In the interest of fairness (yeah, right), I have viewed a clip or two of Ms. Grey and my response remains: Ker-schnooze. Call me picky, but it just bores me to tears to see people cramming everything but the family sedan into any available orifice. If someone wants to pay to see it, good for them, have a jolly good time. But to call it all kinds of awesomeness is utterly ridiculous. People, it's a cum-drenched woman! Let's not pretend it's art for god's sake.
I've never been so disappointed in Gawker as I am now, looking at the kneejerkoff responses. It's as solemn and self-servingly unctuous as ... a speech at the Oscars. Rest assured, Dworkettes, ( may she truly rot in a Lovecraftian hell of sentient putrefaction ) millions of your sons and daughters knew quite well who Ms. Grey is. " You're sons and you8're duaghters are beyond you're command ... " Yeah, I abused a sixties protest song, because we still ( STILL ) have a first amendment, Jezebel, Dworkin, Nikki Finke eta l, or not.
She reminds me so much of Traci Lords. I personally don't think this girl is sane. Fucking that much since being under age doesn't give you a normal outlook on life and people but maybe I'm wrong.
When a woman is attractive and contemptuous it is read as "smart". Doubtful Ms. Grey has the coyly-hidden intelligence for which she is given so much credit. People who are immature think snide/caustic responses make them look all kinds of smart. Think: 10th grade.
Nor is she the first porn actress to attempt a mainstream crossover via "smart" films. There is also the "belittling" and soul-killing nature of doing press for movies to consider. Nothing new to see here, move along.
I call bullshit on her big brain. Also, believing you are smarter than everyone else and that you can read other people and manipulate them with your incredible insight is a symptom of mental illness. F.Y.I.
a) My comment about the uninterestingness of Sasha Grey profiles was intended to find fault in the media, not Ms. Grey, who, for the record, I find absolutely delightful. Frankly, the "OMG a pornstar who's not retarded and has aspirations to do many things in addition to porn!" angle is tiresome.
b) I find this interview incredibly disrespectful, and I do agree that questions like this would not have been directed at anyone outside of the adult industry.
c) The assumptions being made in these comments are pretty horrific--for those of you who've looked at Sasha's IMDB listings and can't find "art" there, ever heard the line about not judging a book by its cover? You might actually want to see the films before you deride her as just another damaged pornstar.
d) For once and for all: Sasha never called herself an existentialist. That line was taken out of context... as are so many things.
@Lux Alptraum: for those of you who've looked at Sasha's IMDB listings and can't find "art" there, ever heard the line about not judging a book by its cover? You might actually want to see the films before you deride her as just another damaged pornstar.
I was the one who said there's not much art in her titles, going by the imdb list ([www.imdb.com]). I never called her damaged, let alone expressed "hate," and in fact I wished her well wherever her future lies.
I HAVE sought out some of her scenes: specifically, ones she has won awards for, in Babysitters and Fuck Slaves. Sorry, I don't find them artful. Maybe you find art in Gang Bang My Face, Slam It! In a Slut, or Cum Fart Cocktails 5 -- none of which, admittedly, have I seen. But you're being disingenuous to suggest that it's impossible to judge a porn by its title, director, and box. And it's a bit hysterical to call that assumption "horrific," don't you think?
Also, it's your job to support the industry, so before you call people with critical opinions "haters," you might consider your own bias and resultant defensiveness.
I do agree with you that TAN's questions were disrespectful. I'm sure he lost her from the start with the stupid "seduced via email" line.
a. wasn't that the context i placed your comment in? you finding her delightful, and anything i've said in the interview don't have to be mutually exclusive.
b. such as which questions?
d. yeah, that's debunked in a previous interview. but isn't it a semantic nit?
you're a fan, ok, but how often do the same problems/criticism with her interviews occur before it's not "the media".
@LvV: "Also, it's your job to support the industry, so before you call people with critical opinions "haters," you might consider your own bias and resultant defensiveness."
Actually, it's not. My job is to write about things that are sexy. I can be--and have been--critical of the adult industry when I see fit.
