I've always said it, and I always will say it. The name of their state is not pronounced Miz-sur-ree, it's pronounced Misery. And the people who live in Misery are Miserables. Les and otherwise.
I am very interested in this idea that a fetus is not a human being. What exactly do you think it is?
The term fetus is merely used to describe a stage of a human being's development and is a reference to location more than anything else. It is the equivalent of 'toddler' or 'kindergartener'. If a woman gives birth to a baby in the afternoon it is not the case that in the morning it was some mysterious other being known as a fetus. No major physical transformation has occurred, the baby has simply left the womb.
To declare that a child is not a child simply because it is at a stage of development where either we can't see it without a UV or it doesn't look much like the children we see running around in the park is the height of fatuity.
@teqzilla: No one makes the fatuous argument you're making, so way to go on setting that pile of straw alight. If you really don't recognize the difference between a zygote and a baby, you are not a very sensible person. Here's a question: since zygotes are people, do we start hounding every woman who has a miscarriage to ensure she hasn't committed reckless endangerment? After all, a human being, in your view, has died, there should be a full investigation in case someone should be held responsible.
I am pro choice as well...but I'd like to extend the choice to the father too.
Why does the woman get to unilaterally choose?
Say you have sex, you use precautions, but they fail and the woman "falls" pregnant. If she doesn't want it, but the man does, too bad... she has an abortion. The father's wishes do not count...and I agreee, you shouldn't force a woman to have a baby she doesn't want.... But if she does want the baby and the man doesn't, she not only can keep it, but she can make the unwilling father pay for the child.....where is the "choice " there?
The law can deal only with the limitations of physical reality. Paternity of the fully separate, breathing human being cannot be determined until there is such a person around. The legal relationship between these two people is NOT connected to the other biological parent. Therefore, child support is due to a person who had no input into continuation of someone else's pregnancy either, even if they were the person who eventually resulted from it.
Such is why no state holds a man financially responsible for the pregnancy of a woman who is not his wife. The issue is regarded as HER medical condition which carries risks only to her and carries financial demands no matter which path she chooses. There's a financial cost and health risk to termination. There's a much greater financial cost and much greater health risk in continuing the pregnancy. Those costs and risks are the woman's alone, since it's happening only to her. (Men married to the pregnant woman are still assumed to paternity, therefore most states have some financial obligation to him in that case.)
This is AS equal a treatment the law can assign for a condition occurring solely in the body of only one of the partners and who has no legal partnership with the other.
After birth, there's a NEW person with new obligations. BOTH parents owe this new person support and companionship. There is no inequality in this situation at law either, though there is a case to be made for inequal application of the law.
Where inequality exists is in the relationship to the new, third person. In all states, it is easier for the woman to terminate that legal relationship than it is for a man proven to have paternity. If you want to take your inequal protection issue to any platform, it's THERE that you want to look.
The law can change that, but it cannot change biology for you to make it all conveniently equal.
Fuck you, anti-choice mouth breathers, if you even try to make points on this one.
Choice is the point, and the point is choice: a woman whose wanted pregnancy is forcibly taken from her is the victim of a crime, as surely as a woman whose unwanted pregnancy is forced on her is.
Agency, intention and choice, now and forever, are the basic reproductive freedoms and protections women require -- which would include financial support for women who are pregnant and whose abortions aren't really a choice at all when fear of being unable to support themselves and/or a child are the deciding factors
@Grandpapular: The crime is assault on the woman. She is not merely an incubator for a person, she is a person herself, and she was assaulted. How is this not obvious?
@MissNormaDesmond: I have to say I think it is assault plus. If a woman is pregnant with a wanted pregnancy and an assault takes that from her, it is two crimes. I am totally pr0-choice; my intent is that the value of the pregnancy is in the intent of the woman, and taking something of value from her is a double assault.
@Vivien Smith-Smythe-Smith: That's an interesting question, but I think it still goes to agency and intent. If something was stolen from your house that you were going to take to Goodwill, it was still stolen from you.
@If_I_Had_a_Poodle: Oh my god, best analogy of the week. Every abortion debate I engage in, overhear or imagine ever again is going to involve this comparison.
