Being 212 years old, I tend to regard these things as an attempt by "our youth" to discover something against which to rebel after most all of the options have been taken. It seems unless one opts for full-on gunplay, the only other option is gender-defying costume choices. It's so hard to rattle mom's and dad's cages when they already covered the same territory. Imagine the frustration of spending all that time taping down your breasts and stuffing a sock in your panties just to have your egg and sperm donors say, "Wow, Chelsea! You look like an awesome dude, Have a great time tonight tonguing some cheerleader's happy meal." #thekids
sigh. Even though I gave up years ago trying to argue that MTVmo bands like Fall Out Boy have zero in common with the true emo that grew out of the hardcore scene of 80s, it still pains me to see them and Adam Lambert (are you effing kidding me?) mentioned as emo. I will now go and cry and be old I guess. Jesus that's just depressing. #thekids
I went to high school in the 90's, at a school that enforced a strict dress code. Guess what? The kids who were gay were gay regardless, the skaters were skaters, and the jocks were jocks. Dress codes don't make or break someone's identity.
We're talking about teenagers. Of course they're going to think that the biggest factor in gender identity is dress. These are the kids that buy skateboarding brand t-shirts because they want to identify with skateboarding culture. Sooner or later they're going to realize that wearing a t-shirt doesn't make you a better skateboarder. But for now, they're teenagers, and have a lot to learn. #thekids
@bens: Yep. This is why teenagers should all be forced to where yellow jumpsuits. Or paisley waistcoats. Something uniform. At school, anyway. #thekids
@ms_priestypants: It's been a while since I looked around there, but I think the paisley bit is the best, so you didn't miss much
@ArleenCabango: Yeah, I agree with pretty much everything about Catholicism except the religious stuff. #thekids
Methinks Mr. Weiner and Co. are setting up a season finale to end all...and I can't wait. I do think there is more to Ms. Farrell than we think, and that she may prove to be Don's undoing, one way or another. Mad Men continues to deliver...and beware Betty scorned! Hell hath no fury...I was waiting for her to tell him last night, but I'm glad she choked it back. It will be so much more angry when it does happen... #madmen
So Don has his entire life story just sitting there in a cigar box and all he does is lock it in a desk and then leave the key in his dirty laundry?
C'mon. The guy obviously goes to Cold War Spy-level lengths to protect his privacy, yet just leaves the key sitting there for Betty.
Wouldn't a safe deposit box have been a more realistic choice? This just seems like lazy script writing. Maybe it was a last-minute change they decided to work in. #madmen
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Could be that Don just trust banks. A few Depression era folk I knew never used a bank to keep their money (the wholesale bank collapses probably didn't help.) #madmen
@Botswana Meat Commission FC: He's been stashing stuff in that desk drawer since the beginning of Season 1, but I agree that he was incredibly sloppy in securing the key. We've seen Betty trying to get in that drawer without success for years, and now that she knows something of what Don's hiding, I can't wait to see how she's going to drop the bomb. #madmen
@Botswana Meat Commission FC: I think it just shows how Don underestimates Betty. And I could see Don liking the idea that this whole other life is just sitting there in a desk drawer in his own house. Besides, with a safe deposit box comes a paper trail. #madmen
I was dying to see Betty explode at Don after finding that box, but alas, it was apparently much more important that I vomit all over myself watching Don's relationship with that insipid teacher. Also, Ossining to Framingham? That's an obscenely long drive. I call shenanigans on, well, just about everything relating to that storyline, which I found utterly ridiculous. At least she didn't try to get Don to employ her brother at Sterling Cooper, which is where I thought the story was going. Thank heaven for small favors.
