Bull-shit.We now know Jett Travolta was taking a drug called Depakote, a strong anti-seizure medication. There have been reports Travolta refused to give his son anti-seizure meds because of Scientology but those stories are not true.
I have been religiously tolerant for years, only for the sake of maintaining a relationship with my family who were in a cult. But there is a line in which you have to say enough is enough. Good intentions and good hearts aside (Travolta and Preston), this group is harming people (this is not a unique case) and we need to stop looking the other way because it is the pc thing to do.
There is a way in which to cry out in protest against scientology, without flinging bricks at the parents.
Scientology is not a religion- it is a pyramid scheme.
There is no other religion that I know of that has copyright control over who reads and follows their "teachings." When teachings affect the lives of children- and they end up dead....there is a real problem with us if we say nothing.
@FormerEnglishMajor: Yes, but I suppose my questions in return can be reduced to two:
1) Is the default assumption "innocent until proven guilty" true for all Americans except those engaged in the highly questionable and deeply disreputable practice of Scientology, in which case, screw it, start gathering wood for the stakes? and...
2) Distinguishing the question of responsibility for appropriate medical treatment for dependent children, the absolute need for which isn't as far as I can tell disputed by any of the participants in this discussion and which is hardly a discussion for which Scientology presents the most or even the most urgent challenges, doesn't the fact that the criticisms you're leveling at Scientology are well-established, extensively documented and widely known mitigate the need for other action? I mean, if you've been told a hundred times that Scientology is a shady pyramid scheme whose adherents might most appropriately be required by law to make little "quote/unquote" signs with their fingers every time they refer to it as a "Church" or "Religion," but nonetheless you decide to become a Scientologist and give them all your money, aren't you just exercising your right to make stupid choices? I mean, honestly, I'm practically a socialist in some ways, but to interfere with people's right to behave like absolute morons, as long as they're pretty much only hurting themselves, would be an important and serious intrusion by the government on the lives of its people. Certainly -- well, somewhat less so now, I hope, but at other times in my life -- it would basically have required that I wear a monitoring anklet and submit to 24/7 oversight.
Gawker isn't a court of law. It's a celeb site, so I guess we are all here venting about celebs. To me, Bernie Madoff is guilty before his trial. To me, the Travoltas "seem" guilty, but right - they aren't until the fat lady sings.
I am fine with your "you know Scientologists are shady" point, and agree people can do what they want with their lives, be it Scientology or Heaven's Gate. But when you start messing around with others' lives, especially that of a child and his/her right to the best possible life given his/her needs, that is when I get upset.
I think we are in basic agreement. Special needs child had a seizure and died. Did the parents not have the child on meds he shoudl have been on? That is the question, and I guess I have less problem taking the "no, they didn't" side.
I believe that the outcome will be so spun, and stories changed (with or without payment), that it won't really matter what gets said now vs. later. We will never know the real story, so why not hypothesize.
Just an observation: Does anyone remember the absolute certainty with which John and Patsy Ramsay were tried and convicted in the press during a time when we now know them to have been grieving the death of their daughter at the hands of a vagrant? However unlikely it may be, the many, many people who contributed to the Ramsay's pain during that time will, I hope, one day have to reckon with themselves over the brutality and worse the thoughtlessness with which they tormented the Ramsays during what would in any case have been a truly unbearable time. I am certain that the Travoltas are not interrupting their grieving for a daily trip to Gawker, and so it is unlikely that these conversations are causing them any pain directly, but they do reflect back on us; there may be no one to whom we are particularly accountable for what we write here, but honestly -- before typing is it unreasonable to stop a moment and ask, "Is this how I want to present myself?"
The only thing we know for sure about the Travoltas right now is that they have recently lost a child; the appropriate response -- pretty much the only appropriate response -- is sympathy.
