Growing up in Marblehead was like living in Heathers meets Less than Zero meets Lord of the Flies. One peer made national news for sustaining life threatening injuries while ritualistically killing cats ( he was 22 at the time, so it wasn't childish hijinks) , while my high school class included members of the punk band 'Genocide', kleptomaniac bulimic Mean Girls galore, and enough souless preppie drug addicts to fill an entire wing at McClaine Hospital. The place is truly sinister. I'm just surprised it's taken this long for it to grow a full on shooter.
I'll defend Owen on this one. This story makes me curious about a lot of things, and Owen's post here does contain some reliable answers to the questions I'd find myself asking. Answers are good -- even if they're partial and flawed, if presented in good faith they're still better than nothing.
And I don't find the tone of this post to be blame-y or excessively snarky or even notably irreverent. Instead it just highlights how some of the fairly mundane details of this story managed to take on a sadly tragic importance.
Similarly, I'm pretty sure that some commenters' attempts to psychoanalyze the perpetrator are hopelessly premature...but I still find those interesting too, especially SarahHeartburn's comments about the very first impressions that students sometimes make.
In short, I see a lot of thought-provoking observations in this post and its attendant comments, and it seems unhelpful and obfuscatory to complain instead about what's not there. (Except maybe the failure to blur out the instructors' identifying info -- that seems worth considering.) I wonder if people aren't just taking their free-floating sadness and anger at this story and aiming it at the nearest target, which Owen happens to be here.
Does it NOT surprise anyone else that his military career was "spotless?"
I grew up in a "nicer" suburb of Atlanta, where even the losers had the opportunity to go to college straight away, and it seemed like only the creepy, angry, ambiguously bigoted assholes that were working pretty hard to keep the violence just below the surface chose the military instead. There were a couple of exceptions, but this was pretty much the rule.
@pssshwhatever: So you want to perpetuate the concept of losers?
Further dehumanizing our fellow humans to the point that they are creepy and angry and because you are part of the cool kid contingent they can have no voice?
Any psych docs out there want to explain to THIS douchebag how dehumanizing and disgustingly degrading their fellow human beings may result in isolating normal people with such "loser" language and treatment that may result in such antisocial behavior.
Yes, I am calling you out psssshwhatever. You are the loser for thinking that any human being is a loser merely because you decided it to be so.
See, I like gawker because they call out losers for what they do. You just simply decided that the people who you didn't like in high school were losers because they didn't like you.
Sublimation is a bitch. I hope you do not ever hold a handgun, because you are steps away from being a shooter.
@Bold E. Mort: Heh, that was a fairly weak calling-out.
I wasn't a cool kid. I was on the debate team and played the viola. I listened to angry music. I didn't go on an absurd number of dates. We're not all special and amazing and unique snowflakes. Admitting that isn't denigrating anyone.
And the kids I'm talking about? Were losers. As was this guy. Let go of high school, dude. Your life will be happier.
@pssshwhatever: only the creepy, angry, ambiguously bigoted assholes that were working pretty hard to keep the violence just below the surface chose the military instead.
Your ignorance knows no bounds. You seem pretty creepy, angry, and ambiguously bigoted to me.
Next time you go to the polls, write a message to Gawker or watch MSNBC, you can thank the efforts of millions of soldiers, sailors, airmen and marines over 200 years who made that possible.
@pssshwhatever: So you were horny for the ROTC kids then? Whatevs dude. You called people in your high school losers, even though you proffered no evidence they went on to kill people.
Got a naked pic? You might still get to do it with a ROTC kid if you're cute.
@El Matardillo: I know a lot of great guys that are soldiers. A lot of them came from less-than-awesome circumstances and saw it as a way to do something good with their lives and get money for college when they got done. They saw it as a way to have a better future and perform a public service. These are not the people I'm talking about, if you take a look at my comment.
I'm talking SPECIFICALLY about kids with a fair amount of privilege that, instead of going forward with that, found the military as a way to engage their violent tendencies. A lot of them were already violent, in fits and starts, in high school. Talk to anyone in the any branch of the military, and they know who these people are, a lot of them stick out there, too. I don't think it's going out on a limb to think that these people exist, or that this guy sounds like one of them.
Face facts: the higher you go on the socioeconomic ladder, the less likely a young person is to join the military in this day and age. This guy had a private school education in a city with lots of opportunities. He's not the average serviceman, and I wasn't talking about the average serviceman.
