@RandomLunatic: Thank you for someone finally acknowledging this failed attempt at fame Rob has already tried to pull.
Rob's word is just as non-credible as Henne's is. I wouldn't believe anything Rob says about this guy, or anything else for that matter. #boyintheballoon
Well, this changes everything. So when Einstein posited that E =MC2, the "E" stood for entertainment? So then "M" stood for massive ego, and "C" still stands for the speed of light...
It's not just socialism that's better than capitalism. It's feudalism too! Peasants would never think that they could launch themselves into aristocracy through some crazy stunt. #boyintheballoon
I don't think there is/was a particular problem with the broadcast of a story about the possibility that a little boy's life was in danger. I found it more unfortunate that the family chose to do the whole talk show route to enhance their media exposure. Nothing makes me sadder than hearing that Falcon Heene actually vomited during the interviews when his parents apparently wanted him to say he didn't mean what he said about "doing it for the show." That is one stressed out child.
It saddens me that the three children in that family have no one to step in and protect them from the glare of the media that his parents have invited in.
And it saddens me that so many people think that being famous is the answer to whatever needs they have when it should be intuitively obvious to even the most casual observer upon initial inspection that fame is, to use the tired old phrase, a two-edged sword.
I don't watch much TV any more and less and less reality TV. I learn about most of it from reading the web. I am beginning to think, though, that maybe there should be some consideration in the laws of broadcast TV that the use of children in so-called reality shows be curtailed or eliminated. It's one thing if you as an adult choose to do crazy things for fame, it's another to use your kids.
The one lesson that people who seek to become famous through reality TV that they never seem to learn is that once you start opening your life to scrutiny, the scrutiny doesn't stop when you want it to.
"Bluntly, I think Richard's ego blinds him to his brilliance." Bluntly I think someone's ego blinds more than one person to the idea that Richard might be mentally ill. #boyintheballoon
This post reminds of drug dealer logic -- "Yeah, we're selling drugs, but you assholes are buying them, so who is worse?" Um. THE DRUG DEALERS. No amount of self-righteous twisting in the wind changes that. And for the record, I didn't watch this story or read online about it while it was happening. I am not entertained by tragedy and I do not think I am in the minority. #boyintheballoon
@Emilyfey: Edits were made that, in hindsight, I should've been more careful with. My intention wasn't to pass moral judgment on anybody; it was supposed to be an indictment of myself, my employers, and the people who have the means to create these stories, as the people who made this thing happen with Heene. It takes two to tango. Am I sorry? No. But I wanted to know what the viewing public felt their place was in it. Some were angry at the media, some were angry at Heene, some were angry at reality television producers, some were angry at the gormandizers of these mediums, and some were - like me - just angry at themselves and the fact that they haven't found a better answer so far. That's all. The fact that this came out wrong means I fucked the dog, here. That, too, happens. #boyintheballoon
"Well, I hope you're all satisfied. You brought down a bunch of naive reality TV folks -- folks from Wife Swap, where values are...different. They weren't thinking about the money. They just wanted to tell a story, a story about a ballon boy, and you slick bloggers took 'em for all they were worth."
Fame is not "a hell of a drug." It's garbage for garbageheads.
Look at that photo, will you? He is a father who has neglected to provide STAIRS out of his home for his family, which includes three young children. He has not provided an adequate FOUNDATION. He has provided opportunities for his kids to fall and break their necks. That's all I need to know. #boyintheballoon
@BookishLookish: I was going to say -- "Why are there no stairs on the front of that house?" They look as if they are going to walk into an abyss. #boyintheballoon
Oh, for fuck's sake -- YES, we are all *so horrible* for caring and worrying that some kid might be stuck in a flimsy balloon 7,000 feet above the ground.
The fact that the local can instantly become the international doesn't negate the pathos of such events, and it isn't voyeuristic to watch and worry over a situation like that -- it's human.
Watching reality shows of the Jon & Kate ilk is voyeuristic (competition reality shows like Project Runway, etc., not so much -- those aren't even remotely "real life" and everyone's in on the setup and invested in the prize/outcome), but when this balloon boy stuff all started, no one even knew these people were reality show vets.