And I can't say how surprised I am to find that the very word SCIENTOLOGY is capable of raising even from Gawker readers, a good old-fashioned witch-hunting mob, torches ablaze and pitchforks waving. And lest I be mistaken for a Scientological employee and apologist, let me do hasten to add that the fact that the tenets of Scientology are completely, ridiculously batshit fucking crazy is pretty much the nicest thing I can think of to say about them.
There is a big difference between the massive "smoke" of the photos of Jett (tiptoing, on headphones), videos of Jett (clearly not a normal teenager), and the story itself (Jett has a full-time nanny? and a baby monitor next to his bed? at age 16?) - and parents saying that he was off anti-seizure meds (and died of a seizure).
Not to mention which there was at least an 11 hour gap between his going to the bathroom and his being found. Even Travolta's lawyers are saying that one of the nannies "may" have gone to the bathroom in the middle of the night which would (I quote) "have compressed the time frame" from that 11 hours.
There are years and years of evidence to see what Scientology, through John T and Kelly P, did to this child. Not a one-time event that a local police department bungled.
I am Jewish. I find it appalling to know that my own family's neighbors would either actively turn them in, or say and do nothing and let them be taken away.
I find it imperative to speak up against deaths or illnesses caused in the name of religion, period, and will until I die.
@FormerEnglishMajor: I did not suggest for a moment that the question shouldn't be asked (in fact, scroll up a bit and you'll find that I said directly that it should be asked). But I also believe that venue and tone are important in the presence of grieving parents (and parenthetically, if they possibly played an unintended role in their own child's death, does that not suggest an even greater need for some delicacy and tact?). There were many who believed that there were years and years of photos and videos of Jon-Benet Ramsay that called into question her parent's innocence -- and in truth, those sexy-five-year-old poses were kind of sickening. Nonethless, in the end, they had no relationship to J-B's death.
With all due respect, it is possible to advocate for the deceased teenager (although...um...no particular rush now) without convicting his parents in the press based on what may, in any case, end up being a random smattering of possible evidence, which, I again assert as respectfully as possible, you are in no position to interpret whatsoever. You do not know the circumstances under which any photos or videos were taken nor the events which proceeded or followed. There are a number of conditions in which, even with the best of treatment, the patient's response is variable. In the absence of a systematic inquiry conducted by competent and experienced investigators, I am quite comfortable asserting that the best default assumption extends the benefit of the doubt.
And...again, respectfully, as a Jew (or anyone else), I would hope that the activities you describe would be shocking and repugnant. I would also hope that you would have a certain amount of -- not even sympathy, but at least awareness -- of the ways in which marginalized religions are readily and even usually recruited as scapegoats for the hatred of mobs. It is *because* I find Scientology to be a shady, silly little hodge-podge of 50s science fiction, used-car sales techniques and old-fashioned Middle-Ages Pardon Selling, that I believe a certain level of caution is needed when group attacks start to develop; the Presbyterians and Methodists, in my experience, just don't so much need to be handled with care. Freedom to Publish, I promise you, means much more to the publisher of HUSTLER MAGAZINE than it does to those of Harry Potter.
I do hear what you are saying. I just do not know any child who has had a history of seizures who is not on meds.
I am speaking out of both sides of my mouth, wanting to defend a child against religious fanatics, yet condemning parents who have not had the right to a "fair trial", so to speak. This story just really hits my hot buttons - religious fanatics, an autistic and helpless child, and celebrity self-indulgence and self-delusion. It's like the Holy Grail of getting FormerEnglishMajor onto a soapbox. I'll go find my meds now.
Christian Science has been around for years. People have died from easily curable health issues who were C.S.
Yet, they are still around. Scientology isn't going anywhere. It will take its body blows (T. Cruise on Oprah's couch, Jett), but there are enough wackos out there with money who believe in it.
One child's death (under hazy circumstances, and official parent P.R. "denials") is not going to make Scientology go away. They will close ranks, and next thing you know, they will say the Depakote caused his death. Scientologists will say that had Jett NOT been on Depakote at all, EVER, he would be alive today. We've always been at war with Eurasia.
