness.
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Dick.
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Looking back over everything, what bothers me most is the inability to work towards whatever change I choose.
And this here is the summation of why he was so angry and frustrated. In essence: what his fucking problem was. He had moments of clarity in which he recognized the root of his frustration, and then would cloud over again to blame other people in his life, his neighbor who was around his age but the polar opposite of him who he envied, and women. All women. For their part in what he felt was their further undermining his already fragile self-worth.
He took his frustration towards himself towards other people who were innocents. He actively sought out that class during dates and times that it would be crowded. He worked harder on this final solution for attention than to actually change what it was in his life that made him feel this way.
Between this guy and the drunken, high mom who drove the car the opposite direction down the highway, I'm pretty much pissed at selfish, self-entitled people like these .
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For one thing, it can't be treated with medication. Neither can pathological narcissism (Narcissistic Personality Disorder). The intense therapy might create a chip, but without a genuine commitment to change, it's a case of the lights being on with no one home.
08/05/09
Also, anti-depressants, lithium, etc. are prescribed to manage depression, paranoia, or schizoid behaviors that typically afflict the sociopath.
I'm certainly no educated expert but I lived with a shrink for 8 years.
08/05/09
Living with a shrink doesn't mean shit if you haven't read your Lykken, Hare, Million, etc. Or even a basic criminal profiling textbook (Turvey's is good). Seriously, "I lived with a shrink" is a Mad Lib of "Some of my best friends are gay."
08/06/09