Seriously, what is with "news" people? It's like the Five Stages of Media Circus are Hype, Doubt, Blame, Self-Flagellate, Repeat.
It's embarrassing. Just stop it. Either man up and accept the sometimes uncomfortable truths following a story uncovers or get another job. #boyintheballoon
@JennaW: Actually, I think we would all be a bit better off if we didn't feign such deep emotion over things so far away from us, so far out of our basic areas of control. I wouldn't call the reaction (at least as I've perceived it) to the "balloon boy" situation "human" at all. It seemed a lot more like people gasping at a cliffhanger scene in a movie. I think a far more human response is "Wow, that's crazy, but I can't really do anything about it, so no need to sit here paralyzed in front of my television set all day waiting to see what happens." Why is it that, when shit like this happens, any reaction outside of unadulterated melodrama is thought to be somehow inhuman? Expressing emotions that are in proportion to the scope of the event, our proximity to it, our personal connection to it, and our ability to effect change or become personally involved, is an entirely "human" thing. So yeah, I think people who went crazy with grief, but who had no plausible connection or grounds for anything more than extremely generalized interest in "balloon boy" are kind of responsible for the way it got blown way out of proportion. #boyintheballoon
@JennaW: I tend to agree. I think this is one of the few stories where there isn't necessarily an implicit guilt among the audience. What was on television on Thursday was terrifying and breathtaking; I don't think I was any more voyeuristic for having watched that as I was for watching 9/11, another event I was entirely removed from, socially, geographically. There is a basic human empathy for the plight of the helpless, and the thought that there was a child who had or who could fall to his death was terrifying, so much so that I turned the television off before the balloon had a chance to crash and be found devoid of any occupant.
I'm sure for some there was titilation; the idea that a child might plummet to his death on national television might excited some bizarro macabre subset of Americans who feel no moral superiority and relish in the morbid. But I think most people care about children, and most people who watched this felt for the child, nothing more, nothing less. I'm surprised there is a media analysis of this, and I don't like the idea that "if it wasn't us, it would've been someone else." That's a bizarre defense, like saying if you didn't kill that person, eventually something would've. If Gawker intends to purchase strange expositing from muscle-bound electromagnetics afficianados, they should own up to that purchase, not haphazardly support it while they duck the rotten fruit being lobbed at them. This was an interesting story. In the beginning, it was a tale of pure 1980's melodrama: a boy in a runaway balloon, and that connected with a lot of people because it reminded us of a time two decades ago when this sort of simple storytelling could evoke such emotions. Then it became a revelation of deceit, and of people's emotions being used for someone's personal gains, another dialogue of the runaway capitalist mentality that defines the American way of life. And now we are at the stage of the proceedings where someone will be punished, and we will all have to reevaluate how we respond to sensationalist stories that have very little if anything to do with our personal lives. But there is nothing for us to feel guitly about (some of the sympathy and kindness shown in the live thread about the runaway balloon was spectacularly human and empathetic in a way I haven't seen on Gawker in some time), and I suppose any guilt being thrown around is really on the part of those who make a profit on these sorts of things.
But really, Foster, Denton, you are in the business of news, and a business makes money. Live with it, and move on. This self-reflection, for once, is totally unneeded. #boyintheballoon
@skt.smth: Most people I knew including me were interested and concerned but hardly melodramatic about the situation. I'm not sure you're on-notewith this as that isn't even what Foster was saying, as far as I interpreted him. He was talking about the culpability of everyone who even just followed the story which seems silly to me. Worry -- often a sort of reflexive, "Oh, dear! That poor family," does not equal sobbing hysteria or unhealthy attention.
I think most people would agree with you that completely freaking out over something like this is a little weird, but empathy for people going through a scary experience is not really the same thing. #boyintheballoon
@JennaW: I'm with you 100%. We're all more connected, so a story like this one, when it began last week, was like hearing my neighbor down the block met with a catastrophic end. I am bound to have an emotional reaction, and sympathy, and want to know a few details. And them I'm done.
And then to find out it was a hoax for financial gain...that would cause a bit of outrage and sadness. But it's hardly correct to blame me for having a reaction. And it's difficult to blame "the" media either, although if I watched any broadcast news I might feel differently about that.
