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    Image of miss_msry miss_msry
    09/29/09

    In reply to A Very Gawker Wedding Announcement: Kerry McCashin, Chris Batty
    First: Why didn't I read this in the NYTimes first?

    Second: There can be absolutely nothing wrong with a wedding that includes an oyster bar.

    Third: Are oysters kosher?
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    Image of Foster Kamer Foster Kamer
    09/28/09

    In reply to A Very Gawker Wedding Announcement: Kerry McCashin, Chris Batty
    Mazel tov to the happy couple. Also, James, well done. Are we veering into advertorial territory if I suggest you as a weekend sub-in for me?
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    Image of James Del James Del
    09/28/09

    @Foster Kamer: Ha, thank you sir. The Sorry, Gabe tag doesn't get used nearly enough.

    As for subbing on the weekend, I'd be delighted, as long as you don't mind each post ending with a prominent ZING.
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    Image of BxgrlJeri BxgrlJeri
    09/28/09

    In reply to A Very Gawker Wedding Announcement: Kerry McCashin, Chris Batty
    Congrats....but Kerry, please rethink the name taking thing.
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    Image of Ryan Tate Ryan Tate
    09/28/09

    In reply to A Very Gawker Wedding Announcement: Kerry McCashin, Chris Batty
    Congratulations, Chris!
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    Image of Phyllis Nefler Phyllis Nefler
    09/28/09

    In reply to A Very Gawker Wedding Announcement: Kerry McCashin, Chris Batty
    I'm too lazy to click through. Do any of these include photographic evidence of the alleged "plastic-like" tuxedo? Please advise.
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    Image of Phyllis Nefler Phyllis Nefler
    09/28/09

    @Phyllis Nefler: Ah, I think we have a winner with #5. It is quite shiny.
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    Image of James Del James Del
    09/28/09

    @Phyllis Nefler: Yes.
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    Image of MattGaymon MattGaymon
    09/28/09

    @James Del: Well played in particular. Your eyebrows are profound, and tux terrific.
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    Image of James Del James Del
    09/28/09

    @MattGaymon: They are all natural. Thank you.
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    Image of Foster Kamer Foster Kamer
    09/28/09

    @Phyllis Nefler: Jesus, it looks like he's wearing starched Lycra. I kind of want one.
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    Image of pinksphinx pinksphinx
    09/28/09

    In reply to A Very Gawker Wedding Announcement: Kerry McCashin, Chris Batty
    who is tall cutie in the bowtie (left) in the group shots with orange dress..?
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    Image of James Del James Del
    09/28/09

    @pinksphinx: We call him Drago.
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    Image of Richard Lawson Richard Lawson
    09/28/09

    In reply to A Very Gawker Wedding Announcement: Kerry McCashin, Chris Batty
    Denton and Erin dancing is a transcendent snap.
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    Image of Ron_Obvious Ron_Obvious
    09/28/09

    In reply to A Very Gawker Wedding Announcement: Kerry McCashin, Chris Batty
    That "coniferous outback" has some of the greatest golf courses on the planet! Oh, and, er, is the blonde in the orange dress married or dating anyone steadily?
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    Image of James Del James Del
    09/28/09

    @Ron_Obvious: Oh, she most certainly is not. I'll be sure to pass the love along.
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    Image of Ron_Obvious Ron_Obvious
    09/28/09

    @James Del: Thanks, James. She is intriguing, indeed.
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    Image of iplaudius iplaudius
    09/28/09

    In reply to A Very Gawker Wedding Announcement: Kerry McCashin, Chris Batty
    “Her father is a world renowned equine veterinarian”: i.e., he knows his way around a shotgun.

    Seriously, well done on the novel and apropos use of the sponsored post, and congratulations all.
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    Image of MattGaymon MattGaymon
    09/28/09

    In reply to A Very Gawker Wedding Announcement: Kerry McCashin, Chris Batty
    I don't know any of you but congrats, everyone looks handsome/beautiful and happy.
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    Image of Uncle_Billy_Slumming Uncle_Billy_Slumming
    09/28/09

    @MattGaymon:

    Dunno. I was thinking that, excepting the beautiful bride, the men in these photos are significantly better looking (in the conventional sense) than the women.
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    Image of James Del James Del
    09/28/09

    @Uncle_Billy_Slumming: Gawker is a media company built by a gay man, it makes sense when you think about it.