@If_I_Had_a_Poodle: Right, but the remedy to that is not to sidestep the woman entirely and charge someone with murder, which is a crime against the fetus and treats her merely as a bystander who happens to have what's being considered a person in her. No one considers murder to be a crime against someone's parents once they're born, so the pretext that this is done in order to recognize the woman's rights doesn't make sense. Create a separate class of assault if it seems really necessary to recognize the particular offensiveness of this crime, but don't render the person it's committed against invisible.
[Edited to add]Sorry, looking more closely I realize that you never specifically advocated a murder charge; I was confusing this with a different thread. I would call this assault with depraved indifference, by the way.
I just saw a man convicted of 1st degree murder for paying some guy $60 to punch his pregnant girlfriend in the stomach. The baby was delivered, and died a week later.
Doctors HAVE been known to do this. I can say with some authority that they have been known to do this in cases where women who've been institutionalized turn up pregnant, which they do more frequently than you might think. (note that my information is not current, but past performance may be a predictor...etc, etc)
@raincoaster: And when they do turn up pregnant, it's sometimes due to sexual abuse by the staff, which would mean the doctors in question were abetting a crime, if indeed they weren't the perpetrators.
@MissNormaDesmond: Well, no. Because usually there were some "staffing changes" pretty promptly afterwards, sometimes due to extended stays up-river. But quite shockingly often the families didn't want to bring charges.
Man, what happened to the good ol' days when a guy would just disappear off the face of the earth and the gal would have the baby in the next county and then show up and pretend her new child was her new sibling? America used to be a place of VALUES...
Why would you be so quick to tell the unstable doctor you're having an affair with (or a relationship that is more physical than commitment-y) that you're pregnant with his much-unwanted seed?* Wouldn't it at least cross your mind he'd turn to secret witch herb magics?
Isn't that like telling your angry cop boyfriend something he...uh...doesn't want to hear? Like, why take the chance?
@TheMac: I'm wondering what on earth she thought he was doing when he was sticking his hand in a plastic bag before "touching her sexually." That does not make his deed any less evil or her in any way responsible, but I'm just trying to noodle my brain around how that would not prompt a "WTF are you doing?!" from the woman in that scenario.
@TheMac: The article suggests that the mistress never knew he was married. Erin had a pattern of deception with women not his wife (and his wife). Plus, his wife made it quite effortless for him to cheat. She kind of turned a blind eye and accepted it, accepted that her husband would be gone for days, weeks at a time. So I'm inclined to believe that the mistress never knew she was a mistress.
No woman should be forced to carry a child to term against her will or abort against her will. We can find this man's actions reprehensible without getting into the fetus/baby issue.
@Our Lady of the Massacre: Sure we can. But why stop there? Is it just so we don't have to consider the implications of what it may mean if this crime constitutes a 'murder'?
@Benny: Yes. What fracking business is it of YOURS? The "implications" are that the woman concerned will have to worry about any consequences of the termination of HER pregnancy, not you. It is none of your business, unless YOU are pregnant. And remember, per the Republican Party, the last thing we want is for anyone to come between a woman and her doctor. @Our Lady: well put.
@Our Lady of the Massacre: It's about choice, either way. Choice and only choice: nobody can take that away from a woman, whether the choice is to proceed or not to proceed.
@If_I_Had_a_Poodle:
In general I think depicting the 'pro life' position as being anti choice misses the far more fundamental point at issue, which is the question of whether a foetus has moral entitlements. It's only once you accept the premise that it does not that questions of autonomy really come into play. If, on the other hand, you side with those who think a foetus does have rights, then being pro life is as much about limiting women's options as is sticking up for the rights of new borns.
As concerns these kinds of cases in particular however, to reduce the matter to being merely about the freedom to choose is to run the risk of actually perpetuating the offence against the mother, negating the life of her unborn baby as though it were a mere preference, rather than her child.
Men who commit this kind of crime do more than attempt to take away their partner's liberty. They attempt ( successfully, in two the examples above) to take away her baby.
@Benny: It doesn't run that risk unless you're thinking of the mother as a baby container rather than as a person whose bodily integrity was assaulted. Which you seem to be doing.