The source of this is the author of the hoax, nothing more. I don't think he should be crucified, but I also don't think his responsibility in the matter should be shifted around because it got a lot of attention. #boyintheballoon
@JennaW: it's true what you say...as a parent, to think, my god - what if that were my son in that balloon. or as a coloradan to actually look in the sky to think it's possible to see this balloon... it's more of a 'can you just imagine'... like when baby jessica fell in the hole - the world was captivated. not because they were media hungry assholes, but because it was a riveting story and a human story. no one is to blame, in this case, that the story ended up being fabricated and twisted and manipulated. if your heart goes out - your heart goes out... and then you realize - what an asshole, famewhore, dick of a father. and you're back to square one. and stuck with the realization that people like this exist, families like this exist and the world is still the same place it was - only we just know more about people we wish we didn't know more about. #boyintheballoon
@JennaW: I think Foster is talking more about the people who obsessively followed the story, all of its bipolar emotional cues, than he is about those who merely knew it existed and then went on with their lives as normal. One needn't look far to find one of the innumerable breathless comments indicating just this tendency, for people to pull out the popcorn and the Kleenex, and stay in for the free movie of the day anytime something slightly troubling happens. Again, this shit isn't even on the news unless it snags viewers. And it's pretty clear that media wasn't holding us hostage via saturation, either, since there's plenty of evidence that people were lapping it right up the whole time. This wasn't just a case of "there wasn't anything better on." #boyintheballoon
@dippitydoo: There is something sad about that, though. Because you could just as easily imagine all of these scenarios all on your own. I don't need to see a news story about some guy being buried alive to wonder to myself, in a period of boredom, "man, wouldn't it suck if I got buried alive?" I'm not sure what the scenario being real (or in this case, real in a not-real way) really does for anybody in terms of imagining nightmare situations. #boyintheballoon
@IamnotStarJones: Here's the problem: the tabloids. They don't allow people like this idiot and octomom to fade away... hell, that stupid woman can still be found in current Us Weekly's "Stars - They're Just Like Us!" pages. (Disclaimer - I only know this because I recently picked up the mag to kill time before a delayed flight.) #boyintheballoon
Maybe this is the time we'll start taking consequences seriously. This famewhore thing has been going on since time began (as someone has already mentioned), but the rewards to the people who hunger to be 'famous' are bigger. now People in China know about 'Balloon Boy' now. But lately the price of this kind of fame has being making itself known. Rush Limbaugh has a lot of power based on nothing more than a big mouth. He has no particular education or talent or qualifications and he's a drug addict but has enormous influence. Up to this week, he has rampaged without stopping. But Rush Limbaugh wanted something but he was denied it this week because of his 'fame'. It's probably safe to say that the other football owners aren't flaming liberals either. Lots of people say worse things that Rush did and it goes no further than family and friends. But Rush's words have traveled far and he didn't make it to the big leagues.
People have sacrificed their children for fame before Heene. Lindsay Lohan used to be a talented young actress and now she's a pathetic joke because her parents were more interested in being on ET then on taking care of the thing that made them special to being with. And what about Jon and Kate and however many? Jon talks about his 'career' as if he's done anything noteworthy in his life other than donate sperm. We get to hear every ugly detail about their divorce because they each race the other to get to the media first. Meanwhile their meal tickets have to raise themselves. What's going to stay in my mind forever isn't Falcon blurting out his 'father's' secret but the sight of a SIX YEAR OLD CHILD vomiting his guts out while his parents sit transfixed by the camera.
Maybe we'll learn this time. Maybe next time someone tries to launch them on the international stage, we'll all stop and take a second look and see if it's worth it.
This kind of manipulated media circus isn't new. Check out Billy Wilder's magnificent 1951 film Ace in the Hole about how an ambitious newspaperman deliberately delays the rescue of a man trapped when a cave collapses. With a man's life at stake, everyone involved, media included, is on hand to make a buck, and the whole nation is glued to the story. #boyintheballoon
You missed the real the story, Kamer. (There's no joke coming). Everyday Real people are actually dying from ailments such as diabetes, cancer, and heart disease. There are missiles smashing into homes in Gaza, and bombs detonating in Israel, thousands killed in Sudan, and the public has become inured to all of this.