As for the divorce papers, perhaps this is what you were saying, but I assume this Don Draper gave them to Anna after she discovered that he was still alive and using her husband's name, since although she was a widow, the state obviously didn't recognize her as one. #madmen
@Understater: I find her completely unwatchable; she is constantly wavering between these two planes of wise and dumb, which would be charmingly childlike if she didn't take it to such extremes. She had such potential to be the woman who was above it all, who knew when she was being played, and the dangers of getting involved with a family man, and who finally turned down Don Draper, and she dropped that in about three seconds when he showed up at her house. She makes good arguments for why they're a disaster, and then freaking introduces him to her brother. She knows this is the worst affair he's ever had, but she makes it a thousand times worse by engaging him in childlike philosophical discussions; frankly, if I met the guy I was having an affair with through teaching his child, I'm not sure "my student" is a subject I would bring up in bed. Even her facial expressions seem stupid to me; unreadable, but not in a clever way. I just don't like this woman--or this storyline--at all, and to pretend that there's any chance in hell that Don Draper would drive approximately 8 hours in one night for her seems like an insult to the viewers' intelligence. #madmen
@DahlELama: Via I-95, NY to Boston is 180 miles. I suspect that it's more like 140-150 miles from Ossining to Framingham via the Merritt and Wilbur Cross Parkways and the Mass Pike; so it's 2-1/2 hours at 60mph, and Don strikes me as the kind of guy who would go 75 or 80 in the middle of the night. Empty roads, big, fast car, cops with no radar, and no correlation between cumulative driving infractions and insurance rates means that Don can put the pedal to the metal if he wants to.
Also, in one of Don's flashbacks (on the California trip?), he told Anna he was getting married to Betty, and Anna pointed out that first, he was going to have to get a divorce, with which she was happy to cooperate. #madmen
@DahlELama: The divorce thing was covered in one of the flashback episodes last season- Don is with the blonde wife of the real Don in California (who tracked him down when he was selling used cars somewhere, and an actual platonic relationship developed), and he is telling her about meeting Betty, and how he is in love and wants to get married. It was a really touching scene, very wiser-big sister-talking-to-excited-little-brother, with a sad look from the woman when he explains this means they have to get a divorce. Don gives her the deed to her house, and sends her money, I think, to make up for the widow benefits she isn't getting.
He visits her again in the episode where he disappears on Pete Campbell in California, it seems that she's his touchstone.
And, yes, I am a little embarrassed that I have this series memorized, but a girl needs hobbies, right? #madmen
@DahlELama: I like that the attraction for Don seems to be that she is the anti-Betty, from the dark hair to the inability to restrain herself from saying whatever she's thinking. I do think she has the potential to murder the family pets when Don tries to break it off with her, but she also seems to be a good example of the liminal stage women were in at this time- not quite into feminist consciousness raising, but also not the 50s housewife living off of miltown tablets to make the whole thing bearable. #madmen
@ms_priestypants: No shame in this, darling! I like to think I could recall information with the same sort of accuracy with regard to Veronica Mars or Saved by the Bell. Also, I was pretty sure this was the case, I just couldn't remember if we saw an actual divorce paper exchange or not. #madmen
@Cynical Media Bitch: Hmm, perhaps I've misplaced Ossining, but I've made the drive from New Rochelle a number of times and it's pretty rare to do it in under 3 hours. I also don't imagine a car like that to move that quickly, but that might be my obnoxious youth showing. Either way, I felt like it was a much more time-and-energy-sapping endeavor than I found believable coming from Mr. Draper, but it's not quite as egregious as I'd previously thought. #madmen
@DahlELama: I hate night driving in so many ways, but the one advantage is that there's less traffic on the road. I suspect in 1963 there was much less, given that over-the-road trucking hadn't taken off, and that there were 100 million fewer people in the nation, meaning millions fewer cars on the road.
My point is that it's not easy to equate a drive from New Rochelle to Boston today with the experience back then, given the congestion factor.
Don's Cadillac is a V-8, most likely has a 390 under the hood, and most importantly, no pollution controls. It may not come off the line quickly, but that engine is quite capable of moving all that steel at a damn good clip.
