As ginger rant pointed out, it is all a matter of fashion and pop culture shaping our views of what is and what is not attractive. How else can someone go from finding the Madonna spread jealousy-inducing to yuck?

Sorry if the following is TMI, but after finally succumbing to the shave-your-snatch movement, I landed a totally gorgeous Argentinean lover a couple of years ago. When we got nekkid, he had the reverse JDel/John Rushkin response. He was utterly repelled at the lack of bush. Could not perform for a few weeks until I fixed that. And he was in his twenties, so more likely to have watched recent porn.

Being a total slut (unlike JDel) I am aware that there are men who can't get off unless you're hairy, and they are SOL with me thanks to laser hair removal. Luckily, I never let the laser get near my ladyparts.

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(However, I am grateful to whatever Cossack raped my female ancestor for the fact that I am generally blonde all over and do not have to tackle such a Black Forest.)

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Instead, it seems to be ew. Yes, the US male libido does seem to have gone awry.

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It's a remarkable bush, and we're remarking upon it.

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I'm also a swimmer, so tackle it I must.

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I'd heart you, but I did long ago. Mr. BJ.

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The followers (I'm duly grateful) clicked on me. How do I follow the folks I want to follow?

Also, since it hasn't been said enough in this thread, Paul Newman, paul newman, paul newman. The hottest man ever.

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;-)

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BTW, if you know any nice (or, preferably, not-so-nice) Jewish boys, I'd totes convert.

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That said, one must note that "the act of love" as the French say is actually much more pleasing with less hair there.

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Or was that all resolved when I was reading another blog?

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Fuck.

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(And you, too)

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