@MissNormaDesmond: Nope. Though I'm interested to hear how you could have possibly taken that from my comments. I'll assume that you're not merely stooping to lazy, trivial, knee-jerk bullying tactics merely because someone raised questions you are uncomfortable with, and that you will therefore have something of substance to say.
To clarify my point, as you seem to have missed it, women are capable of being intimately bonded with their unborn child during pregnancy. The crime against those women who have had abortions induced against their will is not merely that they have been deprived of options. They have been deprived of their son or daughter forever. To deny them justice for that offence is to perpetuate it.
@Benny: "Bullying"? Are you serious? I disagreed with you. Surely you're not this delicate.
To clarify my point, which you've beyond all doubt missed, no one is suggesting that they be denied justice for the crime committed against them, which was assault with depraved indifference. You are suggesting that justice demands that their attacker be charged with a crime against their fetus, which is what a murder charge would be. You are totally overlooking the woman as a victim in favor of her fetus, and doing it in the most condescending, paternalistic way possible.
Thanks, by the way, for explaining to me how women feel about pregnancy. I was definitely in need of your insight on the matter.
@Benny: We agree, sort of. It is an assault on the woman. And if the woman is carrying a pregnancy she wants then it is an assault on her pregnancy as well.
@Benny: I am totally pro choice and I am comfortable saying that causing an abortion to someone who wanted to be pregnant is a vile assault against the woman and her baby. It doesn't give the baby rights over the woman to say that.
But again, your assumptions about my position are incorrect. I'm not overlooking that the woman is a victim. I am indicating that I believe her to be a victim of multiple crimes, each of which ought to be acknowledged. I also said absolutely nothing about crimes against the fetus, though that merits discussion as well.
And yes, attempting to silence people who disagree with you by calling them woman haters is the tactic of a bully.
@Benny: You don't have to decide a fetus has moral entitlements to still have laws on the books that make it a crime (including a crime of murder) to intentionally kill a fetus, while making an exception for an abortion that the mother (or someone legally authorized on her behalf) consents to. The majority of states have those laws. These statutes do ultimately make it an issue of choice on the part of the mother while at the same time making sure that "the offence against the mother" as you put it is not "perpetuated." It's a murder in most states.
You can obviously have a philosophical argument about whether that is inconsistent with the laws regarding abortion, but in reality and practice, it's well-settled law that the two types of laws can/do co-exist.
There's also a pro-choice abortion angle. If you shut down safe abortions, you'll inevitably force women to attain abortions illegally -- the rich ones will simply fly to Canada, but the poor ones will resort to dangerous methods like the ones used by these psychos.
When I was in high school, the righteous daughter of the righteous Conservative minister got an abortion. Her father -- the pro-life hypocrite/minister -- drove her from Georgia to Florida so that it wouldn't be in the state records.
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The term fetus is merely used to describe a stage of a human being's development and is a reference to location more than anything else. It is the equivalent of 'toddler' or 'kindergartener'. If a woman gives birth to a baby in the afternoon it is not the case that in the morning it was some mysterious other being known as a fetus. No major physical transformation has occurred, the baby has simply left the womb.
To declare that a child is not a child simply because it is at a stage of development where either we can't see it without a UV or it doesn't look much like the children we see running around in the park is the height of fatuity.
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Why does the woman get to unilaterally choose?
Say you have sex, you use precautions, but they fail and the woman "falls" pregnant. If she doesn't want it, but the man does, too bad... she has an abortion. The father's wishes do not count...and I agreee, you shouldn't force a woman to have a baby she doesn't want.... But if she does want the baby and the man doesn't, she not only can keep it, but she can make the unwilling father pay for the child.....where is the "choice " there?
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The law can deal only with the limitations of physical reality. Paternity of the fully separate, breathing human being cannot be determined until there is such a person around. The legal relationship between these two people is NOT connected to the other biological parent. Therefore, child support is due to a person who had no input into continuation of someone else's pregnancy either, even if they were the person who eventually resulted from it.