What this balloon incident has done is recast human frailty in a such light that, if only for a moment, revealed our ability to empathize with one another. Instead of lecturing us about television why not connect these dots for people so they can direct some of their good will towards greater NSF funding, and more accountability from public office holders? In other words, if we stop reelecting people who wage war, or fail to generate peace, and offer greater support for scientists--the real ones--we aren't all mad--then we can prevent many far more tragic occurrences than the one that supposedly awaited Falcon. With your help we can remove the stigma of "nerd" that engulfs scientists and diplomacy wonks, and make the world slightly a less hostile place in the process. After that, we can discuss ways of lionizing the scientists in the public's eye so that all women will insist on dating men of letters--but can talk about that later.
I think it is time to take a Prozac and look at this a bit differently.
Most conflict is 'manufactured' as it is people who are creating it; whether it is legitimate or fallacious conflict is really the issue. The fact that Heene-ious exploited his children and the goodwill of America is hardly Gawker's (or any other media's) fault. The responsibility to Falcon lies at the feet of his parents.
With blogs and the internet as a prime source for news, a full news cycle lasts about 30 seconds... or however long it takes a reader to refresh their screen, type a new web address, flip a channel, etc.. The starter pistol that was fired was fueled by a voracious desire by media to be first to report and by readers to get the most up to date info on compelling stories.
This was a compelling story from beginning to the sad end. The beginning tugged on our heart strings and the end was a piece of betrayal pie served up by Heene. A story worth of telling. #boyintheballoon
10/20/09
By the way - AWESOME CROWN, dude.
Jeez. The spirit of PT Barnum will never die. #boyintheballoon
10/20/09
Rob's word is just as non-credible as Henne's is. I wouldn't believe anything Rob says about this guy, or anything else for that matter. #boyintheballoon
10/20/09
Also, the streaking event he planned! Like I said in my comment, if I remember correctly it was way short of breaking the record... #boyintheballoon
10/19/09
Eureka! #boyintheballoon
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It saddens me that the three children in that family have no one to step in and protect them from the glare of the media that his parents have invited in.
And it saddens me that so many people think that being famous is the answer to whatever needs they have when it should be intuitively obvious to even the most casual observer upon initial inspection that fame is, to use the tired old phrase, a two-edged sword.
I don't watch much TV any more and less and less reality TV. I learn about most of it from reading the web. I am beginning to think, though, that maybe there should be some consideration in the laws of broadcast TV that the use of children in so-called reality shows be curtailed or eliminated. It's one thing if you as an adult choose to do crazy things for fame, it's another to use your kids.
The one lesson that people who seek to become famous through reality TV that they never seem to learn is that once you start opening your life to scrutiny, the scrutiny doesn't stop when you want it to.
Gosselins, I'm talking to you, too! #boyintheballoon
10/19/09
You could almost read Octomom, Gosselins, and The Heinous Heenes, as 3 acts in a morality play.
A lot of focus, lately, on the family:
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10/18/09
Look at that photo, will you? He is a father who has neglected to provide STAIRS out of his home for his family, which includes three young children. He has not provided an adequate FOUNDATION. He has provided opportunities for his kids to fall and break their necks. That's all I need to know. #boyintheballoon
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Hey, I type "foundation" in all caps sometimes too!
Construction contractor (as he's been described in a few places) that neglects to build stairs? This reality show has to be scripted. #boyintheballoon
10/18/09
The fact that the local can instantly become the international doesn't negate the pathos of such events, and it isn't voyeuristic to watch and worry over a situation like that -- it's human.
Watching reality shows of the Jon & Kate ilk is voyeuristic (competition reality shows like Project Runway, etc., not so much -- those aren't even remotely "real life" and everyone's in on the setup and invested in the prize/outcome), but when this balloon boy stuff all started, no one even knew these people were reality show vets.
Seriously, what is with "news" people? It's like the Five Stages of Media Circus are Hype, Doubt, Blame, Self-Flagellate, Repeat.