@Bold E. Mort: You don't have to kill people to be a loser, so I don't know why I would have to proffer evidence that someone has killed in order to prove them a loser. And not everyone that kills people is a loser in the sense that I'm talking about. A lot of sociopaths are very charming. Projection, much? Most people are kind of loser-y in high school. That's what it's for.
@Bold E. Mort: You've managed to--once again--completely derail an interesting debate.
Your smart argument has turned into name-calling. I understand what you're doing with the, "I called it. Shooter. Everyone fucking run for your lives!!!!" But there are better ways to go about it. You wanted a reaction and you got it. Shut up High School.
@cynyc: I know their take is that if the Constitution as amended was protected and followed we wouldn't have a society filled with dumbasses who think everything should be provided for them including le object de desire.
See stalkers feel entitled to what they want. Entitled. Where have we heard this concept before?
@Bold E. Mort: The more comments of yours that I read on this, the angrier I get. So here it goes. "Entitlement" didn't actually cause this guy to snap. There are probably myriad reasons that he did, many of which most likely have to do with mental illness. However, that's not really the point. The point is that, if all you have do is pass a background check and wait seven days (or, you know, subvert this entirely and go to a gun show), there's a very, very good chance that this will continue to happen.
Fuck all of your "personal responsibility" and "entitlement" bullshit. Gun owners need to take some responsibility themselves and realize that laughably easy access to weaponry helps to enable these types of incidents. Period. Want more "responsibility"? Enact stricter handgun restrictions and pay a little more attention to the actual amendment to the Constitution that you keep referencing. Yes, the amendment guarantees that the right to bear arms shall not be infringed. But there's a whole other contextual statement there: "A well regulated militia being necessary to the security of a free State....
The Constitution doesn't grant that any jackass has the right to own a semi-automatic assault weapon -- or a single handgun, for that matter -- just because they fucking feel like it.
@Go Like Hell Machine: So get angry. He railed against what he thought was holding him back. While living off his parents. Entitled much?
You rush to mental illness, so you can live a happy life thinking that bad parenting doesn't exist or can be cured by drugging people into a stupor.
He had a legal gun. He would have passed a background check. So stop deluding yourself.
No, you need to take responsibility for your ostrich in the sand approach to life as if Governor Blagoyovic(whatevs) acted out his insane corruption fantasies in a land controlled by the Democratic Party where there were no laws against it.
Yes I want more personal responsibility. Where we ALL take responsibility not to shoot people because of mistakes we made. What is so bad about that?
I knew a guy who was arrested for trying to buy 3,000 handguns off an ATF undercover agent. I worked with him for a bit. His father was friends with my father. He was a Local 282 Teamster official in New York City. He went to jail, and later his Dad did too. They were Democrats who believed in gun control. Why? Pushed the prices higher on the illegal guns he was trying to procure.
Don't get all high and mighty with me.
He was no jackass. He was smart. He was a party loving Democrat.
I don't speak from an ill-informed history my friend. Run Rahm Emanuel's party line with someone else my friend.
I speak from experience.
And I'm more insidery and meta than you could ever understand.
@Bold E. Mort: Okay, so he wasn't mentally ill - a normal, well-adjusted and healthy individual could always walk into a book store and shoot a clerk seven times because she refused his advances, and this would be considered normal, well-adjusted, healthy behavior. Clearly, I have this all wrong.
Yes, he would have passed a background check. That was the whole fucking point of my comment. If this man, or the VA Tech shooter, or the guy who took an Amish school hostage can pass a background check, then maybe the background checks we have aren't particularly effective, are they?
It's all about personal responsibility until you have to actually take some, huh? The NRA's approach on gun control has, without exception, been "Guns don't kill people, people kill people", which is partially correct. However, guns make it a hell of a lot easier for people to kill people. In context, it would have been much more difficult for this particular individual to murder a completely innocent person without a handgun.
"I knew a guy who was arrested for trying to buy 3,000 handguns off an ATF undercover agent."
What does this mean? I don't care that you "knew a guy" who did anything. As is all of your blather about Rahm Emmanuel, Rod Blagojevich (tip: Google is fucking great for learning how to spell something you're unsure of), or how "insidery" or "meta" you are. That's all irrelevant to the point, and doesn't really have any bearing on this particular discussion (except that, in my mind, discrediting you further since you can't stay on fucking topic).