@T.A.N.: a. Yes, but I wanted to clarify for those who might not be aware.
b. I think Sasha addressed that concern in her answers.
I actually don't usually criticize her interviews, most of them are well done, if a bit too gee whiz for my taste. And it's not a problem with "the media," it's a problem with a culture that sees being involved with the adult industry--or any sex-related field--as problematic or a sign of some illness.
@Lux Alptraum: You ought to really take a step back and think about what you're saying. Are you really saying that Sasha Grey is creating art? Do you believe every press release?
You come along with a humorless statement that contains some vaguely contrarian-for-the-sake-of-being-contrarian position and then expect us to treat it as fact because you frame your argument in terms of tolerance, coolness and sexiness. Then you get testy when others come and try to say where they think you've gone wrong.
Anyone who refers to themselves as an "existentialist" is full of shit. Sasha's ability to manipulate the media, or, more accurately, to sit back while the media manipulates itself, does require intelligence, and I respect her for recognizing the pathetic state of modern media and its intersection with commercialism and sex. That being said, the girl is a porn star, so let's leave it at that.
Everyone thinks, everyone creates, everyone fucks, and everyone suffers fear and anxiety in the face of themselves and others. There is nothing especially mysterious or riveting about Sasha Grey. Her "art" is a string of cheesy fuck flicks, and her pretensions are childish.
@FaceMelter: Yes. She's an adept manipulator of media. You're right that that doesn't take any great skill or intelligence to pull off. Also, you're correct: her pretensions to being an existentialist are merely pretentious. My contention is that her writing a book on "the philosophy of sex" (acc. to the recent Onion interview) is simply embarrassing, delusional self-promotion.
I await the book with something less than bated breath, though, because I fear that it's just going to contain the same kind of name-checking and causes célèbres that Americans always confuse with actual cultural, political and philosophical discourse. There will naturally be shocking revelations about the porn industry (but probably tame in comparison with other, earlier accounts of libertinage), some bits shown in to show that the author has been to Barnes & Noble and then some anecdotes about her sexuality as a teenager -- all nine years of them since menarche. All in all, nothing really to write home about -- but then who would be crazy enough to write home about such topics anyway.
@Borromeo: @i'm a bottle: she fucks people and cashes checks. sometimes you can masturbate to it, other times you are in the mood to masturbate to something else. either way you would rather be having actual sex. porn is diet coke, o'douls and methadone. bland, a compromise and kind of boring.
i don't care how many different kinds of fucking my favorite authors are into and i don't care how many books the girl who is reverse cowgirling on my computer screen has read. she makes a living and more power to her, but sasha grey being cogent and well-read figures into making good porn about as much as loving anal and getting punched figured into, say, joan didion writing "slouching towards bethlehem".
Obviously, her whole existence depends on the premise that being a whore is "controversial". This is why she has to keep aggressively defending herself even when no one is attacking her. It's best to avoid this person.
actually, TAN, the question was both belittling and made you sound like a seven year old. maybe she just tuned you out after that? next time, read the prior interviews first and try to ask fewer, more interesting questions more directly.
I remain amazed at the number of people who are so interested in "the story" from people who make a living doing sex work. It's as if people grant sex workers a certain cool cache by nature of the job. I've never fucked for money (and as the primary breadwinner of my household, I can say that even as a married woman), but I'm guessing it's about as interesting as selling hot dogs at the circus.
I'm tempted to agree that she comes across as a bitch. I'm also tempted to agree that T.A.N. sounds like a jackass in most of his questions. (Except the Gladwell and mortality one.)
One thing I am sure of though, Fuck Email Interviews. I lost a little bit of respect for both parties after reading this, and I think the format of the interview is to blame. Not T.A.N.'s fault I guess, as Sasha was probably difficult to get a hold of. But if this is the best you can bring us, T.A.N., you might as well have scrapped it. (I know, I know, it's all about teh pageview$.)
She's been interviewed plenty of places elsewhere in the past couple of weeks, so I doubt many of us oversaturated media-addicted Gawker readers were really clamoring for more Sasha to begin with. Much less from a site I never go to for interviews in the first place!