    That said, you're completely wrong...the women I work with are all beautiful (we have incredibly high standards). Tuxedos automatically make dudes look 100x more attractive than we actually are.
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    Image of MattGaymon MattGaymon
    09/29/09

    @Uncle_Billy_Slumming: What she said.
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    Image of Richard Blakeley Richard Blakeley
    09/28/09

    In reply to A Very Gawker Wedding Announcement: Kerry McCashin, Chris Batty
    Awww you guys look adorable! I am very happy for you both.
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    Image of ninety_nine ninety_nine
    06/14/09

    In reply to Kiss The Ring: Bank Of America Takes Mercy On Their Pitiful, Ant-Like, Broke Customers
    It should be generally noted that banks processing debits and credits in a specific order. Meaning that they take money OUT of your account FIRST, then put money in. Regulatory changes over the past couple years regarding settlement have evolved, but I don't see that stuff regularly, so I don't know what is required (some banks are 'nicer' than others). Generally, think of all daily transactions as happening after the bank closes (say, 6PM). All withdrawals (debits) -- checks, ATMs, etc., occur in order they arrive, followed by credits -- deposits, refunds, transfers -- then flow in. Generally, if you end up with a positive balance after the credits are processed, you will be okay. But if a deposited check is not fully available, you might be overdrawn (which is when your current balance and available balance are unequal). Mileage may vary, due to the type of relationship you have, the bank, etc.


    This, strictly speaking, isn't how it happens, allowing for things like deposit availability (when a check clears), but understand that if you deposit cash at 4PM Monday that covers a series of transactions from the weekend that would make you overdrawn does not guarantee you won't get hit with a bundle of overdraft fees. Rationally speaking, it should (after all, if the bank is zeroing out all your daily transactions at once, no money has been lost if you end up with a positive balance), but, you know, banks. If you imagine that an overdrawn amount as a bell that rings every time you are mathematically in the red, you can see how the bell rings five times before you cash deposit hits, and voila, 5 overdraft fees, even though by 7PM Monday your account is adequately funded.


    Until federal bank regs are overhauled so that settlement occurs immediately (something that is, generally speaking, technically viable), you can fume at banks all you want, but you can't really stop them, so keep the above in mind, since it mirrors the way accounts were processed before ATMs (this is the 'batch processing' that Gladwell was referring to in his latest opus of idiocy) and various settlement advances happened. It should generally protect you from fee problems, but also will constrain your spending. Just because online banking looks immediate and feels like it is the last word, it may well not be the case.


    Generally, avoid combo ATM/Debit cards, and use a monthly intermediary like AMEX to fund card purchasing, or online payments (like PayPal), unless you check on or manage your frequently. AMEX requires more discipline, but the liability issues about a Debit card are not worth the headache, and AMEX has excellent fraud management. When you use AMEX, you are basically withholding final settlement of your liability, which is not a bad personal policy, provided you manage your cash. It will be the only leverage you get, so take what you can, since everyone else is. Your employer makes you wait two weeks for pay, the government holds your estimated takes up to a year before issuing the refund you are due, so why shouldn't you delay final settlement as long as possible?

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    Image of Foster Kamer Foster Kamer
    06/14/09

    @ninety_nine: Don't I owe you a beer or something?
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    Image of Mediahohoho Mediahohoho
    06/13/09

    In reply to Kiss The Ring: Bank Of America Takes Mercy On Their Pitiful, Ant-Like, Broke Customers
    And I promise you these fucks are protected by every relevant congress member and senator of both parties. The ownership class of America see us all as being beneath dirt and worthy only of stealing from. Usury protection? Don't ask for help from Joe Biden or Chris Dodd. They're laughing their asses off about this.
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    Image of Mediahohoho Mediahohoho
    06/13/09

    In reply to Kiss The Ring: Bank Of America Takes Mercy On Their Pitiful, Ant-Like, Broke Customers
    Here's a suggestion for changing the banking system permanently and making them heel to consumers: stop paying your credit card balances. Sure, if just one of us does it, they'll be screwed. If everyone does it, the banks will be fucked. As they should be. Fuck. Them.
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    Image of JuliaJolie JuliaJolie
    06/13/09

    In reply to Kiss The Ring: Bank Of America Takes Mercy On Their Pitiful, Ant-Like, Broke Customers
    Here's what happened to me:

    - Checked my Online Banking at 2am, morning of June 9th

    - Went in to deposit $140 cash as a $575 cheque was going to be pending any day now, which would have left me $60 overdrawn without the $140

    - Put in cash, avail immediately, went back home, Online Banking statement AND branch employee says it went through

    - June 10: OB statement says $575 cheque went through on 8th (???)

    - 0.47 transaction (charge for international cancer donation, why??)

    - MBTA transaction had been pulled out on 28th June and re-posted on June 8th

    - 7 transactions rearranged from highest to lowest including cheque and processed BEFORE $140 cash went in, resulting in 6 overdraft fees


    So they fudged the date on my cheque, pulled out and put back in a transaction, and rearranged the transactions from highest to lowest to maximise their overdrafts.


    And then they tell me to use Online Banking to keep track of my fucking account!


    FUCK BofA. No sane human being can keep up with these constant mindfucks. Instead of having almost $80 in my account I am now $98 overdrawn.

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    Image of AndIAmTellingYou AndIAmTellingYou
    06/15/09

    @JuliaJolie: BofA does this all the time with me, too. I check my balance before purchases or withdrawals, yet they constantly change the dates on transactions, and then by payday I'm been down nearly $100 in overdraft fees.


    Their shady "accounting" has me looking for another bank.

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