@FormerEnglishMajor: Yes, but when it comes to children, judges have been issuing court orders forcing Christian Scientists, Jehovah's Witnesses (who don't believe in blood transfusions)and other religions to allow doctors to treat their minor children. And many states have shield laws so that if a kid comes into the ER, a doctor can do what's necessary to save his/her life even if the parents object and not be sued.
@PandoraSpocks: How many parents have been tried and convicted of murder or manslaughter after the fact, though? Aside from a Law and Order episode I dimly remember, I can't (at this early hour) remember a one. It is not only hard to prove, but I think most juries would say "They've suffered enough."
The problem with permanent or near-permanent issues like autism is that it's not a one-time-to-the-ER thing. It's specialized treatment, that is ongoing, for life. The court cases are mostly for those one-off "they need a transfusion", not a chronic "he needs anti-seizure meds".
And Scientology's double-speak scares me. They tell themselves things ("you don't need these medications" or "it's all in your head") and then spin stories ("he WAS on anti-seizure meds, and they were bad for him") that fly in the face of reality. They will spin Jett's death - as I am sure their PR people are hard at work right now doing - as something CAUSED by the medical profession.
It does make me happy though, that at the 11th hour, when it was life or death - they were at least willing to have him in a hospital.
That one-time visit did not make up for YEARS of non-medication for seizures (which actually makes me sick to the stomach to think about, poor kid), but as they say - no atheists in foxholes. I hope that last bit of "we need to do everything" wakes them up to what this "religion" had them do the past 16 years.
Andrew Sullivan is also convinced that Sarah Palin's baby is actually Bristol's. He's a fucking ass. While I agree with the fact that Hubbard was a crazy motherfucker, Andrew Sullivan is a total asshole.
I don't mean to pile on Ryan (especially because his handling of this story is much less seedy than Owen's) but that Andrew Sullivan post is absurd and you all shouldn't be linking to it as a source. He throws up an unsigned "reader email" and we're all expected to believe that the information comes from a credible source? Um, just because someone says they're a doctor or an expert in something doesn't mean they are. RIGHT? PEOPLE? HELLO?
There's a lesson in here somewhere about how the truth comes out; and how living a lie, or many lies, can seem safe, but rarely is. Sooner or later, reality butts in. It's interesting to watch the spin process from the Travolta camp and the conflicting statements.
Epilepsy never heard of L. Ron Hubbard and his tax dodge.
@PlasticFantastic: Watch out, he may come after you! Just compliment/reminicse about his clever Gawker weekend posts from back in the day and slowly back away.
If I could figure out how to do it I would post a puppy picture with a link to Lennon singing give peace a chance... Gawker former employees simply need to set up a competing blog where the truly intelligent like Mr. Hippity and Aaron Altman could expouse again and I would only occasionally ask that people stop use the word retarded as a pejorative. I just sent back to Misericordia my ten year old cute deaf with cerebral plasy topped off at 14 months mentally son. Keeping him at home under supervision has become quite the challenge. Tommy is kept under constant supervision with a one on one. Thats life. He uses Depakote which doesnt have a long term liver problem if closely monitored. There are other meds to calm him and for his safety that in the words of Melanie Griffith in Working Girl " chill him out ever so slightly". Apparently everyone on this website could use them tonight. Not having your at risk child die , or as SIster Rosemary refers to them " our most vulnerable members of society" requires proper medical care , supervision and luck. I dont think that Jett Travolta had any of those things and he deserved better. People speak out for him and for our children.
Can anybody answer why the hell Kirstie Alley is so frigging fat if Scientology is so perfect? Talk about something that WOULD be "cured" by diet and vitamins...
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Also, there is a statement of the Church of Scientology now:
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Tom! Jada! Will! So nice to see you here.
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There is a way in which to cry out in protest against scientology, without flinging bricks at the parents.
Scientology is not a religion- it is a pyramid scheme.
There is no other religion that I know of that has copyright control over who reads and follows their "teachings." When teachings affect the lives of children- and they end up dead....there is a real problem with us if we say nothing.
