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    Image of Magister Magister
    12/06/09

    In reply to GLAAD-Handed, Castle-Storming Adam Lambert to Come on The View
    I really hope the kid's fifteen minutes can go another five for the sake of everyone so invested, but I don't find the fact that he'll be on a show partially-owned by Barbara Walters to promote a Barbara Walters-owned, Barbara Walters Special, all that surprising.

    ETA: ...or maybe it's fascinating?
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    12/05/09

    In reply to GLAAD-Handed, Castle-Storming Adam Lambert to Come on The View
    Lambert seriously strikes me as attempting to be "spokesperson of the gheighs", when in fact he seems to me to be the least attractive candidate for this position. It seems that he can't decide which way to play his sexuality so that it gets the most publicity. Then when he hears "gay it up a little" from the blogs, he interprets that as "face-hump a dude on a network television awards show and piss off a whole bunch of people". Go away, please, Adam, you're making the rest of us look like fameballing twatwaffles by association.
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    Edited by seyswho at 12/05/09 1:22 PM seyswho was starred seyswho was unstarred
    Image of Nigerian Business Executive Nigerian Business Executive
    12/05/09

    @seyswho: Or you could just mumble "Adam who?" every time someone brings him up. That's my approach, having never knowingly heard one of his songs.

    I doubt his shiny star will last very long in any case.
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    seyswho promoted this comment Edited by Nigerian Business Executive at 12/05/09 1:19 PM Nigerian Business Executive was starred Nigerian Business Executive was unstarred
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    12/05/09

    @seyswho: I don't think he's trying to be a spokesperson for gays. He's trying to become a popular performer who is also gay. And that's precisely why GLAAD isn't mounting a stronger defense. They want him to be more political.

    He's not acting as a group advocate but as a group member. Instead of message points, he wants the freedom to express himself however he wants. Of course, that's the stated goal of gay equality, so in the long-term, he's doing more for gays than GLAAD. But now, he seems politically awkward and embarrassing.
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    12/05/09

    @FlowChart: Good points, that makes a lot of sense. It just seems like he can't find his sexuality "groove" - like he's trying too hard to be liked by everyone (when that will never happen), and in turn he's creating the exact opposite effect. Of course, really, all of this would probably be a moot point if he could just sing and perform worth a damn.
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    12/05/09

    Sorry, double post... Either Gawker or my computer are going all kinds of funky this morning.
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    Edited by seyswho at 12/05/09 1:55 PM seyswho was starred seyswho was unstarred
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    12/06/09

    @seyswho: "all of this would probably be a moot point if he could just sing and perform worth a damn."

    Agreed. On this point, we are in complete harmony.
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    12/05/09

    In reply to GLAAD-Handed, Castle-Storming Adam Lambert to Come on The View
    The catfight that breaks out between Lambert and Elizabeth Hasselbeck should be worth the time wasted to watch the show.
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    12/05/09

    @Lysergic Asset: Are all us gays obligated to watch that show now that GLAAD got him on (or whatever they did ... or more likely didn't do)?

    Damn. Guess that means I have to go out and buy a TV now. Being a gay is so hard!

    PS - If I were a betting man, I'd put my money on Glambert for that one, even though Hasselbeck did eat nothing but algae and lillypads in Australia for a month a few years ago.
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    Lysergic Asset promoted this comment Edited by Nigerian Business Executive at 12/05/09 1:17 PM Nigerian Business Executive was starred Nigerian Business Executive was unstarred
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    12/05/09

    @Nigerian Business Executive: Ha! As a not gay ("straight but not narrow") woman, I don't know about the gay obligation factor. I think it's a lot of pressure to put on someone so relatively young and emotionally volatile: Adam Lambert, you are hereby anointed the herald of the homos... it's a really delicate balancing act. I hope he pulls it off.