@Bold E. Mort: "I knew a guy who was arrested for trying to buy 3,000 handguns off an ATF undercover agent" Please provide the name of this Teamster official and link to this story my friend. Seems like it'd be big enough to make the news. Or does your being more "insidery and meta than you could ever understand" only extend to complete and utter bullshit?
Good luck with that whole gun control thing, because the millions of Americans who own guns certainly are not going to turn them in for any reason, and anyone who tries to force them is likely to end up very dead shortly thereafter.
@cockfightbarmitzvah: Bobby Sasso Jr. Find the link yourself. His father Bobby Sasso Sr. was President of Local 282 for many years. Again. do your own research.
@cynyc: LOL! My husband is a lifetime NRA member (Kansas farm kid, not total nit-wit) and the first thing he said was that very thing! Personally, I think it's just his desire to see women with guns. Oh, yes, honey, I saw you drooling at Sarah Conner and Ripley.
@Go Like Hell Machine: Frankly, I'd rather be shot than stabbed, so if we're going to "control" something, let's control knives.
Your argument reminds me of all the people who suggest we castrate rapists. That wouldn't have done much for my friend who was raped with a beer bottle. I'm no fan of guns, but I don't understand the knee-jerk "gun control" cry that gets uttered every time this happens. No matter how hard you try to control this thing you fear, you're not going to stop such things.
@Bold E. Mort: First off let me apologize. I thought your story was complete and utter bullshit and I must say after some digging I did say that I did find a story about Robert Sasso.
But far from it bolstering your case, it illustrates how idiotically easy it is for people to purchase a multitude of guns through "legitimate" means and then turn around, file off the serial #'s and then illegally reselling them. If anything this proves how loopholes should be closed all across the country to crack down on "straw purchase" practices and make the process of purchasing a firearm more stringent so that only legitimate users are the ultimate recipient of the guns they purchase and they're not reselling them on the black market, which is where most guns used in street crimes originate from. After all, if there's a criminal background check to stop crooks from purchasing guns, then how in the hell are they all getting their hand on them?
"every "enraged" shooter we've ever seen and/or heard recently - or hell, almost always - matches up practically flush with this guy's profile... It's before 11AM in America and we still don't know where the next dangerous Creepy Fucker is. But isn't somebody, one of these days, going to line up these indicators and make it a public health issue?"
And... do what, exactly? Ban being a "loser"? Discriminate people who are socially awkward? The outward signs of the kinds of dysfunction that you're talking about are shared by an awful lot of people who are not violent, are not misogynists, are not racist or anti-semitic. Whenever something like this happens, people begin to agitate towards "doing something" about the problem. The effect of that something is merely to further stigmatize people who already face marginalization, almost without exception. And it never actually prevents anything at all. It just makes it a little shittier for the people who have to live as permanent outcasts.
There are people in every human society who are simply predatory and murderous, there's no reliable way to divide them from the hordes of men who are just lonely and unpopular and sad until after the fact, and there is no preventing the tragic but statistically tiny threat of the lone crazed murderer. As much as I wish it wasn't the case, there is no preventing this kind of violence, without being able to make wholesale changes in human nature.
@Freddie DeBoer: Let me suggest a very unpopular solution; gun control. No, it won't eliminate gun murders. But most countries around this world are absolutely horrified at the easy access to firearms that exists in this country. i live in Spain, and have spent a lot of time working in a small town in the Pyrenees. Many people there have a gun for hunting (and usually eat all their kill; the poorer folk count on it as a part of their yearlyl budget.)Others stress the danger of bears (there still are some). And anyone who has a farm usually has a gun, in case a rabid dog appears or an animal needs to be put down fast due to injury. (I also spent every summer until I was 16 in a small village in non-touristy New England. Same thing. )
And among the people who need guns to get by, hunt, protect themselves because they live in isolated tiny towns with no constabulary: almost all of these people are for gun control. How does a creep like that get a gun?
I wonder if there's a link between male pattern baldness and violent crime. I only ask because I've been waiting for these many years for Moby to blow.
@Motoko Kusanagi: An arrogant blogger who thinks he's funny when he partially blames the victim for living and a university for "causing" the perpetrator to snap.