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You just said what I was trying with a whole lot less success to say to Shanghai Lil above.
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1) Is the default assumption "innocent until proven guilty" true for all Americans except those engaged in the highly questionable and deeply disreputable practice of Scientology, in which case, screw it, start gathering wood for the stakes? and...
2) Distinguishing the question of responsibility for appropriate medical treatment for dependent children, the absolute need for which isn't as far as I can tell disputed by any of the participants in this discussion and which is hardly a discussion for which Scientology presents the most or even the most urgent challenges, doesn't the fact that the criticisms you're leveling at Scientology are well-established, extensively documented and widely known mitigate the need for other action? I mean, if you've been told a hundred times that Scientology is a shady pyramid scheme whose adherents might most appropriately be required by law to make little "quote/unquote" signs with their fingers every time they refer to it as a "Church" or "Religion," but nonetheless you decide to become a Scientologist and give them all your money, aren't you just exercising your right to make stupid choices? I mean, honestly, I'm practically a socialist in some ways, but to interfere with people's right to behave like absolute morons, as long as they're pretty much only hurting themselves, would be an important and serious intrusion by the government on the lives of its people. Certainly -- well, somewhat less so now, I hope, but at other times in my life -- it would basically have required that I wear a monitoring anklet and submit to 24/7 oversight.
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Gawker isn't a court of law. It's a celeb site, so I guess we are all here venting about celebs. To me, Bernie Madoff is guilty before his trial. To me, the Travoltas "seem" guilty, but right - they aren't until the fat lady sings.
I am fine with your "you know Scientologists are shady" point, and agree people can do what they want with their lives, be it Scientology or Heaven's Gate. But when you start messing around with others' lives, especially that of a child and his/her right to the best possible life given his/her needs, that is when I get upset.
I think we are in basic agreement. Special needs child had a seizure and died. Did the parents not have the child on meds he shoudl have been on? That is the question, and I guess I have less problem taking the "no, they didn't" side.
I believe that the outcome will be so spun, and stories changed (with or without payment), that it won't really matter what gets said now vs. later. We will never know the real story, so why not hypothesize.
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The only thing we know for sure about the Travoltas right now is that they have recently lost a child; the appropriate response -- pretty much the only appropriate response -- is sympathy.
And I can't say how surprised I am to find that the very word SCIENTOLOGY is capable of raising even from Gawker readers, a good old-fashioned witch-hunting mob, torches ablaze and pitchforks waving. And lest I be mistaken for a Scientological employee and apologist, let me do hasten to add that the fact that the tenets of Scientology are completely, ridiculously batshit fucking crazy is pretty much the nicest thing I can think of to say about them.
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There is a big difference between the massive "smoke" of the photos of Jett (tiptoing, on headphones), videos of Jett (clearly not a normal teenager), and the story itself (Jett has a full-time nanny? and a baby monitor next to his bed? at age 16?) - and parents saying that he was off anti-seizure meds (and died of a seizure).
Not to mention which there was at least an 11 hour gap between his going to the bathroom and his being found. Even Travolta's lawyers are saying that one of the nannies "may" have gone to the bathroom in the middle of the night which would (I quote) "have compressed the time frame" from that 11 hours.
There are years and years of evidence to see what Scientology, through John T and Kelly P, did to this child. Not a one-time event that a local police department bungled.
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I am Jewish. I find it appalling to know that my own family's neighbors would either actively turn them in, or say and do nothing and let them be taken away.
I find it imperative to speak up against deaths or illnesses caused in the name of religion, period, and will until I die.
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With all due respect, it is possible to advocate for the deceased teenager (although...um...no particular rush now) without convicting his parents in the press based on what may, in any case, end up being a random smattering of possible evidence, which, I again assert as respectfully as possible, you are in no position to interpret whatsoever. You do not know the circumstances under which any photos or videos were taken nor the events which proceeded or followed. There are a number of conditions in which, even with the best of treatment, the patient's response is variable. In the absence of a systematic inquiry conducted by competent and experienced investigators, I am quite comfortable asserting that the best default assumption extends the benefit of the doubt.