    Also: I could not possibly think any less of Hasselbeck, so I hope he wipes the floor with her and her retro 1950's housewife prejudices.
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    12/05/09

    @Lysergic Asset: It is my firm opinion that nothing is worth watching Elisabeth Hasselbeck unless she's being pelted with rotten vegetables. I might tune in for that. Might.
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    12/05/09

    @Lucky: To me, the only satisfaction would be like an opposite version of The Manchurian Candidate: to turn a mindless, programmed drone into a smart, decent person.
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    12/05/09

    @Lysergic Asset: While that would be satisfactory, it's a satisfaction neither one of us is likely to ever experience. So I say bring on the broccoli! Obviously you're much nicer than I am.
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    12/05/09

    @Lucky: You said it. (Ripe tomatoes would be much better.)
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    12/05/09

    In reply to How Many Press Releases Does It Take for GLAAD to Condemn Gay Defamation?
    Ugly Betty, Modern Family , Grey's Anatomy, Brothers & Sisters and Susan Lucci's daughter-character on All My Children, along with if you want to go historically, the original Ellen and Rosanne.
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    Edited by Magister at 12/05/09 12:15 AM Magister was starred Magister was unstarred
    Image of ShanghaiLil ShanghaiLil
    12/04/09

    In reply to How Many Press Releases Does It Take for GLAAD to Condemn Gay Defamation?
    I think that some of the confusion may lie with the peculiar expectation that someone who works at GLAAD is not a weenie.
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    12/04/09

    In reply to How Many Press Releases Does It Take for GLAAD to Condemn Gay Defamation?
    Brian: for this and other posts, I heart you. May I add a p.s. (or two) to your news release? Like:

    p.s. and because AP reporter Derrik J. Lang wrote about Adam's "outrageous" REHEARSAL performance, including the crotch/face plant, you are liars.

    p.p.s. and because you can't compare a pre-taped Ugly Betty and Modern Family with a live music awards show with edgy musicians tripping over themselves to push the envelope, as they have for DECADES (crikey, even Carrie Underwood looked like a brothel madam w/ a pack of singing prostitutes), and you expect and promote this AND specifically promoted Adam's provocative performance before the show to up ratings, you are also hypocrites.

    p.p.p.s. and because you continue to attempt to beat Adam into submission, and until you cease and give him his jobs back, you are also HOMOPHOBIC WEENIES!!!

    What? Too much?
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    12/03/09

    In reply to New York State Senate Votes Down Gay Marriage
    Wow, instant superstar. I haven't been very vocal about gay marriage because I figure it's inevitable and will absolutely happen in the near future. For some strange reason, I feel like it's not my issue.

    AIDS was my issue and it nearly killed me--not the virus itself thankfully, but literally fighting for access to new medicines, watching all the best people I knew die, and feeling so horribly guilty because I was spared. Not a day goes bye that I don't cry for the dead.

    Gay marriage seems so light-weight in comparison. My rational mind, of course, knows that that isn't true--it's absolutely vital and Americans are eventually gonna realize it's an irresistible force coming their way, like Gavin said "whether you like it or not!"

    I'm going to watch this clip again and then I'm gonna send this woman money for her re-election.
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    12/03/09

    In reply to New York State Senate Votes Down Gay Marriage
    Want my legal right to marry? It's on eBay!

    [cgi.ebay.com]
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    Image of psybab psybab
    12/03/09

    In reply to New York State Senate Votes Down Gay Marriage
    I really do hope y'all are contacting your senators. Especially if you live in astoria and LIC, because there's no way that area doesn't overwhelmingly support gay marriage.
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    Image of Urbania Urbania
    12/03/09

    @psybab: Onorato's term is his last. I promise you we will unseat him.
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    12/03/09

    @Urbania: Onorato is the one we should be gunning for, I think. He shouldn't survive a primary. The guy's been there since Astoria was really old school Greek, and I understand that, but his time is up.
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    12/03/09

    In reply to New York State Senate Votes Down Gay Marriage
    Things like this make me wonder what more I could be doing...
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    Image of Lucky Lucky
    12/02/09

    In reply to New York State Senate Votes Down Gay Marriage
    I don't know what's worse – having gay marriage voted down by a large number of bigoted assholes, as it was here in CA, or by a small number of bigoted assholes, as happened today. It's hard to believe there still has to be an argument about whether or not people deserve equal protection under the law.
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    12/02/09

    In reply to New York State Senate Votes Down Gay Marriage
    Thomas Jefferson, Declaration of Independence, July 4, 1776:
    We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.