It's embarrassing. Just stop it. Either man up and accept the sometimes uncomfortable truths following a story uncovers or get another job. #boyintheballoon
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I'm sure for some there was titilation; the idea that a child might plummet to his death on national television might excited some bizarro macabre subset of Americans who feel no moral superiority and relish in the morbid. But I think most people care about children, and most people who watched this felt for the child, nothing more, nothing less. I'm surprised there is a media analysis of this, and I don't like the idea that "if it wasn't us, it would've been someone else." That's a bizarre defense, like saying if you didn't kill that person, eventually something would've. If Gawker intends to purchase strange expositing from muscle-bound electromagnetics afficianados, they should own up to that purchase, not haphazardly support it while they duck the rotten fruit being lobbed at them. This was an interesting story. In the beginning, it was a tale of pure 1980's melodrama: a boy in a runaway balloon, and that connected with a lot of people because it reminded us of a time two decades ago when this sort of simple storytelling could evoke such emotions. Then it became a revelation of deceit, and of people's emotions being used for someone's personal gains, another dialogue of the runaway capitalist mentality that defines the American way of life. And now we are at the stage of the proceedings where someone will be punished, and we will all have to reevaluate how we respond to sensationalist stories that have very little if anything to do with our personal lives. But there is nothing for us to feel guitly about (some of the sympathy and kindness shown in the live thread about the runaway balloon was spectacularly human and empathetic in a way I haven't seen on Gawker in some time), and I suppose any guilt being thrown around is really on the part of those who make a profit on these sorts of things.
But really, Foster, Denton, you are in the business of news, and a business makes money. Live with it, and move on. This self-reflection, for once, is totally unneeded. #boyintheballoon
10/18/09
I think most people would agree with you that completely freaking out over something like this is a little weird, but empathy for people going through a scary experience is not really the same thing. #boyintheballoon
10/18/09
And then to find out it was a hoax for financial gain...that would cause a bit of outrage and sadness. But it's hardly correct to blame me for having a reaction. And it's difficult to blame "the" media either, although if I watched any broadcast news I might feel differently about that.
The source of this is the author of the hoax, nothing more. I don't think he should be crucified, but I also don't think his responsibility in the matter should be shifted around because it got a lot of attention. #boyintheballoon
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People have sacrificed their children for fame before Heene. Lindsay Lohan used to be a talented young actress and now she's a pathetic joke because her parents were more interested in being on ET then on taking care of the thing that made them special to being with. And what about Jon and Kate and however many? Jon talks about his 'career' as if he's done anything noteworthy in his life other than donate sperm. We get to hear every ugly detail about their divorce because they each race the other to get to the media first. Meanwhile their meal tickets have to raise themselves. What's going to stay in my mind forever isn't Falcon blurting out his 'father's' secret but the sight of a SIX YEAR OLD CHILD vomiting his guts out while his parents sit transfixed by the camera.
Maybe we'll learn this time. Maybe next time someone tries to launch them on the international stage, we'll all stop and take a second look and see if it's worth it.
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What this balloon incident has done is recast human frailty in a such light that, if only for a moment, revealed our ability to empathize with one another. Instead of lecturing us about television why not connect these dots for people so they can direct some of their good will towards greater NSF funding, and more accountability from public office holders? In other words, if we stop reelecting people who wage war, or fail to generate peace, and offer greater support for scientists--the real ones--we aren't all mad--then we can prevent many far more tragic occurrences than the one that supposedly awaited Falcon. With your help we can remove the stigma of "nerd" that engulfs scientists and diplomacy wonks, and make the world slightly a less hostile place in the process. After that, we can discuss ways of lionizing the scientists in the public's eye so that all women will insist on dating men of letters--but can talk about that later.
10/19/09
Holy shit, I think I love you. #boyintheballoon
10/18/09
Most conflict is 'manufactured' as it is people who are creating it; whether it is legitimate or fallacious conflict is really the issue. The fact that Heene-ious exploited his children and the goodwill of America is hardly Gawker's (or any other media's) fault. The responsibility to Falcon lies at the feet of his parents.
With blogs and the internet as a prime source for news, a full news cycle lasts about 30 seconds... or however long it takes a reader to refresh their screen, type a new web address, flip a channel, etc.. The starter pistol that was fired was fueled by a voracious desire by media to be first to report and by readers to get the most up to date info on compelling stories.
This was a compelling story from beginning to the sad end. The beginning tugged on our heart strings and the end was a piece of betrayal pie served up by Heene. A story worth of telling. #boyintheballoon