@Guy Whitey Corngood: Email interviews can be good if they're done well. And usually that means the interviewer follows up with additional questions and comments to make the interview seem more like a conversation. "Deconstructing" the interview with italicized asides after the fact is lazy and amateurish. If you're putting up an interview that leads with a blurb saying you only found only more questions then maybe you should have... asked more questions.
You're right: if this is the best interview Gawker could have done, I would've given TAN a killfee and deleted the whole thing.
@hollyrock: Yes, I agree that the e-mail interview could have been done better. The interview really didn't get at the heart of the matter. The questions were coy: they were half-serious. This may have thrown Sasha Grey off the track. She couldn't tell whether the interviewer was just trying to play with her to get a choice quote somewhere.
I assume from the curtness of her replies, though, that a Gawker interview was not high on her list of promotional priorities. Surely the realities of a heavy promotional schedule played a part in the inefficacy of some questions to peel back the layers of masks she wears to find the artist beneath, right?
@i'm a bottle: I didn't particularly care for her answers, but I pretty much don't care much about her at all. It's not a pornography thing, or a porn star breaking into maintstream thing, it's just an "I don't care anything about Sasha Grey" thing. Get into a lively interview with Joanna Angel (or someone who doesn't seem to radiate a fuck off, asshole vibe) and I'll be more engaged.
All of this said, I thought T.A.N.'s questions came off as lazy, poorly worded and pretty shallow. It was like a 21-year old video gamer with very little experience writing or interviewing was suddenly put in charge of interviewing her.
In fact, after re-reading it, those were really fucking stupid questions, for the most part. Poorly worded and seemingly constructed to sound deep and thoughtful without actually being so at all.
@Go Like Hell Machine: Yes, I agree that they were poor questions. I would have liked to hear more about this book she's supposed to be writing. Also, it would have been interesting to hear about the relationship she has with her manager/boyfriend. The e-mail format is, in itself, a poor method of gaining insight into a mind.
Charlotte Roche, the author of Wetlands, has the same interview strategy that Sasha Grey does. First, it must be said, that they both look and behave great on camera. They both play the naïve innocents, then they invariably throw some provocative remark or word in and then pretend to be too innocent to understand what it means when everyone else is shocked. They are great at simultaneously looking both hypersexual and girlishly innocent, and it comes across well to the somewhat conventional audience who fancies itself open-minded. But just imagine if Betty Dobson -- for example -- were to come on one of those Carson-Daly-like bullshit talk shows and talk about vibrators and orgasms in a humorous yet frank and honest way. The audience would be shocked at her truly unconventional honesty, enough so to run her off the stage.
This whole thing is, of course, bound up with the (unfortunate) Madonna-prostitute dichotomy, by which, we all know, Americans -- both men and women alike -- like their womenfolk to abide. Sasha Grey plays both roles beautifully, but is neither -- or is she both? She is forced to avoid being grouped into either category because those roles are too limiting for her.
So she can deal with the conventional audience, sure, but she can't deal with the more sophisticated -- read, jaded -- audiences who aren't easily shocked and thus aren't impressed by those games. Such audiences just want to hear what's on her mind. It turns out that it's a little more difficult for her to play to that audience, as we can see from the interview above.
Such audiences just want to hear what's on her mind. It turns out that it's a little more difficult for her to play to that audience, as we can see from the interview above.
Thus far I haven't been overly impressed by her articulateness. That being said, she doesn't work in an industry where that would be considered a virtue (to be totally obvious)--but neither does she seem to embrace any attempt to convey her own point of view in a way that doesn't seem a little downsized. Maybe I haven't read enough of her interviews? I mean, yes, she's a Supr Srs Prnstr, but what does that mean?
Such audiences just want to hear what's on her mind. It turns out that it's a little more difficult for her to play to that audience, as we can see from the interview above.
when an interviewer asks her something beyond "omg u r sooooooo serious and smart can you tell me more about namechecking some intro to modern american lit author???" she turns into a total bitch. there's nothing there. no big deal but quite frankly the whole portrayal of her as SRS SMART PR0N STAR OMG is demeaning to intelligent people, women, and other porn stars quite fucking honestly.