Such is why no state holds a man financially responsible for the pregnancy of a woman who is not his wife. The issue is regarded as HER medical condition which carries risks only to her and carries financial demands no matter which path she chooses. There's a financial cost and health risk to termination. There's a much greater financial cost and much greater health risk in continuing the pregnancy. Those costs and risks are the woman's alone, since it's happening only to her. (Men married to the pregnant woman are still assumed to paternity, therefore most states have some financial obligation to him in that case.)
This is AS equal a treatment the law can assign for a condition occurring solely in the body of only one of the partners and who has no legal partnership with the other.
After birth, there's a NEW person with new obligations. BOTH parents owe this new person support and companionship. There is no inequality in this situation at law either, though there is a case to be made for inequal application of the law.
Where inequality exists is in the relationship to the new, third person. In all states, it is easier for the woman to terminate that legal relationship than it is for a man proven to have paternity. If you want to take your inequal protection issue to any platform, it's THERE that you want to look.
The law can change that, but it cannot change biology for you to make it all conveniently equal.
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Choice is the point, and the point is choice: a woman whose wanted pregnancy is forcibly taken from her is the victim of a crime, as surely as a woman whose unwanted pregnancy is forced on her is.
Agency, intention and choice, now and forever, are the basic reproductive freedoms and protections women require -- which would include financial support for women who are pregnant and whose abortions aren't really a choice at all when fear of being unable to support themselves and/or a child are the deciding factors
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[Edited to add]Sorry, looking more closely I realize that you never specifically advocated a murder charge; I was confusing this with a different thread. I would call this assault with depraved indifference, by the way.
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i think it should be a crime to cause a miscarriage
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This defendant was sentenced to life in prison without the possibility of parole. He is 25.
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Isn't that like telling your angry cop boyfriend something he...uh...doesn't want to hear? Like, why take the chance?
Let that shit marinate for a minute.
*joking
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Instead, I am going to focus on the phrase, she "fell pregnant." Those Brits really do know how to speak English with panache.
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Somehow they allude to the pregnancy without even implying she had sex. How do they do it?
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In general I think depicting the 'pro life' position as being anti choice misses the far more fundamental point at issue, which is the question of whether a foetus has moral entitlements. It's only once you accept the premise that it does not that questions of autonomy really come into play. If, on the other hand, you side with those who think a foetus does have rights, then being pro life is as much about limiting women's options as is sticking up for the rights of new borns.
As concerns these kinds of cases in particular however, to reduce the matter to being merely about the freedom to choose is to run the risk of actually perpetuating the offence against the mother, negating the life of her unborn baby as though it were a mere preference, rather than her child.
Men who commit this kind of crime do more than attempt to take away their partner's liberty. They attempt ( successfully, in two the examples above) to take away her baby.
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To clarify my point, as you seem to have missed it, women are capable of being intimately bonded with their unborn child during pregnancy. The crime against those women who have had abortions induced against their will is not merely that they have been deprived of options. They have been deprived of their son or daughter forever. To deny them justice for that offence is to perpetuate it.
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To clarify my point, which you've beyond all doubt missed, no one is suggesting that they be denied justice for the crime committed against them, which was assault with depraved indifference. You are suggesting that justice demands that their attacker be charged with a crime against their fetus, which is what a murder charge would be. You are totally overlooking the woman as a victim in favor of her fetus, and doing it in the most condescending, paternalistic way possible.
Thanks, by the way, for explaining to me how women feel about pregnancy. I was definitely in need of your insight on the matter.
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But again, your assumptions about my position are incorrect. I'm not overlooking that the woman is a victim. I am indicating that I believe her to be a victim of multiple crimes, each of which ought to be acknowledged. I also said absolutely nothing about crimes against the fetus, though that merits discussion as well.
And yes, attempting to silence people who disagree with you by calling them woman haters is the tactic of a bully.
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You can obviously have a philosophical argument about whether that is inconsistent with the laws regarding abortion, but in reality and practice, it's well-settled law that the two types of laws can/do co-exist.
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When I was in high school, the righteous daughter of the righteous Conservative minister got an abortion. Her father -- the pro-life hypocrite/minister -- drove her from Georgia to Florida so that it wouldn't be in the state records.