And...again, respectfully, as a Jew (or anyone else), I would hope that the activities you describe would be shocking and repugnant. I would also hope that you would have a certain amount of -- not even sympathy, but at least awareness -- of the ways in which marginalized religions are readily and even usually recruited as scapegoats for the hatred of mobs. It is *because* I find Scientology to be a shady, silly little hodge-podge of 50s science fiction, used-car sales techniques and old-fashioned Middle-Ages Pardon Selling, that I believe a certain level of caution is needed when group attacks start to develop; the Presbyterians and Methodists, in my experience, just don't so much need to be handled with care. Freedom to Publish, I promise you, means much more to the publisher of HUSTLER MAGAZINE than it does to those of Harry Potter.
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I do hear what you are saying. I just do not know any child who has had a history of seizures who is not on meds.
I am speaking out of both sides of my mouth, wanting to defend a child against religious fanatics, yet condemning parents who have not had the right to a "fair trial", so to speak. This story just really hits my hot buttons - religious fanatics, an autistic and helpless child, and celebrity self-indulgence and self-delusion. It's like the Holy Grail of getting FormerEnglishMajor onto a soapbox. I'll go find my meds now.
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Yet, they are still around. Scientology isn't going anywhere. It will take its body blows (T. Cruise on Oprah's couch, Jett), but there are enough wackos out there with money who believe in it.
One child's death (under hazy circumstances, and official parent P.R. "denials") is not going to make Scientology go away. They will close ranks, and next thing you know, they will say the Depakote caused his death. Scientologists will say that had Jett NOT been on Depakote at all, EVER, he would be alive today. We've always been at war with Eurasia.
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The problem with permanent or near-permanent issues like autism is that it's not a one-time-to-the-ER thing. It's specialized treatment, that is ongoing, for life. The court cases are mostly for those one-off "they need a transfusion", not a chronic "he needs anti-seizure meds".
And Scientology's double-speak scares me. They tell themselves things ("you don't need these medications" or "it's all in your head") and then spin stories ("he WAS on anti-seizure meds, and they were bad for him") that fly in the face of reality. They will spin Jett's death - as I am sure their PR people are hard at work right now doing - as something CAUSED by the medical profession.
It does make me happy though, that at the 11th hour, when it was life or death - they were at least willing to have him in a hospital.
That one-time visit did not make up for YEARS of non-medication for seizures (which actually makes me sick to the stomach to think about, poor kid), but as they say - no atheists in foxholes. I hope that last bit of "we need to do everything" wakes them up to what this "religion" had them do the past 16 years.
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Epilepsy never heard of L. Ron Hubbard and his tax dodge.
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To bastardize De Tocqueville, you get the website you deserve.
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And I'll soon be experiencing it, I guess.
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Gawker former employees simply need to set up a competing blog where the truly intelligent like Mr. Hippity and Aaron Altman could expouse again and I would only occasionally ask that people stop use the word retarded as a pejorative.
I just sent back to Misericordia my ten year old cute deaf with cerebral plasy topped off at 14 months mentally son. Keeping him at home under supervision has become quite the challenge.
Tommy is kept under constant supervision with a one on one. Thats life. He uses Depakote which doesnt have a long term liver problem if closely monitored. There are other meds to calm him and for his safety that in the words of Melanie Griffith in Working Girl " chill him out ever so slightly". Apparently everyone on this website could use them tonight.
Not having your at risk child die , or as SIster Rosemary refers to them " our most vulnerable members of society" requires proper medical care , supervision and luck. I dont think that Jett Travolta had any of those things and he deserved better.
People speak out for him and for our children.
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I've also asked this.
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Some say Travolta's gay nanny lover was ordered to kill Jett because it was getting too hard to hide his autism from the higher ups in Scientology.
What time is Brody Jenner on?
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