We forget how in those pre-efficiency days, a top-end vehicle could move like nobody's business. Back in my salad days, I occasionally took a Ford Club Wagon (it had no aerodynamics at all, a 460 ci engine, and more body weight) up above 100 with ease. #madmen
The end of the episode was uncomfortable to watch, particularly after Don said how Betty was expected to be one of the focal points of the party. The meltdown Betty had last season was epic, and I don't know how they're going to top it this time. #madmen
@Understater: It's a commentary on the fact that product liability litigation was in its infancy at the time. The series this year is set in 1963, which is the year that California first adopted the concept of strict liability. The series sprinkles in stuff to show how different the legal atmosphere was at the time -- e.g. the notion that the victim's career was over because he was missing a foot; the inability of the brother to get a job because of his epilepsy; the scene in the first season when Sally's playing with the dry cleaning bag and Betty just chastises her for messing up daddy's dry cleaning; the efforts to deal with the science emerging at the time that cigarettes caused disease; and the endless sexual harassment. Today, she might not be fired, but she'd sure be the subject of a massive lawsuit, as would the tractor company and the ad agency. #madmen
Leaving the key in his housecoat was Don's biggest blunder that was caught by Betty.
Teacher is starting to give off a bunny boiler vibe. It seems that Nov 23 is going to be a very bad day for almost everyone involved.
I winced when Paul shook Achillies hand. Only if he knew where it had been...
I'm surprised that Lois (the lawnmower lady) is still at SC. I'd think that chopping off the foot/feet of your new boss would be a career limiting move, but maybe that's me. It's okay to fuck up as long as you don't chop off your customer's feet. #madmen
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We're talking about teenagers. Of course they're going to think that the biggest factor in gender identity is dress. These are the kids that buy skateboarding brand t-shirts because they want to identify with skateboarding culture. Sooner or later they're going to realize that wearing a t-shirt doesn't make you a better skateboarder. But for now, they're teenagers, and have a lot to learn. #thekids
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@Varnsen: What the--? People are strange. #thekids
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@ArleenCabango: Yeah, I agree with pretty much everything about Catholicism except the religious stuff. #thekids
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C'mon. The guy obviously goes to Cold War Spy-level lengths to protect his privacy, yet just leaves the key sitting there for Betty.
Wouldn't a safe deposit box have been a more realistic choice? This just seems like lazy script writing. Maybe it was a last-minute change they decided to work in. #madmen
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Could be that Don just trust banks. A few Depression era folk I knew never used a bank to keep their money (the wholesale bank collapses probably didn't help.) #madmen
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As for the divorce papers, perhaps this is what you were saying, but I assume this Don Draper gave them to Anna after she discovered that he was still alive and using her husband's name, since although she was a widow, the state obviously didn't recognize her as one. #madmen
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Also, in one of Don's flashbacks (on the California trip?), he told Anna he was getting married to Betty, and Anna pointed out that first, he was going to have to get a divorce, with which she was happy to cooperate. #madmen
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He visits her again in the episode where he disappears on Pete Campbell in California, it seems that she's his touchstone.
And, yes, I am a little embarrassed that I have this series memorized, but a girl needs hobbies, right? #madmen
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My point is that it's not easy to equate a drive from New Rochelle to Boston today with the experience back then, given the congestion factor.
Don's Cadillac is a V-8, most likely has a 390 under the hood, and most importantly, no pollution controls. It may not come off the line quickly, but that engine is quite capable of moving all that steel at a damn good clip.
We forget how in those pre-efficiency days, a top-end vehicle could move like nobody's business. Back in my salad days, I occasionally took a Ford Club Wagon (it had no aerodynamics at all, a 460 ci engine, and more body weight) up above 100 with ease. #madmen
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Also, I think it would be awesome if Betty went to California to confront the other Mrs. Draper. #madmen
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Teacher is starting to give off a bunny boiler vibe. It seems that Nov 23 is going to be a very bad day for almost everyone involved.
I winced when Paul shook Achillies hand. Only if he knew where it had been...
I'm surprised that Lois (the lawnmower lady) is still at SC. I'd think that chopping off the foot/feet of your new boss would be a career limiting move, but maybe that's me. It's okay to fuck up as long as you don't chop off your customer's feet. #madmen
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