@allyzay: This week's edition of The Onion has an interview with her that sheds a lot more light on this, actually. I didn't even know about the article until after I'd finished writing my comment, haha, but it definitely provides more insight.
@pureblarney: I keep missing the part where this girl is "smart" - she seems to talk around things and not shun public attention but that does not in any way translate to her being smart.
@ShanghaiLil: @A121Author: @hamburgerhotdog: @pureblarney: @allyzay: I find it odd that she flat out lies about factual events. I mean that whole thing about her being punched in the stomach. She stated clearly that it happened to Tyra Banks. I wonder whether she just said it to elicit sympathy from Tyra and the shocked audience. It would seem that contradicting yourself in such obvious ways would work against having people take you seriously as something more than just a pornstar. Maybe that's just me, though. Maybe I don't see her master plan.
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When a woman is attractive and contemptuous it is read as "smart". Doubtful Ms. Grey has the coyly-hidden intelligence for which she is given so much credit. People who are immature think snide/caustic responses make them look all kinds of smart. Think: 10th grade.
Nor is she the first porn actress to attempt a mainstream crossover via "smart" films. There is also the "belittling" and soul-killing nature of doing press for movies to consider. Nothing new to see here, move along.
I call bullshit on her big brain. Also, believing you are smarter than everyone else and that you can read other people and manipulate them with your incredible insight is a symptom of mental illness. F.Y.I.
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Seriously, Sasha is someone I would want to be friends with for reals, regardless of her career.
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a) My comment about the uninterestingness of Sasha Grey profiles was intended to find fault in the media, not Ms. Grey, who, for the record, I find absolutely delightful. Frankly, the "OMG a pornstar who's not retarded and has aspirations to do many things in addition to porn!" angle is tiresome.
b) I find this interview incredibly disrespectful, and I do agree that questions like this would not have been directed at anyone outside of the adult industry.
c) The assumptions being made in these comments are pretty horrific--for those of you who've looked at Sasha's IMDB listings and can't find "art" there, ever heard the line about not judging a book by its cover? You might actually want to see the films before you deride her as just another damaged pornstar.
d) For once and for all: Sasha never called herself an existentialist. That line was taken out of context... as are so many things.
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I was the one who said there's not much art in her titles, going by the imdb list ([www.imdb.com]). I never called her damaged, let alone expressed "hate," and in fact I wished her well wherever her future lies.
I HAVE sought out some of her scenes: specifically, ones she has won awards for, in Babysitters and Fuck Slaves. Sorry, I don't find them artful. Maybe you find art in Gang Bang My Face, Slam It! In a Slut, or Cum Fart Cocktails 5 -- none of which, admittedly, have I seen. But you're being disingenuous to suggest that it's impossible to judge a porn by its title, director, and box. And it's a bit hysterical to call that assumption "horrific," don't you think?
Also, it's your job to support the industry, so before you call people with critical opinions "haters," you might consider your own bias and resultant defensiveness.
I do agree with you that TAN's questions were disrespectful. I'm sure he lost her from the start with the stupid "seduced via email" line.
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a. wasn't that the context i placed your comment in? you finding her delightful, and anything i've said in the interview don't have to be mutually exclusive.
b. such as which questions?
d. yeah, that's debunked in a previous interview. but isn't it a semantic nit?
you're a fan, ok, but how often do the same problems/criticism with her interviews occur before it's not "the media".
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Actually, it's not. My job is to write about things that are sexy. I can be--and have been--critical of the adult industry when I see fit.
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b. I think Sasha addressed that concern in her answers.
I actually don't usually criticize her interviews, most of them are well done, if a bit too gee whiz for my taste. And it's not a problem with "the media," it's a problem with a culture that sees being involved with the adult industry--or any sex-related field--as problematic or a sign of some illness.
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You come along with a humorless statement that contains some vaguely contrarian-for-the-sake-of-being-contrarian position and then expect us to treat it as fact because you frame your argument in terms of tolerance, coolness and sexiness. Then you get testy when others come and try to say where they think you've gone wrong.