    Frederick Douglass, Rochester, New York, July 5, 1852:
    Fellow citizens, pardon me, allow me to ask, why am I called upon to speak here today? What have I, or those I represent, to do with your national independence? Are the great principles of political freedom and of natural justice, embodied in that Declaration of Independence, extended to us?…
    I say it with a sad sense of the disparity between us. I am not included within the pale of this glorious anniversary! … The rich inheritance of justice, liberty, prosperity and independence, bequeathed by your fathers, is shared by you, not by me… This Fourth of July is yours, not mine…
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    Image of Six and a Quarter Six and a Quarter
    12/02/09

    @bodegacat: Not to get all soap-boxy, but there have been too many times throughout history when actions that should be axiomatically permitted and rights that should intuitively exist are denied. If interracial marriage is still being challenged in some parts of this country (thank you The South), how fucked is the gay marriage cause.

    When our government restricts the economic liberties of businesses it is the act of fascists, but when it prevents someone from doing what is essentially for humans the next step up from eating and breathing, then it is somehow preserving the American way of life? Up is down and down is up, and once again the world makes a little less sense.
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    bodegacat promoted this comment Edited by Six and a Quarter at 12/02/09 9:48 PM Six and a Quarter was starred Six and a Quarter was unstarred
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    12/02/09

    @Six and a Quarter: I'm not sure I catch your drift, or that you caught mine. I thought it was pretty obvious from those quotes that I find this vote abhorrent and archaic, denying basic human rights, but everything I thought to write seemed trite in comparison. Hence turning to someone like Frederick Douglass.
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    Image of Six and a Quarter Six and a Quarter
    12/03/09

    @bodegacat: Sorry for the clumsy ineptitude in explaining myself. Comes from being really irate, really hungry and really tired at the same time. I was agreeing with you and adding my own endorsement- hence the soap box language. Hoped that was clear in my post, but apparently not.
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    Edited by Six and a Quarter at 12/03/09 12:20 AM Six and a Quarter was starred Six and a Quarter was unstarred
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    12/03/09

    @Six and a Quarter: hey, my clumsy ineptitude can beat yours any day of the week. I was tired and irate too, which no doubt contributed to my non-capisce-iness. Our agreement leads me to the one encouraging thing in all this, besides Diane Savino: to see the increasing outrage over these votes as their archaic & cruel nature becomes glaringly obvious to more people.
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    Edited by bodegacat at 12/03/09 3:27 AM bodegacat was starred bodegacat was unstarred
    Image of Six and a Quarter Six and a Quarter
    12/03/09

    @bodegacat: Cheers to that! Maybe one day all of our mutual irateness will lead to positive changes in the status quo.
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    Edited by Six and a Quarter at 12/03/09 5:08 AM Six and a Quarter was starred Six and a Quarter was unstarred
    Image of Bindlestiffy Bindlestiffy
    12/03/09

    @bodegacat: Gay /= Oppressed Former Slave
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    12/03/09

    @Bindlestiffy: ya think? You have me confused with someone who needs that reminder. I was quoting someone I admire who knew something about the subject at hand. I wasn't trying to establish a hierarchical scale of suffering. I'll leave that to you.
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    Image of BowlingForDollars BowlingForDollars
    12/02/09

    In reply to New York State Senate Votes Down Gay Marriage
    I'm telling you, if there was a "Day Without a Gay" movement, bitches across the country would be rethinking gay marriage.

    So many industries would grind to a halt.
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    12/03/09

    @BowlingForDollars: Hair salons would have to go to the bench, that's for sure.
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    Image of manchops manchops
    12/02/09

    In reply to New York State Senate Votes Down Gay Marriage
    MARRIAGE EQUALITY RALLY IN TIMES SQUARE AT 6 PM AT THE TKTS STEPS.
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    12/02/09

    In reply to New York State Senate Votes Down Gay Marriage
    Hiram Monserrate's district office : (718) 205-3881 and Albany office: (518) 455-2529
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    Image of Bindlestiffy Bindlestiffy
    12/03/09

    @manchops: No home phone?
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    12/03/09

    @Bindlestiffy: No way, we wouldn't want to do that and interfere with his rights to privacy. you know like the privacy of loving whoever you want, right?
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