It's a shitty syllabus and a lame, conservative take on the subject matter. That said, there could potentially be some benefit somewhere in looking for the potential triggers for this guy's totally irrational hatred of women -- this staggeringly smart woman in particular -- and it's possible that this document could provide some insight. This sick young man is obviously the extreme example of a completely unhinged misogynist/anti-semite/general bigot. It is likely that he took the class because he was already those things and thought it would be a good opportunity to visit his anger on his fellow students, to victimize them. But it is also possible that he learned some truth in this class that was powerful enough to crack him once and for all. And it might be worthwhile to know what that is.
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And I don't find the tone of this post to be blame-y or excessively snarky or even notably irreverent. Instead it just highlights how some of the fairly mundane details of this story managed to take on a sadly tragic importance.
Similarly, I'm pretty sure that some commenters' attempts to psychoanalyze the perpetrator are hopelessly premature...but I still find those interesting too, especially SarahHeartburn's comments about the very first impressions that students sometimes make.
In short, I see a lot of thought-provoking observations in this post and its attendant comments, and it seems unhelpful and obfuscatory to complain instead about what's not there. (Except maybe the failure to blur out the instructors' identifying info -- that seems worth considering.) I wonder if people aren't just taking their free-floating sadness and anger at this story and aiming it at the nearest target, which Owen happens to be here.
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I grew up in a "nicer" suburb of Atlanta, where even the losers had the opportunity to go to college straight away, and it seemed like only the creepy, angry, ambiguously bigoted assholes that were working pretty hard to keep the violence just below the surface chose the military instead. There were a couple of exceptions, but this was pretty much the rule.
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Further dehumanizing our fellow humans to the point that they are creepy and angry and because you are part of the cool kid contingent they can have no voice?
Any psych docs out there want to explain to THIS douchebag how dehumanizing and disgustingly degrading their fellow human beings may result in isolating normal people with such "loser" language and treatment that may result in such antisocial behavior.
Yes, I am calling you out psssshwhatever. You are the loser for thinking that any human being is a loser merely because you decided it to be so.
See, I like gawker because they call out losers for what they do. You just simply decided that the people who you didn't like in high school were losers because they didn't like you.
Sublimation is a bitch. I hope you do not ever hold a handgun, because you are steps away from being a shooter.
That is all.
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I wasn't a cool kid. I was on the debate team and played the viola. I listened to angry music. I didn't go on an absurd number of dates. We're not all special and amazing and unique snowflakes. Admitting that isn't denigrating anyone.
And the kids I'm talking about? Were losers. As was this guy. Let go of high school, dude. Your life will be happier.
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Your ignorance knows no bounds. You seem pretty creepy, angry, and ambiguously bigoted to me.
Next time you go to the polls, write a message to Gawker or watch MSNBC, you can thank the efforts of millions of soldiers, sailors, airmen and marines over 200 years who made that possible.
Asshole.
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Got a naked pic? You might still get to do it with a ROTC kid if you're cute.
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I'm talking SPECIFICALLY about kids with a fair amount of privilege that, instead of going forward with that, found the military as a way to engage their violent tendencies. A lot of them were already violent, in fits and starts, in high school. Talk to anyone in the any branch of the military, and they know who these people are, a lot of them stick out there, too. I don't think it's going out on a limb to think that these people exist, or that this guy sounds like one of them.
Face facts: the higher you go on the socioeconomic ladder, the less likely a young person is to join the military in this day and age. This guy had a private school education in a city with lots of opportunities. He's not the average serviceman, and I wasn't talking about the average serviceman.
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Until they fuck up.
Guess you have low self-esteem.
When you go ballistic, please don't shoot me.
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Your smart argument has turned into name-calling. I understand what you're doing with the, "I called it. Shooter. Everyone fucking run for your lives!!!!" But there are better ways to go about it. You wanted a reaction and you got it. Shut up High School.
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"Well if everyone in the bookstore had been armed, like our Forefathers had intended, they could have shot him before he fired all seven shots."
douchebags.
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See stalkers feel entitled to what they want. Entitled. Where have we heard this concept before?
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Fuck all of your "personal responsibility" and "entitlement" bullshit. Gun owners need to take some responsibility themselves and realize that laughably easy access to weaponry helps to enable these types of incidents. Period. Want more "responsibility"? Enact stricter handgun restrictions and pay a little more attention to the actual amendment to the Constitution that you keep referencing. Yes, the amendment guarantees that the right to bear arms shall not be infringed. But there's a whole other contextual statement there: "A well regulated militia being necessary to the security of a free State....