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Everyone thinks, everyone creates, everyone fucks, and everyone suffers fear and anxiety in the face of themselves and others. There is nothing especially mysterious or riveting about Sasha Grey. Her "art" is a string of cheesy fuck flicks, and her pretensions are childish.
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Perhaps one day Miss Grey will be all 3, perhaps she wont, i wont knock or mock her for trying.
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I await the book with something less than bated breath, though, because I fear that it's just going to contain the same kind of name-checking and causes célèbres that Americans always confuse with actual cultural, political and philosophical discourse. There will naturally be shocking revelations about the porn industry (but probably tame in comparison with other, earlier accounts of libertinage), some bits shown in to show that the author has been to Barnes & Noble and then some anecdotes about her sexuality as a teenager -- all nine years of them since menarche. All in all, nothing really to write home about -- but then who would be crazy enough to write home about such topics anyway.
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i don't care how many different kinds of fucking my favorite authors are into and i don't care how many books the girl who is reverse cowgirling on my computer screen has read. she makes a living and more power to her, but sasha grey being cogent and well-read figures into making good porn about as much as loving anal and getting punched figured into, say, joan didion writing "slouching towards bethlehem".
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One thing I am sure of though, Fuck Email Interviews. I lost a little bit of respect for both parties after reading this, and I think the format of the interview is to blame. Not T.A.N.'s fault I guess, as Sasha was probably difficult to get a hold of. But if this is the best you can bring us, T.A.N., you might as well have scrapped it. (I know, I know, it's all about teh pageview$.)
She's been interviewed plenty of places elsewhere in the past couple of weeks, so I doubt many of us oversaturated media-addicted Gawker readers were really clamoring for more Sasha to begin with. Much less from a site I never go to for interviews in the first place!
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You're right: if this is the best interview Gawker could have done, I would've given TAN a killfee and deleted the whole thing.
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I assume from the curtness of her replies, though, that a Gawker interview was not high on her list of promotional priorities. Surely the realities of a heavy promotional schedule played a part in the inefficacy of some questions to peel back the layers of masks she wears to find the artist beneath, right?
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All of this said, I thought T.A.N.'s questions came off as lazy, poorly worded and pretty shallow. It was like a 21-year old video gamer with very little experience writing or interviewing was suddenly put in charge of interviewing her.
In fact, after re-reading it, those were really fucking stupid questions, for the most part. Poorly worded and seemingly constructed to sound deep and thoughtful without actually being so at all.
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This whole thing is, of course, bound up with the (unfortunate) Madonna-prostitute dichotomy, by which, we all know, Americans -- both men and women alike -- like their womenfolk to abide. Sasha Grey plays both roles beautifully, but is neither -- or is she both? She is forced to avoid being grouped into either category because those roles are too limiting for her.
So she can deal with the conventional audience, sure, but she can't deal with the more sophisticated -- read, jaded -- audiences who aren't easily shocked and thus aren't impressed by those games. Such audiences just want to hear what's on her mind. It turns out that it's a little more difficult for her to play to that audience, as we can see from the interview above.
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Such audiences just want to hear what's on her mind. It turns out that it's a little more difficult for her to play to that audience, as we can see from the interview above.
Thus far I haven't been overly impressed by her articulateness. That being said, she doesn't work in an industry where that would be considered a virtue (to be totally obvious)--but neither does she seem to embrace any attempt to convey her own point of view in a way that doesn't seem a little downsized. Maybe I haven't read enough of her interviews? I mean, yes, she's a Supr Srs Prnstr, but what does that mean?
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Such audiences just want to hear what's on her mind. It turns out that it's a little more difficult for her to play to that audience, as we can see from the interview above.
when an interviewer asks her something beyond "omg u r sooooooo serious and smart can you tell me more about namechecking some intro to modern american lit author???" she turns into a total bitch. there's nothing there. no big deal but quite frankly the whole portrayal of her as SRS SMART PR0N STAR OMG is demeaning to intelligent people, women, and other porn stars quite fucking honestly.
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