The Constitution doesn't grant that any jackass has the right to own a semi-automatic assault weapon -- or a single handgun, for that matter -- just because they fucking feel like it.
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You rush to mental illness, so you can live a happy life thinking that bad parenting doesn't exist or can be cured by drugging people into a stupor.
He had a legal gun. He would have passed a background check. So stop deluding yourself.
No, you need to take responsibility for your ostrich in the sand approach to life as if Governor Blagoyovic(whatevs) acted out his insane corruption fantasies in a land controlled by the Democratic Party where there were no laws against it.
Yes I want more personal responsibility. Where we ALL take responsibility not to shoot people because of mistakes we made. What is so bad about that?
I knew a guy who was arrested for trying to buy 3,000 handguns off an ATF undercover agent. I worked with him for a bit. His father was friends with my father. He was a Local 282 Teamster official in New York City. He went to jail, and later his Dad did too. They were Democrats who believed in gun control. Why? Pushed the prices higher on the illegal guns he was trying to procure.
Don't get all high and mighty with me.
He was no jackass. He was smart. He was a party loving Democrat.
I don't speak from an ill-informed history my friend. Run Rahm Emanuel's party line with someone else my friend.
I speak from experience.
And I'm more insidery and meta than you could ever understand.
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Yes, he would have passed a background check. That was the whole fucking point of my comment. If this man, or the VA Tech shooter, or the guy who took an Amish school hostage can pass a background check, then maybe the background checks we have aren't particularly effective, are they?
It's all about personal responsibility until you have to actually take some, huh? The NRA's approach on gun control has, without exception, been "Guns don't kill people, people kill people", which is partially correct. However, guns make it a hell of a lot easier for people to kill people. In context, it would have been much more difficult for this particular individual to murder a completely innocent person without a handgun.
"I knew a guy who was arrested for trying to buy 3,000 handguns off an ATF undercover agent."
What does this mean? I don't care that you "knew a guy" who did anything. As is all of your blather about Rahm Emmanuel, Rod Blagojevich (tip: Google is fucking great for learning how to spell something you're unsure of), or how "insidery" or "meta" you are. That's all irrelevant to the point, and doesn't really have any bearing on this particular discussion (except that, in my mind, discrediting you further since you can't stay on fucking topic).
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Good luck with that whole gun control thing, because the millions of Americans who own guns certainly are not going to turn them in for any reason, and anyone who tries to force them is likely to end up very dead shortly thereafter.
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Your argument reminds me of all the people who suggest we castrate rapists. That wouldn't have done much for my friend who was raped with a beer bottle. I'm no fan of guns, but I don't understand the knee-jerk "gun control" cry that gets uttered every time this happens. No matter how hard you try to control this thing you fear, you're not going to stop such things.
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But far from it bolstering your case, it illustrates how idiotically easy it is for people to purchase a multitude of guns through "legitimate" means and then turn around, file off the serial #'s and then illegally reselling them. If anything this proves how loopholes should be closed all across the country to crack down on "straw purchase" practices and make the process of purchasing a firearm more stringent so that only legitimate users are the ultimate recipient of the guns they purchase and they're not reselling them on the black market, which is where most guns used in street crimes originate from. After all, if there's a criminal background check to stop crooks from purchasing guns, then how in the hell are they all getting their hand on them?
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And... do what, exactly? Ban being a "loser"? Discriminate people who are socially awkward? The outward signs of the kinds of dysfunction that you're talking about are shared by an awful lot of people who are not violent, are not misogynists, are not racist or anti-semitic. Whenever something like this happens, people begin to agitate towards "doing something" about the problem. The effect of that something is merely to further stigmatize people who already face marginalization, almost without exception. And it never actually prevents anything at all. It just makes it a little shittier for the people who have to live as permanent outcasts.
There are people in every human society who are simply predatory and murderous, there's no reliable way to divide them from the hordes of men who are just lonely and unpopular and sad until after the fact, and there is no preventing the tragic but statistically tiny threat of the lone crazed murderer. As much as I wish it wasn't the case, there is no preventing this kind of violence, without being able to make wholesale changes in human nature.
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And among the people who need guns to get by, hunt, protect themselves because they live in isolated tiny towns with no constabulary: almost all of these people are for gun control. How does a creep like that get a gun?
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